I've known this girl for a while, this girl told me before that she has feelings for me before but I'm not interested. I rejected politely and tell her to move on. After a while then she started to push me with all kinds of stuff like I really need you, try to forget you but can't, and you name it like other love related stuff. Then she started to dig information about me like my private stuff that she shouldn't know about. This is the part that I feel that she's over the limit. I mean, this is not the right way to know a person and to really know a person is by talking/communicate/chit-chat with him/her. She took the back door instead of the front door. I'm so pissed until now that she won't stop disturbing me, I scolded her and told her to just leave me alone but she just don't understand.

So any advice on how to handle this type of people? Thank you folks a lot!

This post has been edited by Mike3300: Oct 12 2008, 04:30 PM

tell her what she's doing isnt making u any fonder of her, and is instead ruining what minute chances she has.

talk in her language and she'll get it

talk nicely to her be a gentlement.

Eh...sounds like my friend's ex-gf.....
told her everything in reasonable way but she keep on doing unreasonable thing
So i guess ts no use in using a reasonable way to tell her things

Hmm, maybe u can try my friend's way
just ignore her when she try to disturb u by phone and msn
sometime telling something to girls to useless
they will think other way round

Hmm, just totally ignore her calls/sms/don't look at her if u bump into her outside etc. It might take some time for her to stop but she will eventually. Just ignore everything she does/says, stay away from her is good enough. Get on with your own life. Don't let it bother you.

Scolding or replying to her in any way shows that u still think about her. Just IGNORE her. I guess it probably works for girls and guys. LOL

She thinks that she know me well enough with the stalking and digging information, I've told her many times politely and in a nice manner until to the extend that she won't understand and it got to my nerves.

She even asked me before to just be friends with her, I seriously not looking forward for even this relationship. Yes, call me mean but I'm avoiding stalkers right from the start.

try avoid her?but i doubt that will work...

...ask one of ur female frends to act as ur gf to make her "die heart"...

yukiz, I've tried but she's smart enough to know that it's all part of the act.

more sounds like my friend's ex-gf....
I agree with just ignored her, blocked in her msn, ignore her sms-es,
she will stop it eventually

lie to her tat u r a gay .... i guess its the most effective way ...

she hot? pretty? sexy??? cute???
Or fat, ugly , disgusting, dirty?

I think this is useful, but sometimes I really need to explain to her. I really am pissed with the part that she dug all of my private stuff and she think that she know me well enough from all that information.

That sounds fake somehow.

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Added on October 12, 2008, 4:43 pmAverage looking for me, most guys call her cute and pretty. Who cares about appearance wise in this case, her attitude sucks and need to be fixed!

This post has been edited by Mike3300: Oct 12 2008, 04:43 PM

you got a serious nutcase stalker after you. is she even hot?

ot: you look so fierce. why?

Most of the guys think that she's hot, not until they find out about her attitude like this.

tsk,tsk...so far didn't encounter one yet...

anyway,y not u just play along with her,couple with her then breakup with her after like 2 weeks...

but b4 d make sure u humiliate her in front of ur frends sin...but u risk she revenge u back...

This post has been edited by yukiz: Oct 12 2008, 04:49 PM

No, that's not gonna happen.. ever. I don't like her at all, certainly not gonna date STALKER.

ask someone to pretend as ur gf

picts plox

what does she love you about anyway? ur look? ur money?

no use,she know it was all an act...


man,this case is similiar to one of my frends case,but instead of a girl,he was stalk by a gay... hahaha...

This post has been edited by yukiz: Oct 12 2008, 04:55 PM