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janice_fun
post Aug 19 2008, 04:02 PM

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QUOTE(BelowAverage @ Aug 19 2008, 03:52 PM)
here is my story

when i first like a girl, the feeling is just like heaven, everything seems perfect. then i start the chasing process, as i progress, i notice my feeling slowly fades along with it, and gradually fading till there is no feeling left.

why does this happen? no matter whetehr is before chasing, in the process of chasing, or even after chasing, the feeling fades?

I've seen my friends, they can chase a girl for 1-2 years, even after many reject, somemore ppl laugh at them, they can still go on.

but i cannot even chase a girl for more than 1-2months before my feeling go blank.

Why does this happen to me? why isnt the feeling like waht they potray in movies, novels??

how do i make a feeling stay and not let a single feeling fade?
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You seem to be addicted to the 'chasing part', that's why.. sweat.gif
Trying to overcome it with 'chasing' even more girls is an utter failure..
Or maybe u just aren't ready? and ur heart's trying to tell u.. stay single for awhile and see how it goes whistling.gif

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post Aug 19 2008, 04:10 PM

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QUOTE(BelowAverage @ Aug 19 2008, 04:04 PM)
but sometime, secretly crush for 1-2months, but before want to talk to the girl, the feeling fade shocking.gif
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that's what i meant la.. it's the excitement / thrill you get when you want to 'start' chasing a girl..
So when you actually do it, then you might feel like no more excitement lo.. so u get bored and move on..
Common thing la..
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post Aug 19 2008, 04:23 PM

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QUOTE(BelowAverage @ Aug 19 2008, 04:12 PM)
any advice on how to keep the excitment going?
my friends can chase 1 girl all their life, and be so happy.
yet, i chase abit then all of sudden no interest, is it me only having this problem?
please dont bump up old pics
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No offence.. hw old r u? Why so rushed to 'pak tou?'
You got a whole life ahead of u.. You can't force excitement.. doh.gif
Wait til u r ready la.. u don't sound like u r ready to be in a relationship, if nt u wont feel like this..
meanwhile, there's always the dating threads in lyn to keep u occupied.. rolleyes.gif

and about ur friends happily chasing 1 girl all their life.. they might look happy, but deep inside are they really?
they are not gonna tell u that.. frm what i see in lyn, got so many guys asking advice why they chased the girl long long time but don't accept them and they pulak heartbreak.. sweat.gif

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post Aug 19 2008, 04:26 PM

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QUOTE(Kiraneko @ Aug 19 2008, 04:25 PM)
You know why? Because IT'S NOT LOVE.. It's just a temporary crush/infatuation.
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Agreed thumbup.gif
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post Aug 19 2008, 04:35 PM

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QUOTE(BelowAverage @ Aug 19 2008, 04:33 PM)
so u mean i should continue chasing her eventhou i got no feel?
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y la u want to break a girl's heart when she's innocent? rclxub.gif
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post Aug 19 2008, 04:42 PM

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QUOTE(nexous @ Aug 19 2008, 04:40 PM)
omg doh.gif
its up to u.

u probably spent too much time chasing girls. there's nothing wrong with that though. ur not alone. many other guys are players as well.
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Lolz.. don't promote him bcome a player la.. shakehead.gif

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post Aug 19 2008, 04:44 PM

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QUOTE(BelowAverage @ Aug 19 2008, 04:43 PM)
wats a player?
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means play boy la, my dear
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post Aug 19 2008, 04:46 PM

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QUOTE(BelowAverage @ Aug 19 2008, 04:45 PM)
wats a playboy =.= doh.gif  isit the pron magazine a?
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shocking.gif
alternative meaning: play girls, date em then dump them.. mad.gif
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post Aug 19 2008, 04:47 PM

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QUOTE(~bsj~ @ Aug 19 2008, 04:46 PM)
it's hitler!!![attachmentid=563577]
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lolz.. cute blush.gif
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post Aug 19 2008, 04:53 PM

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Tell us hw old u r brows.gif
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post Aug 19 2008, 05:03 PM

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QUOTE(nexous @ Aug 19 2008, 05:00 PM)
there's ntg wrong with being a player.
as long as u tell the girls ur just interested with short flings with them.
there's a lot of girls that are just looking for this kind of fun too.
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TS still very young mah.. Plus he don't seem to want to hv a fling, right TS?
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post Aug 19 2008, 05:05 PM

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QUOTE(BelowAverage @ Aug 19 2008, 05:04 PM)
wats a fling=.=

today i learn many words
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lolz.. nw i feel like a dictionary.. rclxub.gif
I malas describe.. ask nexous
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post Aug 19 2008, 05:10 PM

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QUOTE(BelowAverage @ Aug 19 2008, 05:09 PM)
The Struggle Front for the National Independence of Guinea (Portuguese: Frente de Luta pela Independência Nacional da Guiné; abbreviated to FLING) is a political movement in Guinea-Bissau. FLING was founded in 1962 in Dakar by sections that opposed the Marxist doctrine of Amílcar Cabral and the PAIGC. FLING participated in the national liberation struggle against the Portuguese colonial rule. In the international arena, FLING maintained relations to social democratic groups.

wtf?

somemore other google results are pron rclxub.gif
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now i'm lagi rclxub.gif
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post Aug 19 2008, 05:12 PM

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a brief casual relationship.
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post Aug 19 2008, 05:13 PM

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QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Aug 19 2008, 05:11 PM)
nice video i know how to play this too.. not so difficult whistling.gif  whistling.gif

Added on August 19, 2008, 5:12 pm
janice don choi him la... laugh.gif
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lolz.. i also finish work almost wanna go back home..
too damn bored so layan him then i chao tongue.gif
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post Aug 19 2008, 05:14 PM

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Now i time to chao.. bye byes
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