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TSyeelin04
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May 24 2008, 11:07 AM, updated 18y ago
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Help Me PLEASE!!!
I have this situation here..i met a guy named T (not real name) thru a TV chat..then one day he told me he broke off with his gf after 4 years.. then we chat n chat thru smses...then he told me last time one of his ex ask him to follow her to Australia and leave everything behind in Malaysia as the girl migrate there with her family. Then i told him..if i were him i am surely to follow that girl (i ws just joking) but he took it seriously and then from that time onwards he start to ask me to be his gf..i dont love him coz its just that the feelings is not there.Then he even threatens me saying that if i dont accept his request he will go overseas and leave everything in Malaysia including his family coz of ME!!
His background is a very powerfull person (tai lou) and financial status very stable..the only son in the family with 2 step sisters but already married.
Till now actually i am threaten by him..i have no choice but to accept his request to be his gf..if not he treathens me to leave malaysia and his dad & friends will look for me and ask for the reason.. i seriously dont know what to do..i have never gone out or seen him in person b4 as i keep giving excuses for not free,busy and stuff...i am TIED...how am i supposed to UNTIE myself from this problem?
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feyhime
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May 25 2008, 10:57 AM
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There's a Cupid Club for a reason =.= Moved.
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BlueWind
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May 25 2008, 11:16 AM
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For goodness sake, you both never met before and you were afraid that his family will find you. Do they even know where you live? Even if they managed to find you, worse come to worse, seek your friends for advice and not here.... And ask your friends if they willing to help you DEAL with them.
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outsider
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May 25 2008, 11:23 AM
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BlueWind
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May 25 2008, 11:28 AM
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Exactly, why bother him at the first place when you don't have relationship involved with him..
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biawak
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May 25 2008, 11:33 AM
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[SIZE=7] [SIZE=14]u said tat he havent met u b4 rite? den,how his dad n sister is going to look for u? cuz he cant even know where to look for u? n dun afraid of threat....if they really look for u u can report to police? or u can seek for help at any MCA or DAP branch to look for help..... they will definetly help.....
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PrinceHamsap
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May 25 2008, 12:00 PM
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girls nowadays are easy to cheat and take things seriously
i am so happy such girls still exists
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Jaroque
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May 25 2008, 12:04 PM
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this looks seriously stupid
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tzyy
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May 25 2008, 12:15 PM
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agree with jaraque -,- since you said he is a so-called-tailou.. so.. i assume your age is not that young too right?
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OctoberFly
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May 25 2008, 01:08 PM
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=/ hmm. why don't you just let him go aussie lah. XD who cares if he leave his family here or whatever
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runemastertan
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May 25 2008, 01:20 PM
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Human are selfish beings. He threatens you makes him a selfish person, without thinking what;s your feelings are. Then why are you being so generous? He;s using your weakness and use it to his advantage. Follow what other people says - leave him. Learn from him, be selfish for your own sake
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7chai
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May 25 2008, 01:25 PM
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QUOTE(yeelin04 @ May 24 2008, 11:07 AM) Help Me PLEASE!!! I have this situation here..i met a guy named T (not real name) thru a TV chat..then one day he told me he broke off with his gf after 4 years.. then we chat n chat thru smses...then he told me last time one of his ex ask him to follow her to Australia and leave everything behind in Malaysia as the girl migrate there with her family. Then i told him..if i were him i am surely to follow that girl (i ws just joking) but he took it seriously and then from that time onwards he start to ask me to be his gf..i dont love him coz its just that the feelings is not there.Then he even threatens me saying that if i dont accept his request he will go overseas and leave everything in Malaysia including his family coz of ME!! His background is a very powerfull person (tai lou) and financial status very stable..the only son in the family with 2 step sisters but already married. Till now actually i am threaten by him..i have no choice but to accept his request to be his gf..if not he treathens me to leave malaysia and his dad & friends will look for me and ask for the reason.. i seriously dont know what to do..i have never gone out or seen him in person b4 as i keep giving excuses for not free,busy and stuff...i am TIED...how am i supposed to UNTIE myself from this problem? well, bless him and suggest him to go Holland.
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Gr3yL3gion81
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May 25 2008, 01:34 PM
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Holland is a good place to fly kite.
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7chai
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May 25 2008, 01:35 PM
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QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion81 @ May 25 2008, 01:34 PM) Holland is a good place to fly kite.  remember, tai lou dun fly kite.
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Gr3yL3gion81
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May 25 2008, 01:42 PM
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QUOTE(7chai @ May 25 2008, 01:35 PM) remember, tai lou dun fly kite. That's a good hobby to learn, other than scaring kids through the Internet. Oh yeah, tai lou don't threaten through Internet either. They splash red paint or acid, depending on how emo they are.
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7chai
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May 25 2008, 01:43 PM
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QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion81 @ May 25 2008, 01:42 PM) That's a good hobby to learn, other than scaring kids through the Internet. Oh yeah, tai lou don't threaten through Internet either. They splash red paint or acid, depending on how emo they are. yeah, i guess thats what TS afraid now.
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Gr3yL3gion81
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May 25 2008, 01:49 PM
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QUOTE(7chai @ May 25 2008, 01:43 PM) yeah, i guess thats what TS afraid now. Well, one piece of advice for TS. If you have any records of that person's threat, it's a good time to make a police report.
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aladdin
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May 25 2008, 02:23 PM
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u already become his slave.
