I am 39 turning 40 this year..

yet, i am still single.. and of coz virgin as i do not practice free sex ideology..

40 years old for majorities, they are already husband and father.. their life has gone into another phases,
organizing a family, educating the children etc..

yet, i am still as what i am 20 years back..

I just missed the part, too late for me to start dating, get married and build a family..

Money ?? Have some of it.. not too much, not too little..

anyone of u with me.. ?? where we walk the path of life differently ??

This post has been edited by mindkiller6610: Sep 7 2008, 03:28 AM

tmr go to buy the star.. go to advertisement section.. look a mid age 30 lady

want to know JS...?

U need a FB?

i had a relative with similar prob, we were soo worried that she might be single throughout the rest of her life, so we helped her to look for some1 and in the end walla she is married with 3 kids and she is 50++

family > being single (at ur age)

Geezz that is erm hmm ...... kinda scary when i think of my life at 26......

U male or female? I duno how to check here if thrs a way, teach me ba

Being single can be a bad thing too, like my cousin, she's 26 (yes i know big difference) and still single. I asked her why she still dont have boyfriend, she just stare at me and tears start rolling, shit i really dont know what to do

you better starts making a family..

Whoa bro... you're da real 40 year old virgin

I think you should start to try though. My uncle also got married around 40. Its not too late yet.

Yea, not to late to married at age 40+, my relatives Male married at age 44 and guess what, his wife only 20+ years old.

Pros Late married: More cash and more stable life

Cons Late Married: u cannot see your grandson.

so cham ar... cheer up! you still have friends...

you think that easy to start a new relationship?

Just as long as you're happy , everything is going right.

PS. my head is now ~~

Better sleep

Dude, what are your goals in life? It's never too late to start a family for a guy but it depends on what your goals in life are. If it's starting a family than i suppose you should focus more in that direction.

There are probably various reasons as to why you're still single whether by choice or decisions made in the past but most importantly are you weighed down by regret? Regret at the things you should have done?

Sometimes it's hard to move on and live life afresh when we are bogged down by our past that's why sometimes you just need to live life afresh and live everyday as if it's your last. =)

I have been through several mid life crisis dilemmas where i go through serious soul searching trying to find my place and purpose in this world but i've come to the conclusion that you don't live for the past or the present, but in the present you strive to make a difference to live a life that's purposeful. Do what your heart desires and treasure each moment for there are no second chances nor added seconds in our lifes.

Time is no man's friend nor foe, the choices we make will build us dreams or harbor us regret in time to come. So do what is noble, let not regret tear you apart.

This post has been edited by Tak3shi: Sep 7 2008, 04:19 AM

ur sig is evil! its making me damn hungry.

I agree with Bakmoi. as long as you're satisfied with your life, why should u change it. why would u get married with someone that you are not prepared to spend the rest of your life with just because society & your family says so?

Have u consider Vietnam or Thailand wife? If you just trying to find some one to accompany you and start a simple family, why don't you give it a try?

40years old virgin? Dont tell me u never go :W

Never die a virgin, quickly go Sillypore and lose it.

first step: clear your head.

ask this: do you WANT to start a family? not what others say, or what's the norm, or what your best buddy told you. do you want to start a family?

if no, then just continue with your life. if a family is not your concern, then don't make it a problem. if yes, then ask yourself, what should i do to get myself a family.

not excuses, or polyannish wishy washy foregone conclusions answers. "i want a family, and this is what i will do to get it." then you do it.

done. not that hard.

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Added on September 7, 2008, 4:36 amfirst step: clear your head.

ask this: do you WANT to start a family? not what others say, or what's the norm, or what your best buddy told you. do you want to start a family?

if no, then just continue with your life. if a family is not your concern, then don't make it a problem. if yes, then ask yourself, what should i do to get myself a family.

not excuses, or polyannish wishy washy foregone conclusions answers. "i want a family, and this is what i will do to get it." then you do it.

done. not that hard.

