Andy the next Lee Chong Wei.

Me? Cannot fight lah. I'm a heavy smoker. Sure my stamina cannot fight with athletes lah.

i will be leaving malaysia for 6 years this september... gooing to egypt to study medicine...
my gf here in malaysia...
wut should i do?
guys? girls? oppinion?

what to do?just go and further ur studies...u could always use the internet as a medium of communication...i say its time for ur turn to go through the hard times....yeah it sux...bydaway how long ur gona go abroad?6 years?or 3years?

either you stay with it ... open relationship ... or end it. UP TO YOU

Sorry neh, didn't mean to spell wrong but just accidently
How are you brother? Long time no hear from you already

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Hi there, i am a less active member in this thread as i am also on a long distance relationship. My gf and i planned for registering for marriage, but only think think only la.. BUt i know nothing about it, we plan to do it secretly becos our parents sure wont want us to register 1st, but we feel like it is quite romantic and we sure we are ready for it. It's not about becos we wanted to have sex so we register, HELL NO. Is becos of love, we have been together for nearly 4 years edi. I need to know how much is the cost, where to register and the procedure. Thanks!

Hehe, it's alright.

I'm doing alright. My gf is currently studying in Melbourne but I'm going there next July too.

Firstly, how old are you?

21 years old, going to 22.

22Years Old Going to Married ? No wonder ur parents of course say NO lar...haha~ btw...my opinion...marriage is just a certificate and a step forward to hold a family ...Unless you are ready to build up your own family with all your resources being well prepared ( of course resources means Money, Carrier and so on )....Marriage is not a game or a channel to make u 2 get closer or romantic...dont play play with marriage... Think twice n twice...

Or I can say is think twice and get the blessing from parents. Blessing from parents is the quite important in marriage!

For that tender age, yup. You need blessing from your parents.

getting married without your parents blessing is just asking for trouble

Yup, definitely not a good move. Wait and see lar, already together for 4 years why not continue be together until you're financially capable?

Absolutely true! Ask our brother kokuryo for advice? How he actually manage his relationship and marriage

Actually marriage is very subjective and depends on couple. Some of my friends married at earli age but still having a good life with their children.. it's depends on the maturity of both parties..

Marriage is not a kind of 'Romance' like what ben3003 mentioned. It's a WHOLE LIFE COMMITMENT. After togather for 4 yrs, sure u both thinking to have something to spark up your life, but marriage is NO NO for that purpose..

Have both of you stepped into the working community d? You will be suprised that after working, both parties will change their lifestyle, mindset and requirement.. In working life, both parties will meet the world.. all kinds of ppl with all kinds of attitudes.. good, bad, you name it and you will know them all..
thatz the most important time to see if both are really suitable for each other after meeting so many kinds of ppl around u..

This post has been edited by kokuryo: Aug 20 2008, 03:51 PM

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btw Ben, if you really made up your mind and wanna go for it, you can get all information regarding your questions here http://www.malaysiabrides.com/forum/index.php?showforum=28

This post has been edited by kokuryo: Aug 20 2008, 05:36 PM

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Wah... shit lor like that the bolded statement, although I knew it.. damn scared we will change..