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peinsama
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May 25 2008, 05:28 PM
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QUOTE(yeelin04 @ May 24 2008, 11:07 AM) Help Me PLEASE!!! I have this situation here..i met a guy named T (not real name) thru a TV chat..then one day he told me he broke off with his gf after 4 years.. then we chat n chat thru smses...then he told me last time one of his ex ask him to follow her to Australia and leave everything behind in Malaysia as the girl migrate there with her family. Then i told him..if i were him i am surely to follow that girl (i ws just joking) but he took it seriously and then from that time onwards he start to ask me to be his gf..i dont love him coz its just that the feelings is not there.Then he even threatens me saying that if i dont accept his request he will go overseas and leave everything in Malaysia including his family coz of ME!! His background is a very powerfull person (tai lou) and financial status very stable..the only son in the family with 2 step sisters but already married. Till now actually i am threaten by him..i have no choice but to accept his request to be his gf..if not he treathens me to leave malaysia and his dad & friends will look for me and ask for the reason.. i seriously dont know what to do..i have never gone out or seen him in person b4 as i keep giving excuses for not free,busy and stuff...i am TIED...how am i supposed to UNTIE myself from this problem? You know whts the best way. Have courage to go jumpa his father and talk to him and don't be confrontational. Then only you can untie the mess that you and him do.
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digita1tech
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May 25 2008, 05:33 PM
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I Think that guy is coward using those kind of threat.....what a loser.!!
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donki85
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May 25 2008, 06:13 PM
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i feel that this is just a joke, if so report to police then move to somewhere else, tai lou scare lose face + u shouldnt indulge in tv chat o sort especially when it come to relationship (u r rich to play the tv chat thing eh 50cents per sms)
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SeeD
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May 25 2008, 06:55 PM
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Oh and where's the TS ? Another one of this forum's lame jokes ?
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JS5016
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May 25 2008, 07:43 PM
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Sounds to me as if he doesn't have the balls to talk to your face.. Whats the problem??
Last option.. report to the proper authorities.
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suiteng
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May 25 2008, 08:51 PM
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Just ignore him. He won't be able to track you. I bet he's actually a 16 year old kid.
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ah_suknat
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May 25 2008, 10:49 PM
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reminds me of the taiwan drama meteor garden.
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Minimayo
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May 26 2008, 08:06 PM
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lol tai lo's son, did u meet his dad before ? who knows his dad just work for ppl in factory, just tai lo in 1 small group of friend
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danny_ptlm
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May 27 2008, 11:03 AM
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i tink the guy no balls ler..still using tiz kind of trick..better report police,tell da police tiz guy itz a "tai lou"..if not...dun pick up da call..make he fast-fast or "bang bang seng" leave malaysia.. =) haha
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susanong
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May 27 2008, 11:19 AM
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cut off your chatting accout and hp service, did he saw ur picture before?
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alimony
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May 27 2008, 11:31 AM
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change handphone number
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wesi_lim
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May 29 2008, 09:16 PM
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QUOTE(PrinceHamsap @ May 25 2008, 12:00 PM) girls nowadays are easy to cheat and take things seriously i am so happy such girls still exists i got da same idea wif u ..!! oh my goodness, such girls still exists.. nvr meet b4 bt threaten by da guy? wat the f*** is tis?? Ts, where r u staying? KL?? near to bkt aman or not? if it is near, wat do u affraid of??
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TSyeelin04
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May 30 2008, 10:51 AM
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sorry guys..i didnt know that this prob was published..i cant find it...
he said b4 wanna bring me to see his parents but i refused coz i really dont like guys that r "tai lou"..he has his way to find my place if he wants to..its just that i told him b4 that i dont love him..i asked him y he dowan to let go? he said coz he loves me..i am really getting sick with this guy man!!..i have done lots of things ady..i told him if other guys wanna tackle me or any ppl ask whether i am single n available? i will just say yes i am single and available n no bf!!..i dont have guts to talkface to face with his father ley!!..till now i do is dont care what he is gonna do..i just do my job as a single & available gal that is enjoy..
alimony : izzit worth to change hp num coz of 1 stupid guy?
suiteng : he is 26 this year...
donki85 : takkan just 1 guy i wanna spend so much $$ to move away? and i didnt expected this to happen and i just chat as a fren only..unless if really got the feelings and meet b4 then only i will further my steps lor..if not then just sms only...
susanong: exchange pics b4 lor...
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Gr3yL3gion81
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May 30 2008, 10:57 AM
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QUOTE(yeelin04 @ May 30 2008, 10:51 AM) sorry guys..i didnt know that this prob was published..i cant find it... he said b4 wanna bring me to see his parents but i refused coz i really dont like guys that r "tai lou"..he has his way to find my place if he wants to..its just that i told him b4 that i dont love him..i asked him y he dowan to let go? he said coz he loves me..i am really getting sick with this guy man!!..i have done lots of things ady..i told him if other guys wanna tackle me or any ppl ask whether i am single n available? i will just say yes i am single and available n no bf!!..i dont have guts to talkface to face with his father ley!!..till now i do is dont care what he is gonna do..i just do my job as a single & available gal that is enjoy.. alimony : izzit worth to change hp num coz of 1 stupid guy? suiteng : he is 26 this year... donki85 : takkan just 1 guy i wanna spend so much $$ to move away? and i didnt expected this to happen and i just chat as a fren only..unless if really got the feelings and meet b4 then only i will further my steps lor..if not then just sms only... susanong: exchange pics b4 lor... Why are you so afraid since you never meet him before?
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kinky_playa
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May 30 2008, 10:59 AM
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Nerd alert,,,,nerd alert.
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DoomHammer
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May 30 2008, 12:18 PM
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2 words: IGNORE HIM!
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