me n my bf r both students n we both hv scholarship to support our spending..but his parents seldom gv him extra money,n i cn always ask money from my parents if im outta money..but we still share when it comes to stuff that we do 2gthr like dinner,movie etc..but we always buy our own stuff and only buy things for one another when we feel like 2..so there's no pressure..and when i gv him present or he gv me present,it makes it evn more memorable other then me waiting every month for his gift and suddenly he didnt buy anythg and ill get frustrated..i think both parties shud tolerate when it comes to spending money..cz relationship is abt the 2 of u,so y shud only 1 of u pay for everythg or mostly evrythg rite?jz my opinion tho..