heels dun wear too longs lor not good for girls all lo as will make u cannot pregnant n etc. i saw some article b4

Heels haf pros and cons...
it will help a womans posture, cos women wearing heels tend to walk carefully avoiding tripping which leads to falling down which leads to shame and women can't stand that...lol
it will also help shape up the legs (calves area especially)...so able to show off nice shape...nice skirt with nice calves with nice stilletos...3 hit combo...make buaya eyes pop out...lol
about the pregnancy issue, yes that is also a problem...bcos of the stress in the inner thigh...balancing on heels...
choose heels carefully for the right occasion...dun ever go for platform heels...u'll look like a clown(no offence to anyone who owns any)...

The answer is YES. Girls in high heels and black stocking is a major turn on and any woman who wears it properly will exude an air of confidence that can knock down a guy.

This post has been edited by Sonic boomer: Dec 21 2008, 04:15 PM

I usually try to not respond to this sort of threads, but this one just made me sad.

What is wrong with those of you (mostly girls, according to your tags!), who suggested that she should give in or compromise???

Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not an anti-heels, bra-burning mega-feminist. I personally would never wear heels for long outings. However, I know many women who do wear heels often, of their own accord, and I think there is nothing wrong with it. Note the key word here: of THEIR OWN ACCORD. They themselves believe that wearing heels makes them sexier, and they feel more confident... and therefore they wear them because they themselves feel that the benefits are a worthy trade-off for the discomfort of wearing them.

But the OP evidently does not enjoy wearing them. Why then should she, merely for the viewing (and sexual) pleasure of her bf? Yes, sexual pleasure... it's quite evident that the guy has a heels fetish. How could a guy who truly cares for a girl, keep trying to pressure and 'encourage' her to endure hours of discomfort that she DOES NOT WANT, simply because he likes the sight of it?

The issue here is no longer about whether wearing heels makes your buttocks stand out, or whether it's bad for your spine (both true, btw)... but about the fact that the woman should have the right to dress in whatever SHE feels good in.

This post has been edited by misao: Dec 17 2008, 03:21 AM

I so agree with this one. Guys dont seem to understand that we girls are just like guys too, we like to be comfortable and sometimes comfort overrules "beauty" or fashion.

However, COMPROMISE, GIVE and TAKE in a relationship is quite important too. LEts say if the bf wants me to wear heels for a 2-3 hour dinner date. Fine. Then he must do sth that he doesn't like but i want him too. If he can't, hahaha. Sorry im in sneakers thanks If there's a trend for guys do wear something riduculous and it really makes a girl happy, you can bet that the guy will NOT be follwing the trend, but istd insist that the gf accepts him as he is, minus ridiculous looking fashion style.

If he gets all upset abt it, take it or leave it. Here i agree, WoMEN shd dress in wtv they want. After all, its THEIR BODY!

i think my bf like me to wear high heel, and i love to wear high heel too, because i feel very confidence no matter where and when. for girls that not use to wear high heel, is pretty tired because is not easy to wear high heel for many hours...

Well I wouldn't suggest girls to wear high heels since it affects your leg ...

However I do feel that girls look more attractive in high heels.

... i know a couple where the girl is one head taller than the guy and she still wear high heels...

high heels make u sexy

high heels also give you back problems when you're older.

Im the total opposite. I prefer wearing heels but my bf doesnt like it, cause it makes me almost his height >"<

some girls look very sexy with long legs when wearing heals...

When girls wear high heels they should feel like they are on top of the world.

Consider yourself lucky to have a bf taller than you by default...

you, standing still without shoes you're already taller than me

I prefer Sandals, Mules and Stringbacks. wub wub.


This post has been edited by N's: Dec 23 2008, 12:30 AM

as long as my girl feels comfy....i wouldn't mind if she wants to go barefoot even.

how do you run with high heels? LOL

Communication is needed in your case..
You should ask him why is he keep asking you to wear high heels?
Is it because you're extra adorable with heels and he wants to show the world how gorgeous his girlfriend is?
Or maybe he is just asking for the sake of seeing..?

Tell him your feeling..tell him that heels hurt..and work something out..

My boyfriend loves seeing girls with high heels..the higher the better as it looks sexier...
When we just got together,he asked me why i don't wear heels..*i wear flats or pumps most of the times*
I told him it hurts and i am soo sick of heels due to my job..*I am working for events,so have to wrap myself really nicely while working*
And at the end he understood and i wear heels only when we're going to some classy places..or to match my dresses..

So..ya..communicate~~~~^^

sigh, i think i kenot wear high heels....
coz r almost the same height....if wear edi...sure will look taller..

i will tell my gf to wear what type of shoes she like as long as she is comfortable when she is walking