This post has been edited by empyreal: Sep 7 2008, 04:36 AM

maybe it's not simple like abc , but he must give a try at least..

i just wanna a girlfriend ....... hehehhe so long im been single..
dont have a time for searching .... got me i pretty awesome and i give you my DSLR.. arhh ..

you have just wasted 40 yrs of life

anyway, just dont die virgin

if u dont like free sex ideology, go to pay one

get ur own myspace or friendster acount... or get some adulfriendfinder wish you luck bro..

oh shit, after ive read that i need to get married and start a family soon

i realize i need to get married as soon as possible
after i kena "near death experience" for few times already

aiseh. i just 20. so better picking up a girl . just 'leave it' inside. all kawtim within 9month later. i got a child and a wife.

This post has been edited by detomaso: Sep 7 2008, 06:57 AM

try facebook application called speedDate

walau...this case is more complicated... LoL...
ts shld have socialize more in the past...anyway,there is a "vietnam bride" option which can guarantee u a wife if u r willing to pay for some $$$... LoL...

A popular movie comes to mind


Are you sure its because of your ideology and NOT because of your level of attractiveness?

Many people couldnt get laid even if they wanted to. Or the girls who are willing to go out with them are so unattractive/ugly/repulsive that they couldnt imagine themselves sleeping with her - ie. the pretty attractive ones are out of reach.



I was almost, almost... about to call "hatekiasuppl" (IMO, one of the best storytellers CC has ever seen) on you... then i noticed your post count lol.

I've been single for a long time too!
can we hookup on a date or something?

AIDS?

first of all.. Hahahahaha wow.. ok.. now srsly..

they say Life begins at 40.. so.. cheer-up! if ur dat desperate, lemme show u the woody-allen way.. what he did was adopt a child.. then when the baby grew to around 20.. he married her... he was SOOo old when he did but. she agreed to marry his step dad

+since u raise her from kid, u have all the time and 'privacy' in the world (as too did woody) to nurture her to 'look' at u 'that' way...

im not saying this is the best way. but it is a SURE WORK way

i suggest u look to adopt Kazakhstan girl.. they are cheap (free) and they all grow up HOT...

Cham...life still can be wonderful...

Oh ****. I'm 30 now. I still searching for pretty girl.

hello!!!!

lowkung, when you come to KL? I boil soup for you

Crap,after i saw this thread.

I think i'll also have the same problem in the future.

still virgin ah....u must have a big load down there..haha

to all virgin men, please contact me for free service of deflowering you.

thank you.

thanks for all advise, some are really helpful..

I came from future yesterday night.. my "future me" pay me a visit..I was back..

now this thread might will serve a good reference for me if I cant change the future down the road..

seriously.. it makes one think that when u have missed it, it is hard to get back to it..

so, appreciate the TIME and LIFE my friend..

speeceless ... mindkiller.....suddenly open like this thread...

means its fake ?? LMAO

hahaha this thread is pretty good.

Anwar? Is that you?

My aunt is in her Mid 30 too. SIngle. and a virgin too i guess.^^

u asked her izzit?

I din ask her but i think she is.

TS is a female ya?
Live A Virgin...Die A Virgin...

"Returned...Unopened".

women got six sense, can know everything

girl's club no ppl ah?

If u come from future no 1 gonna believe u and tot u got some prob in ur mind,
if u really are stop saying that.
Else ppl treat u as fr*ak

Nice service you have there... I’m sure your phone is ringing non-stop by now… Wait a minute, you didn’t provide any number, how are they suppose to call you lah? Haha…

no one there...
somemore TS post it here will be more popular ba..
here many freak...

ah, not freaks but weird and horny people

zomg i dont want to be like you

being single is ok wan, but u need to plant your seeds somewhere ...........

maybe providing service for defloration?
then at least TS "Return opened"..

