I've known this girl for a while, this girl told me before that she has feelings for me before but I'm not interested. I rejected politely and tell her to move on. After a while then she started to push me with all kinds of stuff like I really need you, try to forget you but can't, and you name it like other love related stuff. Then she started to dig information about me like my private stuff that she shouldn't know about. This is the part that I feel that she's over the limit. I mean, this is not the right way to know a person and to really know a person is by talking/communicate/chit-chat with him/her. She took the back door instead of the front door. I'm so pissed until now that she won't stop disturbing me, I scolded her and told her to just leave me alone but she just don't understand.

So any advice on how to handle this type of people? Thank you folks a lot!

This post has been edited by Mike3300: Oct 12 2008, 04:30 PM

She thinks that she know me well enough with the stalking and digging information, I've told her many times politely and in a nice manner until to the extend that she won't understand and it got to my nerves.

She even asked me before to just be friends with her, I seriously not looking forward for even this relationship. Yes, call me mean but I'm avoiding stalkers right from the start.

yukiz, I've tried but she's smart enough to know that it's all part of the act.

I think this is useful, but sometimes I really need to explain to her. I really am pissed with the part that she dug all of my private stuff and she think that she know me well enough from all that information.

That sounds fake somehow.

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Added on October 12, 2008, 4:43 pmAverage looking for me, most guys call her cute and pretty. Who cares about appearance wise in this case, her attitude sucks and need to be fixed!

This post has been edited by Mike3300: Oct 12 2008, 04:43 PM

Most of the guys think that she's hot, not until they find out about her attitude like this.

No, that's not gonna happen.. ever. I don't like her at all, certainly not gonna date STALKER.

Not gonna work.

Privacy purpose, no.

It's about my look.

Yes, I don't want any trouble between her and the girl I planned on this.

Even if she's pretty, it's a waste because her inner beauty is not.

This post has been edited by Mike3300: Oct 12 2008, 07:02 PM

I'm trying to deal with this the right and civilize way, you're not helping.

I guess that I'm gonna continue to ignore, just ignore whatever it is. But my friends told me that I'm a mean guy, they told me to get to know her heart's feelings first. I don't think I'm gonna do that as I really hate people stalking me. Any advice on this?

I prefer to play Chelsea Smile.

You're sick.

I think she's chasing for the looks, not for who I am. Obviously she doesn't really know me inside out.

Yeah, some girls like you mentioned just want the guy for fun or money purpose. Like you said, the thrill.. no offense for the girls.

Good news, after weeks of 'ignorance method' she finally gave up and doesn't disturb me anymore. Should I close this thread or let you guys continue to give in advice for future folks that might stump upon the same situation?

Problem solved and thread closed.