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Advice Wanted A girl that won't stop, What to do?

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post Oct 12 2008, 04:55 PM

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QUOTE(yukiz @ Oct 12 2008, 04:54 PM)
no use,she know it was all an act... laugh.gif
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then kiss in front her
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post Oct 12 2008, 04:55 PM

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QUOTE(ling~ @ Oct 12 2008, 04:50 PM)
ask someone to pretend as ur gf
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Not gonna work.

QUOTE(siewkai @ Oct 12 2008, 04:51 PM)
picts plox
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Privacy purpose, no.

QUOTE(rainy~days @ Oct 12 2008, 04:52 PM)
what does she love you about anyway? ur look? ur money?
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It's about my look.

QUOTE(yukiz @ Oct 12 2008, 04:54 PM)
no use,she know it was all an act... laugh.gif
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Yes, I don't want any trouble between her and the girl I planned on this.
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post Oct 12 2008, 04:57 PM

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QUOTE(Mike3300 @ Oct 12 2008, 04:55 PM)
Not gonna work.
Privacy purpose, no.
It's about my look.
Yes, I don't want any trouble between her and the girl I planned on this.
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just ignore her..
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QUOTE(Mike3300 @ Oct 12 2008, 04:55 PM)
Not gonna work.
Privacy purpose, no.
It's about my look.
Yes, I don't want any trouble between her and the girl I planned on this.
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then u wear a mask
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post Oct 12 2008, 04:57 PM

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QUOTE(Mike3300 @ Oct 12 2008, 04:28 PM)
I've known this girl for a while, this girl told me before that she has feelings for me before but I'm not interested. I rejected politely and tell her to move on. After a while then she started to push me with all kinds of stuff like I really need you, try to forget you but can't, and you name it like other love related stuff. Then she started to dig information about me like my private stuff that she shouldn't know about. This is the part that I feel that she's over the limit. I mean, this is not the right way to know a person and to really know a person is by talking/communicate/chit-chat with him/her. She took the back door instead of the front door. I'm so pissed until now that she won't stop disturbing me, I scolded her and told her to just leave me alone but she just don't understand.  doh.gif

So any advice on how to handle this type of people? Thank you folks a lot!
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Is she hawt?
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post Oct 12 2008, 04:58 PM

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Just ignore her. Do not respond back to what ever she did to you cause if you do, she has captured ur attention and that's exactly what she want.

Ignore and ignore till you really see her like a stranger.
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post Oct 12 2008, 05:00 PM

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for my frend case,he opt for the confrontation method... (incase u didnt c,my frend once face similiar case with ts,but instead of a girl,he was stalk by a gay...)

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post Oct 12 2008, 05:04 PM

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you must be very leng chai.. brows.gif
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post Oct 12 2008, 05:17 PM

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QUOTE(Mike3300 @ Oct 12 2008, 04:43 PM)
I think this is useful, but sometimes I really need to explain to her. I really am pissed with the part that she dug all of my private stuff and she think that she know me well enough from all that information.
That sounds fake somehow. tongue.gif

Lol, don't let it get to u. I know how it feels, been there b4. But look at it another way, like my bro told me, "Don't u feel famous? Someone is trying to get to know everything abt u, ur like a star! BUT ur NOT..."

zzz... Bummer LOL
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post Oct 12 2008, 05:27 PM

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QUOTE(Mike3300 @ Oct 12 2008, 04:28 PM)
I've known this girl for a while, this girl told me before that she has feelings for me before but I'm not interested. I rejected politely and tell her to move on. After a while then she started to push me with all kinds of stuff like I really need you, try to forget you but can't, and you name it like other love related stuff. Then she started to dig information about me like my private stuff that she shouldn't know about. This is the part that I feel that she's over the limit. I mean, this is not the right way to know a person and to really know a person is by talking/communicate/chit-chat with him/her. She took the back door instead of the front door. I'm so pissed until now that she won't stop disturbing me, I scolded her and told her to just leave me alone but she just don't understand.  doh.gif

So any advice on how to handle this type of people? Thank you folks a lot!
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I empathize with you because i've been through that ordeal myself.

Ignorance in this case is your shield. Eventually she should get the message and give up. Scolding her again and again won't help because she's process it as a sign that will reinforce the same annoying bratty behavior again.

Her childish and persistent behavior shows neediness, which is a kind of selfishness that indicates that she doesn't really care about you, your desires or your responsibilities. She's only thinking about herself.

This is why sometimes I can't stand some girls who are overly dependent on relationships.


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post Oct 12 2008, 05:53 PM

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Intro her to the desporados in lyn and they will help you sort out the rest. smile.gif

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post Oct 12 2008, 06:28 PM

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congratulations TS, you got a number 1 fan. You know what makes fans' heart broken? A girlfriend.
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post Oct 12 2008, 06:29 PM

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just ignore her... like totally... even when she's right in front of you talking to you..
work wonders rather than you scold her and ask her to leave you alone.

chyu89
post Oct 12 2008, 06:36 PM

I'm not a gynaecologist but I'll take a look
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Is she pretty?
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post Oct 12 2008, 06:50 PM

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QUOTE(chyu89 @ Oct 12 2008, 06:36 PM)
Is she pretty?
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What does it matter even if she's pretty or not?

Or is it because you're so damn insecure that your pals will laugh at you just because you're dating a plain Jane? Grow up, kid.

Just because she's pretty doesn't necessarily mean she hangs out with pretty friends. Even average girls have their fair share of sexy friends, generally speaking.

Say, are you pretty yourself, so to speak? Nobody will bother to look twice if you say no. You like that?



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post Oct 12 2008, 07:01 PM

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Even if she's pretty, it's a waste because her inner beauty is not.

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post Oct 12 2008, 07:14 PM

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QUOTE(Mike3300 @ Oct 12 2008, 07:01 PM)
Even if she's pretty, it's a waste because her inner beauty is not.
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Precisely.

Only shallow-minded, vain pot drones are gullible enough to fall for obnoxious individuals because they're too fixated on superficiality.

They all deserve a Botox serum gift set for Christmas.



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post Oct 12 2008, 10:55 PM

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educate her la. u push ppl away they dont understand its not that easy to tell what your feelings want. It controls you
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post Oct 12 2008, 11:10 PM

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wow... how u know her 1...? unsure.gif
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post Oct 12 2008, 11:46 PM

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Can you just ignore the privacy issue??come on i want see your real face !!:D

Back to your topic: If gentle way is not working, try to use rude way.. hashing her, insult or whatever until she felt bad about you.. Still not working? Report police biggrin.gif

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