erm... don't see the significant point of high heels or no heels. Well, high heels may make a girl appears more attractive but to request gf to wear it is a little bit too ... demanding. I mean, it's just shoes. summore, wearing high heels is painful and inconvenient. In fact, high-heel shoes are n0t good for us (in long term) although it may burn more calories. Anyway, perhaps, u may wear not-so-high-heels say 1 inch ? moderation is the best. give and take between lovers. hehe.