here is my story

when i first like a girl, the feeling is just like heaven, everything seems perfect. then i start the chasing process, as i progress, i notice my feeling slowly fades along with it, and gradually fading till there is no feeling left.

why does this happen? no matter whetehr is before chasing, in the process of chasing, or even after chasing, the feeling fades?

I've seen my friends, they can chase a girl for 1-2 years, even after many reject, somemore ppl laugh at them, they can still go on.

but i cannot even chase a girl for more than 1-2months before my feeling go blank.

Why does this happen to me? why isnt the feeling like waht they potray in movies, novels??

how do i make a feeling stay and not let a single feeling fade?

ongpohpeng is that jew ?

he got married already?

may b you not yet get the girl you really love

all the girls i like also the feeling fade away in just few months.
how do i make it last?

Maybe you're not straight?

this is what happen if you chase a gal b4 knowing much bout her..

you'll feel you didn't really like her tat much or she's not the one you like =)

good luck making your mind =)

LOL, COZ U r not LOYAL

From : Legendary vampire

the problem is every girl also like that
before even get her already no feel, then the girl ask me why i never talk to her much, donno what to say

You seem to be addicted to the 'chasing part', that's why..
Trying to overcome it with 'chasing' even more girls is an utter failure..
Or maybe u just aren't ready? and ur heart's trying to tell u.. stay single for awhile and see how it goes

how to be loyal?

Lol... just answer, i no more feel with u lor, i am a heart breaker

but sometime, secretly crush for 1-2months, but before want to talk to the girl, the feeling fade

OMG OMG OMG It's Ongpohpeng

omg, it's ongpohheng

Loyal come from ur heart....... but in u, there is a contracdiction with ur brain...

That y, ur army in heart have lost the war

U playa.. Don't start relationships; go find FuBus only.

dont understand

computer,
Define: loyal

Coz your attention span is below average.

yes i notice

that's what i meant la.. it's the excitement / thrill you get when you want to 'start' chasing a girl..
So when you actually do it, then you might feel like no more excitement lo.. so u get bored and move on..
Common thing la..

So he created this thread for the lulz?

ask urself la why u fall for the girl. if it's just because the looks, no wonder.

any advice on how to keep the excitment going?
my friends can chase 1 girl all their life, and be so happy.
yet, i chase abit then all of sudden no interest, is it me only having this problem?

please dont bump up old pics

i like smart, nerdy kind of girls with glasses.

itu sudah berapa tahun punya gambar=.="

That poor dog

it was dead anyway

BACK TO THE TOPIC
serious guy, help me overcome this problem....

cuz u haven't find "the 1"... lulz

then u update us with newer pics

no feel before even get them, then don't chase lo

ask you nvr talk to her much, say nothing to chat lo

duno what to say , mah dun say lo

dun go around breaking ppl heart, coz what goes around, comes around

seriously? i seen some ppl ,first crush, already become bf/gf for many years wo.
I have soooooooooo many crushes yet none is "the one"?
and i thought the one nv exists? if my "the one" is in america, then i will stay single forever cause i cnanot stay long enuf on a crush?


i dont start want that again=.="

This post has been edited by BelowAverage: Aug 19 2008, 04:19 PM

.... dangerous like playboy heart...

have you seen ur big brother's pic btw?

iamnotamused.jpg

im not a playboy just born that way

well, its your parents fault that neva teach u how to appreciate.

why u and ur brother like sunglasses?

will you teach me??



This post has been edited by BelowAverage: Aug 19 2008, 04:22 PM

stop fapping. its messing with ur mind!

No offence.. hw old r u? Why so rushed to 'pak tou?'
You got a whole life ahead of u.. You can't force excitement..
Wait til u r ready la.. u don't sound like u r ready to be in a relationship, if nt u wont feel like this..
meanwhile, there's always the dating threads in lyn to keep u occupied..

and about ur friends happily chasing 1 girl all their life.. they might look happy, but deep inside are they really?
they are not gonna tell u that.. frm what i see in lyn, got so many guys asking advice why they chased the girl long long time but don't accept them and they pulak heartbreak..

mean you nvr meet a gal tat you really like and you don't feel like hurting her?

how is this related to fapping?

even my dog appreciate love better than me ( here u go king83, some photo for u to enjy)

im not your parents la wei

i dont even know wat is a playboy=.=" I know im a virgin and im staying that way till im married, is that related to playboy?

dont understand

You know why? Because IT'S NOT LOVE.. It's just a temporary crush/infatuation.

u are old enuf wut

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Added on August 19, 2008, 4:26 pmwhen i find love?
All this while, sooo many girls are all crush?
then how i know if is really love?

This post has been edited by BelowAverage: Aug 19 2008, 04:26 PM

Agreed

love is like portuguese egg tart

i got nothing to say edi

soft on the inside, and crusty on the outside?

is that a worm???///

you're just looking at infatuation.

when u have a gf for 3-5 years, you'll have held her hand for too many times, heard her speak for too long, and probably are getting bored of her antiques. ppl who still stay in long relationships dont do it because there's this 'sexual drive' (read: feel) that you are talking about. its just the feeling of companionship and care u create with time together.

so no, u cant expect to be sexually attracted to your gf forever. if it is important that you always act on this sexual drive, then as they say, go and find FuBus. there's no solution to ur problem.

infatuation fades with time. love only strengthens with time. wanting to eat a girl is not love, im sorry.

No...
once u take a bite, u'll never want regular egg tarts anymore

so u mean i should continue chasing her eventhou i got no feel?

"the one" comes from ur heart and mind... if u feel she's the one... she's the one... otherwise... good luck looking... being a playboy is not tat bad for u....

kidding la.. i understand.. it must be u haven meet the very lovely gal in ur life.... u have to learn appreciation

y la u want to break a girl's heart when she's innocent?

what he is saying is, the feel is just a portion of it. You have to decide what you want to do if there is no feel... its entirely up to you

ops!!! he said u r old enuf

puppy love

so its not only me that have this 1month feeling?
other ppl also have but they still continue?

omg
its up to u.

u probably spent too much time chasing girls. there's nothing wrong with that though. ur not alone. many other guys are players as well.

juz kidding lar... u watched Zohan...? maybe u r like him...

Lolz.. don't promote him bcome a player la..

wats a player?

means play boy la, my dear

wats a playboy =.= isit the pron magazine a?

post pic or i post

it's hitler!!!

alternative meaning: play girls, date em then dump them..

playboy magazine u oso like then how old r u now sweetie?

Lol... notty member... go paint people face

lolz.. cute

wah u so geng u got his pic even

i gave u 3 pics of my dog liao

Hahahaha....

told you fapping too much is messing with ur mind.

its making u forget the difference between reality and TV sh*tz ...

hahahaha..just kidding ma!sorry lo..but i cant help it..see his face so cute!!!

17 years old boy face

there is no shortcut in love..

for wat?

almost

Tell us hw old u r

ure 17!?

video? dont bump up old pic(get some free views here )
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVRBQIik8iE

lol, wrong post

This post has been edited by 7chai: Aug 19 2008, 04:56 PM

guess

Define yourself more & not to be serious everytime you speak to a girl. Don't me you're gay?

there's ntg wrong with being a player.
as long as u tell the girls ur just interested with short flings with them.
there's a lot of girls that are just looking for this kind of fun too.

jambu la TS

hello belowaverage, now my turn to visit your thread!

actually, i also will loose the feel after some time, my fire not strong enough maybe.

i dunno how to make the feel last longer, maybe its just being human.

by the way i see alot of photo of you, is that you? quite hemsem wat, i am sure got a lot girls will be tackle by you!

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