Welcome Guest ( Log In | Register )

Outline · [ Standard ] · Linear+

 Should This Thread Be Pinned?, FACE THE TRUTH - The Real Game of Love

views
     
peinsama
post Jul 27 2008, 10:17 PM

Au fait
*****
Senior Member
725 posts

Joined: Apr 2008
From: Kuala Lumpur


To be honest. No.
peinsama
post Jul 27 2008, 10:45 PM

Au fait
*****
Senior Member
725 posts

Joined: Apr 2008
From: Kuala Lumpur


QUOTE(ezralimm @ Jul 27 2008, 10:19 PM)
Mind giving a lil explanation?
*
Frankly speaking,

I will keep my questions that i want to pointed out to myself. I seriously had alot of questions when reading your posts. But i knew its best to keep within myself to avoid confrontation. You had your points while i had mine. Your concept of attraction especially is a little differ than mine.

Besides, i still don't like your concept about cuddle b*tches. Is it that right to named such person with terms like that? Just because people treated a person bad doesn't mean they deserved a bad name. What does that reflect about us if we named them then? Perhaps the Su Dong Po story will enlight you about the imperfection about humanity.

Another question you should try figure out. Of course most women wants to be with social dominant men, but can you answer what does social dominant men wants in a women? And if the dominant men be with a woman which is less attractive or good looking than the men, do you seriously believe that these men will lower his standard just to pair with the women? I seriously doubt it. Look it at another way, do you believe that if the dominant men is less attractive in a way, to pair with an attractive women in a way too, does he mean he had to rise his standard? The question of lowering and rising one standard shouldn't be theorize because it differs from person to person.

No hearts taken. But the game of love shouldn't be theoretical especially like the one you mentioned in your REAL GAME OF LOVE thread. Am really sorry if i disagree.

Maybe one day, when you read enough relationship and motivational books, definitely you will understand what i'm trying to say.

By all mean, even if this thread is going to be pinned, i will still choose to respect yours because if it is what people want, then they should vote what they believe is right. But i know also everyone is entitled with our own opinions thus thats where our liberty stands. I hope you will understand mine.

Our uniqueness is our attraction.
peinsama
post Jul 27 2008, 11:08 PM

Au fait
*****
Senior Member
725 posts

Joined: Apr 2008
From: Kuala Lumpur


QUOTE(ezralimm @ Jul 27 2008, 11:00 PM)
I can assure you the concept of cuddleb1tches isnt mine. And it has never been, nor will it ever be part of, the FACE THE TRUTH(FTT) thread. It was mentioned in my previous thread, What Girls Really Want In A Man, that was really a collation of ideas that inspired the FTT thread. Also note that the FTT thread makes no mention of ladder theory.
Regarding your question about standards, the FTT thread does try to address what you are talking about: particularly in the caveat section of the thread.

Reality is such that almost every broken hearted guy who comes ranting away on CC about how a girl doesnt seem to want him as a lover simply set their standards too high (ie. they were not as attractive as the competition trying to woo the girl, or the guys the girl *thinks* she can attract).

I am starting to get your point. Perhaps further discussion in the thread is called for. Im always up for a good discussion/debate. Will reply to constructive comments such as yours with no hesitation smile.gif
*
Don't worry bro. Things will be alright. Yes, actually i do summed up from FTT to your current Real Game of Love because i believed it is related somehow.

In the future i will question when the timing is right. smile.gif

So, i should leave this thread now, for others to vote. smile.gif Let the mods decide too.

I wish you all the best.
peinsama
post Jul 28 2008, 01:50 PM

Au fait
*****
Senior Member
725 posts

Joined: Apr 2008
From: Kuala Lumpur


QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jul 28 2008, 01:47 PM)
what j00 talking about? I come here to spam tongue.gif
*
I tot preying as well? brows.gif

 

Change to:
| Lo-Fi Version
0.0456sec    0.28    7 queries    GZIP Disabled
Time is now: 28th November 2025 - 06:22 AM