Help Me PLEASE!!!

I have this situation here..i met a guy named T (not real name) thru a TV chat..then one day he told me he broke off with his gf after 4 years.. then we chat n chat thru smses...then he told me last time one of his ex ask him to follow her to Australia and leave everything behind in Malaysia as the girl migrate there with her family. Then i told him..if i were him i am surely to follow that girl (i ws just joking) but he took it seriously and then from that time onwards he start to ask me to be his gf..i dont love him coz its just that the feelings is not there.Then he even threatens me saying that if i dont accept his request he will go overseas and leave everything in Malaysia including his family coz of ME!!

His background is a very powerfull person (tai lou) and financial status very stable..the only son in the family with 2 step sisters but already married.

Till now actually i am threaten by him..i have no choice but to accept his request to be his gf..if not he treathens me to leave malaysia and his dad & friends will look for me and ask for the reason.. i seriously dont know what to do..i have never gone out or seen him in person b4 as i keep giving excuses for not free,busy and stuff...i am TIED...how am i supposed to UNTIE myself from this problem?

sorry guys..i didnt know that this prob was published..i cant find it...

he said b4 wanna bring me to see his parents but i refused coz i really dont like guys that r "tai lou"..he has his way to find my place if he wants to..its just that i told him b4 that i dont love him..i asked him y he dowan to let go? he said coz he loves me..i am really getting sick with this guy man!!..i have done lots of things ady..i told him if other guys wanna tackle me or any ppl ask whether i am single n available? i will just say yes i am single and available n no bf!!..i dont have guts to talkface to face with his father ley!!..till now i do is dont care what he is gonna do..i just do my job as a single & available gal that is enjoy..

alimony : izzit worth to change hp num coz of 1 stupid guy?

suiteng : he is 26 this year...

donki85 : takkan just 1 guy i wanna spend so much $$ to move away? and i didnt expected this to happen and i just chat as a fren only..unless if really got the feelings and meet b4 then only i will further my steps lor..if not then just sms only...

susanong: exchange pics b4 lor...