FACE THE TRUTH
The Real Game of Love

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/727987

I dont mean to blow my own horn, but I've received alot of supportive comments in the thread. I also feel that it explains alot of the heartache thats going around in CC. What do you guys think?

If you havent read the thread, please do so first before voting.

It would also be helpful to give some comments about why you voted yes/no.

Some of the Positive Feedback I've received so far:

This post has been edited by ezralimm: Nov 18 2008, 09:34 PM

To be honest. No.

i second that

Mind giving a lil explanation?

i say PINNED THIS UP!

all those despo shold read this.

Sieh, every 2 weeks the same thread keep poping up
-my gf dump me
-who want go out date with me
-why i so old no gf
-i think i have no social circle, i donno any girl
-my bf cheated on me
-my bf thinks im not pretty enough/smart enough
-i think my gf is too smart/too pretty, i htink she is cheating on me

SIEH

Frankly speaking,

I will keep my questions that i want to pointed out to myself. I seriously had alot of questions when reading your posts. But i knew its best to keep within myself to avoid confrontation. You had your points while i had mine. Your concept of attraction especially is a little differ than mine.

Besides, i still don't like your concept about cuddle b*tches. Is it that right to named such person with terms like that? Just because people treated a person bad doesn't mean they deserved a bad name. What does that reflect about us if we named them then? Perhaps the Su Dong Po story will enlight you about the imperfection about humanity.

Another question you should try figure out. Of course most women wants to be with social dominant men, but can you answer what does social dominant men wants in a women? And if the dominant men be with a woman which is less attractive or good looking than the men, do you seriously believe that these men will lower his standard just to pair with the women? I seriously doubt it. Look it at another way, do you believe that if the dominant men is less attractive in a way, to pair with an attractive women in a way too, does he mean he had to rise his standard? The question of lowering and rising one standard shouldn't be theorize because it differs from person to person.

No hearts taken. But the game of love shouldn't be theoretical especially like the one you mentioned in your REAL GAME OF LOVE thread. Am really sorry if i disagree.

Maybe one day, when you read enough relationship and motivational books, definitely you will understand what i'm trying to say.

By all mean, even if this thread is going to be pinned, i will still choose to respect yours because if it is what people want, then they should vote what they believe is right. But i know also everyone is entitled with our own opinions thus thats where our liberty stands. I hope you will understand mine.

Our uniqueness is our attraction.

i second that

I can assure you the concept of cuddleb1tches isnt mine. And it has never been, nor will it ever be part of, the FACE THE TRUTH(FTT) thread. It was mentioned in my previous thread, What Girls Really Want In A Man, that was really a collation of ideas that inspired the FTT thread. Also note that the FTT thread makes no mention of ladder theory.


Regarding your question about standards, the FTT thread does try to address what you are talking about: particularly in the caveat section of the thread.

Reality is such that almost every broken hearted guy who comes ranting away on CC about how a girl doesnt seem to want him as a lover simply set their standards too high (ie. they were not as attractive as the competition trying to woo the girl, or the guys the girl *thinks* she can attract).

I am starting to get your point. Perhaps further discussion in the thread is called for. Im always up for a good discussion/debate. Will reply to constructive comments such as yours with no hesitation

It whatever situation there is a winner /lose , same goes to here

Don't worry bro. Things will be alright. Yes, actually i do summed up from FTT to your current Real Game of Love because i believed it is related somehow.

In the future i will question when the timing is right.

So, i should leave this thread now, for others to vote. Let the mods decide too.

I wish you all the best.

Should CC be closed as it doesn't serve any purpose other than for people to whine?

No, because relationship is subjective lulz normally people will go for the person who is dominant, the one who is pretty, but when you actually love the person these traits doesn't seems to be matters anymore

Define love please.

love can't be define by words

then it's all ussless.

LoL I see someone jealous, but hey TS your Thread deserve to be pinned.

what j00 talking about? I come here to spam

I tot preying as well?

I supports ezra.

I find it is useful. Face Teh Truth!

looks like it's gonna be a close one..