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My height is 169cm and my bf's 173cm. It is like everytime we going for a date, he really prefer me to wear high heels. But whenever i wear high  heels, i ll look more taller than him(i got long legs). I dont reall like this kind of feelings. The wearing high heels will make me very tired and sick of it. I will only wear high heels for my presentations in Uni. I want to make him happy.. but i cant do the things he want me to do... sigh...
Do guys really mind and prefer gals do wear high heels?

I usually try to not respond to this sort of threads, but this one just made me sad.

What is wrong with those of you (mostly girls, according to your tags!), who suggested that she should give in or compromise???

Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not an anti-heels, bra-burning mega-feminist. I personally would never wear heels for long outings. However, I know many women who do wear heels often, of their own accord, and I think there is nothing wrong with it. Note the key word here: of THEIR OWN ACCORD. They themselves believe that wearing heels makes them sexier, and they feel more confident... and therefore they wear them because they themselves feel that the benefits are a worthy trade-off for the discomfort of wearing them.

But the OP evidently does not enjoy wearing them. Why then should she, merely for the viewing (and sexual) pleasure of her bf? Yes, sexual pleasure... it's quite evident that the guy has a heels fetish. How could a guy who truly cares for a girl, keep trying to pressure and 'encourage' her to endure hours of discomfort that she DOES NOT WANT, simply because he likes the sight of it?

The issue here is no longer about whether wearing heels makes your buttocks stand out, or whether it's bad for your spine (both true, btw)... but about the fact that the woman should have the right to dress in whatever SHE feels good in.