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Added on September 7, 2008, 2:12 pmyou can plant it in genetic bank ah..with the condition...healthy and active

This post has been edited by francischuahcw: Sep 7 2008, 02:12 PM

healthy and active? we sillyporeans are good at that

ROTFLMAOBBQ.

He was my customer.

PM la. free delivery also. Buy you buy yr own vaseline and condoms ya.

My business: Happy's Deflowering Service

This post has been edited by happy4ever: Sep 7 2008, 02:18 PM

i cant imagine life at 40 being single when all of your friends already have their own family and life you are still wondering around

That's peer pressure
hahaahah

whoa... then u dun wan ur wife to become a young widow dun u?

uhh... my eyes water easily...

Its not too late My friend , If u are willing to change , U will make up what u missed out in all those 40 years in a span of months ??? U up for it ?

hv some money? get a Vietnamese wife 18K only

this thread.......... like warning to me only

Im must find a wife that is sexual active, if not I go out 'guan'

can found a gf already very nice liao
u still want guan

when little head takes over, everything is possible

so choose your partner wisely yah

that y i still single

hey what the hell is a guan ?

lowpo... will be back on time...

me too, but be happy cuz we still have freedom k?

cari mistress

LYN really got potential to be matchmaking site

guan --> berfoya foya...berjoli joli...

The 40 year old virgin

This post has been edited by Avex: Sep 7 2008, 03:15 PM

Just go to some club and -virgin. Wear dom dom. Go and try now or never.

In clubs, you are able to see age 40 - 50 people there with young girls. Maybe mainly because they are rich. They are not good looking at all. They are fat, bald and etc.

Me too.

Thanks for your patronage. The invoice will be sent to you shortly.

Becareful of what you wish for.
Women have multiple orgasms. once isn't enough. You need to hump and hump and hump, and focus on all her sensual points on her body (and hunt them out too) even after you have had your orgasm.

Otherwise, if you can't satisfy her, she'll look for me to outsource her needs.

lowkung, when??? i miss u!!!

same here......the porridge look nice.

this is not pasar pagi

Guys are like wine, the older they get the better they taste
Never too late to start dating again i'm sure

JS is unique in her own way.
Don't need you to help her advertise

Hi and Bye to u..... Hahaha.....



I guess u also very unique.. All gal are unique

wow really 40 year old virgin ar?

wow, i dont really want to say this, but u are one of the most PHAILED member in cupid.

me too and I'm really old.

get married at 40 and straight have baby, by the time you reach 60 your son already 20, can be a father already.

just make sure you brainwash your son all the time and encourage him to have unprotected sex during his teens...then sure get lots of grandkids!

exactly how old are you?

any real 40-year-old virgin here? i might have some contacts to help you out..

You got fetish for cats?

Its a tarp.

How old are you? How old is old?

this is because u didnt keep ur promise xD .....thats y still cannot marry..blek... ask u fast fast come..don want....

suddenly turn 40... crazy u xD

no worries mate, i married at kinda old age too... 36 to be exact, wife also same age and no child yet cos both financially not solid yet.

come to think about it, when u move on the bridge will be straight (its a cantonese saying )

u worried too much, end of d day its ur own loss... so be positive everyday & enjoy urself, we still have to carry on be it sad day or good days ahead.

TS do a lil fapping. keep it coming

you guys believe him? i doubt it .. i dont belive he is 40 ..

Go Thailand .. most of my friends did find relation at there..

Serious here don't think im kidding

y not? he probably is nerd/geek...or the typical 宅男 style..

Phew, luckily my son is 7 this year. I can still see my grandchild and great grandchild if I didn't die from lung cancer.

U hv hurt many single soul here.. 26yo stil consider young, ok?

Young i know. Im not saying that being single is special, but from what I see all her friends got bf/gf but she's still single, very awkward leh.

This post has been edited by JonSpark: Sep 8 2008, 12:17 PM

marriage is overrated, u check in but u cant check out