first step: clear your head.

ask this: do you WANT to start a family? not what others say, or what's the norm, or what your best buddy told you. do you want to start a family?

if no, then just continue with your life. if a family is not your concern, then don't make it a problem. if yes, then ask yourself, what should i do to get myself a family.

not excuses, or polyannish wishy washy foregone conclusions answers. "i want a family, and this is what i will do to get it." then you do it.

done. not that hard.

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Added on September 7, 2008, 4:36 amfirst step: clear your head.

ask this: do you WANT to start a family? not what others say, or what's the norm, or what your best buddy told you. do you want to start a family?

if no, then just continue with your life. if a family is not your concern, then don't make it a problem. if yes, then ask yourself, what should i do to get myself a family.

not excuses, or polyannish wishy washy foregone conclusions answers. "i want a family, and this is what i will do to get it." then you do it.

done. not that hard.

This post has been edited by empyreal: Sep 7 2008, 04:36 AM