girl need to chase ah....?

why dont you just naturally become friend with the girl you like, slowly to know about her, understand, gradually, both will develop some feeling and will naturally become an item..

if you do like this.. love will not fade.. but will last

because every second you spend, you going through with her, will be a memorable between you and her ^^

hey dude, maybe u both didnt have the sparks, that is why u get bored easily and find no other reasons to hold on. i have girlfriends which get bored with their boyfriend easily, cause when it aint that deep, and there's no excitement, she will feel bored with that guy. Maybe it is just what it is, fated... so i belive every single relationship before u wanna get deeper, u think whether u have a future with her or not? what are her goodies and baddies, can u accept who she really is down the road? and do u really miss her everyday ? but, its kinda hard to realise at the start, cause everything is bed of roses by the way.. but just remember, before u even start it, think deeply will u ever hurt her one day.. cause, quite kesiannn.. if the relationship just comes n go so easily , wasting time. she might be hurt deeply too. cheers mate   good luck on searching ur soul mate

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Added on August 20, 2008, 2:52 am
solution is.. dont see things on the outter side, try to get to know her better, well, maybe u will think its better to be friends sometimes. after all, friends are FOREVER. a little sacrifice will leads to better things in the future..maybe !

sometimes... how much i sacrifice, but he will never change.. i thoght i can keep quiet and just act as if i dont know or not arguing.. but i have emotions as well.. i can't tolerate sometimes and leads to arguements. i'm thought i can do it but i can't. sigh, hate it .

My heart tells me to tolerate and not saying things which ticks him off.. still, i can't take no more .

is it really true? can u explain more by being a b****? like how......

I feel bad for my cousin in-law. She's hawt, but his husband (my cousin) treat her like those ah lai, I seldom see them chat in a husband-wife manners, ever since my cousin moved to KL, he changed alot.
I really pity my in-law and her childrens.

Dont flame with me with incest thingy, i tak fikir senget.

I did chat with her on phone when im free, she's a housewife so she's free sometimes. She's from HK btw. My nephew 9 years old very hyperactive when he sees me.

My cousin on the other hand WORSE, last year visit them he always show his black face............haiz