Even if you would want him to buy something, don't need to "force" right. Just hint, hint, and he'll be happy to buy already.

my gf always dun wan me to spend on her,but i remember the last time i gave her a gift is like months ago..always wanna get something nice for her but no idea what to give..so should i keep searching? or listen to her..dun spend much on her?

no need buy gift la.....juz spend sumtime on her accompany her u noe wat i mean..... hehe sry a bit OT(off topic)......

well, i personally think that once in a blue moon if u buy just a little gift for your girl she is already happy.. she doesnt wan u to buy her anything is bcoz she doesnt want u to waste money.. its sweet that u have thought of buying her something nice as u said its been months back since u last bought her something.. girls will feel happy with just a little gift & not something that cost u a fortune.. its the heart it counts & not the value.. for me, i rather my bf buy me lil' gift once in a while than saving so hard & skipping meals just to buy me an LV tote.. its entirely depends on the guy's financial ability though.. so, ya.. u should keep searching for some lil' gift for her..

this is just my 2cents..



This post has been edited by chrissie: Aug 14 2008, 10:14 AM

agree.....LoLs how i wish i had a gf like u.........

my bf and i, we share to pay since we r stil students, so many things have to think twice b4 we spend....

this topic reminds me bout my ''ex hsemate''
he reli'' flower heart'' la, c this gal , like dis gal, c dat gal like dat gal, never stable, den everytime after date a gal, if the gal use lots of his money he will complain to me saying that dis gal not good la...etc...

i feel i reli wana scold him, : since u oways say u very rich, then spend lo, 1 day i oso dunno how he spend for a gal 1k...reli geng...but he reli stupid for dis lo, caz those gal might be love $ only...reli stupid

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Added on August 15, 2008, 1:44 ammy bf and i, we share to pay since we r stil students, so many things have to think twice b4 we spend....

this topic reminds me bout my ''ex hsemate''
he reli'' flower heart'' la, c this gal , like dis gal, c dat gal like dat gal, never stable, den everytime after date a gal, if the gal use lots of his money he will complain to me saying that dis gal not good la...etc...

i feel i reli wana scold him, : since u oways say u very rich, then spend lo, 1 day i oso dunno how he spend for a gal 1k...reli geng...but he reli stupid for dis lo, caz those gal might be love $ only...reli stupid

This post has been edited by pinkling: Aug 15 2008, 01:44 AM

am not showing off but i've been quite pressured nowadays when it comes to gifts ,

from her to me : prada wallet , PSP , seiko kinetic , and for my bday last month canon eos 400d

from me to her : prada purse + handbag , guess + ck watch , diamond ear rings , precious stone pendant , burberry purse

and our 3rd year anniversary is coming ... i'm gonna die ... seriously i really felt pressure , i mean ok she gives me something exp , then of coz when in return also at least something similar ... damm pressure le like that , so ended up discussing no more expensive gifts exchange

walaueh... talking about gifts.. i got flashback about my previous relationship with my ex.. i can't really remember what i gave her, since i'm kinda thick-headed.. but nothing seemed to be enough... oh well... back then wasn't working, now working part-time, managing better (considering that i'm not dating XD)

wah, no need oways branded and expensive stuff la...
reli crazy.... earn money very tough leh
i never work b4, last sem break i do my 1st part time job since it is my sem break....so tired....lucky the payment is ok, caz i work 20 days only then i get 1k...good paid, at least worth la...


for expensive things is ok, but not oways la, unless ur income very good la...the most expensive things that i got is valentine's day dinner...2 ppl about rm200..., but cant oways like dis , will pok kai la....

its only been 2 months + i would say.. listen to her !

agree with this guy

he would probably bang his head on a wall trying to think what to buy le.. lols

one sentence money or expensive item isnt eveyrthing,oni love,heart,efford,caring tat u put into tats count......

i only buy branded stuff on special occasion coz i hate being force to buy.
luckily my current gf very understanding sometimes she will buy back something for me. its not the price but her attention n it just feel so good
but when i have extra cash from my side jobs i will buy something nice for her or treat her special dinner even its not on special occasion

i have 1 ex who clearly make use of me. only together for few days, she asked me to pay her cell phone bill, electricity bill, etc. i dumped her after 1 week. lolz

LoL.....ur ex tot u open bank.....

she even wanted me to buy piano for her la! it will cost me 4K okay
lucky i save myself.
i think coz some girl take advantage of a guy but she wont take advantage to the guy she really love. is that true?

lol... a piano.. wait a while longer and it'll be car--->house--->your soul

exactly that is what i was thinking. surprisingly now she married with someone else but only demand for LV bag. nut she damn possesive lor

k la getting off topic here

he pays almost evrything eventho i told him im paying for it,money also standby already, but he distract me by talking n then tau2 the resit alrd print out. hmmh...i ony pay for parking,tols...cheap things.

somethimes he says he wants to get me clothes/bags/accessories but i always tell him i dont want cos clothes i got alot, bag n accessories..i dont use em,then i'll get the weird stares fm him. haha!

means he taking good care of u Qasy.. lucky u. but maybe u should get him something nice in return for his kindness.
i guess money isnt a problem for him so lucky u

agree.....OT a bit ah hehes i wan a GF so i can take good care her also dun hav tak ada nasib

maybe u should hang around in gal forum n show ur pic as ur signature i believe that will helps a lot