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Advice Wanted A girl that won't stop, What to do?

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knightdemon
post Oct 14 2008, 02:35 PM

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QUOTE(Mike3300 @ Oct 12 2008, 04:28 PM)
I've known this girl for a while, this girl told me before that she has feelings for me before but I'm not interested. I rejected politely and tell her to move on. After a while then she started to push me with all kinds of stuff like I really need you, try to forget you but can't, and you name it like other love related stuff. Then she started to dig information about me like my private stuff that she shouldn't know about. This is the part that I feel that she's over the limit. I mean, this is not the right way to know a person and to really know a person is by talking/communicate/chit-chat with him/her. She took the back door instead of the front door. I'm so pissed until now that she won't stop disturbing me, I scolded her and told her to just leave me alone but she just don't understand.  doh.gif

So any advice on how to handle this type of people? Thank you folks a lot!
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lol dude.. she's a big fan of u.. haha.. or she was ur wife in ur past life..haha.. now wanna get back together.. or u stalked her in ur past life they she's doin dat to u now..

how bout try not answering her calls.. or change ur number..??

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post Oct 14 2008, 04:11 PM

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I guess that I'm gonna continue to ignore, just ignore whatever it is. But my friends told me that I'm a mean guy, they told me to get to know her heart's feelings first. I don't think I'm gonna do that as I really hate people stalking me. Any advice on this?
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post Oct 14 2008, 04:13 PM

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QUOTE(Mike3300 @ Oct 14 2008, 04:11 PM)
I guess that I'm gonna continue to ignore, just ignore whatever it is. But my friends told me that I'm a mean guy, they told me to get to know her heart's feelings first. I don't think I'm gonna do that as I really hate people stalking me. Any advice on this?
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Get to know her. Be friend with her, then only she will stop.
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post Nov 19 2008, 01:01 AM

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Play some BMTH loudly whenever she's around to drown her out(MEDUSA) haha!
but seriously,u should get a girlfren quick so she will stop

BMTH FTW!!!!suicide season
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post Nov 19 2008, 01:33 AM

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eat and leave...thats all

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post Nov 19 2008, 08:23 PM

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Tell her to change her attitude
In exchange, you'll give both a chance for a relationship
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post Nov 19 2008, 10:15 PM

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A girl that won't stop, What to do?


Get to know her. Be friend with her, then only she will stop.....on your brows.gif brows.gif brows.gif
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post Nov 19 2008, 11:26 PM

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tell her you are not interested in relationship, but will do for 1 night stand.. hahaha
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post Nov 19 2008, 11:30 PM

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post Nov 20 2008, 12:41 AM

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QUOTE(Lamb Of Dog @ Nov 19 2008, 01:01 AM)
Play some BMTH loudly whenever she's around to drown her out(MEDUSA) haha!
but seriously,u should get a girlfren quick so she will stop

BMTH FTW!!!!suicide season
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QUOTE(jackielee @ Nov 19 2008, 01:33 AM)
eat and leave...thats all
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post Nov 20 2008, 03:40 AM

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yeah these people do not know the line between perseverance and stalking. They have tried their best and have failed,,any more effort to make the guy her bf is just overkill and will result in disgust and hate and nothing more. Sometimes a heart can be changed and sometimes it just can't. I would encourage you to tell her that things are never gonna work between you guys and that she should stop what she is doing or a good friendship would diminish.
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post Nov 20 2008, 07:53 AM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Oct 14 2008, 10:16 AM)
How I'd wish I was chased like this..

To TS, just ignore her. Sooner or later she'll give up eventually. But if until a year from now she still hasn't changed a zit, we'll you really f***3d up.. You have a stalker in your life..
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You cannot, you look like a freak and like to act cool somemore.
Fat girl see, also will run, so impossible you get this chance.
Sorry brother, wait next life.
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post Nov 20 2008, 09:37 AM

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QUOTE(hatekiasuppl @ Nov 20 2008, 07:53 AM)
You cannot, you look like a freak and like to act cool somemore.
Fat girl see, also will run, so impossible you get this chance.
Sorry brother, wait next life.
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f*** you also fat chick magnet. whistling.gif
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post Nov 20 2008, 03:14 PM

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Ts.. is this girl really chasing you for YOU or because for the thrill? whistling.gif

U know, some girls.. (especially popular girls or pretty/high maintance ones)
may not be so into you.. rather might be because u had rejected her, and she not the kind to take rejection..
so she might see this.. as kind of like a challenge, and you are the main prize..

I might be wrong though, so best is to apply 'ignorance'.. sweat.gif

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post Nov 20 2008, 03:57 PM

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QUOTE(janice_fun @ Nov 20 2008, 03:14 PM)
Ts.. is this girl really chasing you for YOU or because for the thrill?  whistling.gif

U know, some girls.. (especially popular girls or pretty/high maintance ones)
may not be so into you.. rather might be because u had rejected her, and she not the kind to take rejection..
so she might see this.. as kind of like a challenge, and you are the main prize..

I might be wrong though, so best is to apply 'ignorance'.. sweat.gif
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I think she's chasing for the looks, not for who I am. Obviously she doesn't really know me inside out.

Yeah, some girls like you mentioned just want the guy for fun or money purpose. Like you said, the thrill.. no offense for the girls.

Good news, after weeks of 'ignorance method' she finally gave up and doesn't disturb me anymore. Should I close this thread or let you guys continue to give in advice for future folks that might stump upon the same situation?
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close unless there's something for you to update, then reopen again tongue.gif
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post Nov 20 2008, 04:34 PM

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QUOTE(Mike3300 @ Nov 20 2008, 03:57 PM)
I think she's chasing for the looks, not for who I am. Obviously she doesn't really know me inside out.

Yeah, some girls like you mentioned just want the guy for fun or money purpose. Like you said, the thrill.. no offense for the girls.

Good news, after weeks of 'ignorance method' she finally gave up and doesn't disturb me anymore. Should I close this thread or let you guys continue to give in advice for future folks that might stump upon the same situation?
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post Nov 26 2008, 11:02 PM

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Problem solved and thread closed.

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