LoL......good idea

I'll hint him to get the thing I wan(although I can easily get it myself) for those special events like christmas, birthday, valentines and so on dunno just feel so sweet if using something I like and it's bought from him

i agrees with u also..
i also feel guilty and happy lor...
summore i got asked him b4...u owe me a lot of thing hor??
he said..ya ya...
then next time u belanja me lah ok?
u want me belanja u how many times also can...
but of coz sometimes he pays and the other round i pay lor...sometimes he is not happy..
XD

Hehe let's say if i'm eyeing on something expensive, like camera or LV bag, I'll start hinting few months before any occasions coming up, so he'll have time to prepare. haha But if cheap stuffs like clothes and accesories and stuffs that I can easily afford, I'll always get myself. Sometimes depending too much on bf to get something is very bad, usually will lose the power of saying.

me n my bf r both students n we both hv scholarship to support our spending..but his parents seldom gv him extra money,n i cn always ask money from my parents if im outta money..but we still share when it comes to stuff that we do 2gthr like dinner,movie etc..but we always buy our own stuff and only buy things for one another when we feel like 2..so there's no pressure..and when i gv him present or he gv me present,it makes it evn more memorable other then me waiting every month for his gift and suddenly he didnt buy anythg and ill get frustrated..i think both parties shud tolerate when it comes to spending money..cz relationship is abt the 2 of u,so y shud only 1 of u pay for everythg or mostly evrythg rite?jz my opinion tho..

well i dun need my bf to buy me anything...
he used alot d for makan, watching movies and travel around...
=P

how i wish i have a gf like u both aspecially the theory u both mention on it......but haizzz still cant found it yet....

This post has been edited by BuBuCai: Sep 17 2008, 02:03 AM

"dealuvsfaiz".....salute and admired u,such a nice couple undestanding both sides so well ......me,paktor with her until my account pok kai already...

we share everything together...
my fiancee use my car...so i use my bf bank card...
can r??hahha~
if deting... he will pay for movie, parking lot, n minyak....
i will pay for food n tol..
shopin? if i wan da expensive tin just like laptop or etc.. we will discus, n..da solution always like this:
he pay 60% i pay 40% heheh..
he must pay extra..bcoz he love me kan?

My ex-gf would asked me to buy this and that for her, i try to give in to her every time as i don't want to disappoint her. Yet, in the end she dumped me and got new bf even though we see each other everyday for almost 3 years. Can you imagine someone who's closest to you suddenly becomes a stranger to you, just a SMS from her asking for a break up. Eventually i did let her go... let her pursue her own happiness... That's what i can do...

gold digger

Hey,bro...truly understand ur feeling that been together for 3 years so long...sure gonna very hurtful. A girl who only knows always asked you buy this and that for her, even you got her together til after married, how much can you afford to continue buy for her??.....Find a better girl out there la, the world is huge....the opportunity still alot out there waiting for you,someone will precious you...find a true love instead of materialistic money-sign....Wish you best of luckk!!!....

i rather he surprises me when I least expect it.. or pay attention to the things I'm eyeing on..

otherwise, I'm fine with buying the stuff myself

Am not so lucky.

On any special occasion, I will try to buy gifts which my bf like or told me he likes, even though it is expensive or what. But he will simply buy for me. Am not materialistic but I do hope he will at least buy something I like or which I have hinted before. He is kinda stingy and he rather buy for himself. You know, I will save money to buy for him gift he likes but he save money to buy for himself. Well, I don't plan to buy anything for this coming valentine. Well, I believe, if a person really loves you, he will try to buy something you like instead of buy something he like for himself first. It is not fair.

Big deal , a lot of guys experience the same thing with their girlfriends. The difference is guys don't whine about it when a girl does that.

PSP, as far as i remember. i bought a PSP

I'd buy for myself. I don't depends on guys to buy for me.
Who knows, after break up, he will ask me to pay him back.

no guy will be dare 2 ask back for money $$
but for those who is money minded will ask for something back

There is.
Not because he's money minded, it's because he can't accept the break up, thus he will try everything to threaten her to back with him

Neah, just plain sad.

I don't wana celebrate Valentine...