Welcome back (doesn't sounds good but oh well there's no other way to put it into words). When there's a grieving soul, we are all here to help regardless who they are and who are we

This post has been edited by DreMAx: Jan 26 2010, 11:02 PM

3 years is long... Maybe short in other people's terms.

Another way to forget about someone is to bake! Be it cakes or cookies or something else.

What I did was went to Gasing Hill if you know where is it to get some breath and scream the hell out of me.

I have a book which I've borrowed from a friend and till today I haven't even started reading it yet . Been so busy with all my studies I am going insane with all the test coming up. But it's good also la... At least it keeps my mind occupied.

That's right though. Everyone has a different way of dealing with things and different stories. Cheers!

Well you have assignment and I have my textbooks to read because my test are coming like the flow of a river.

It is difficult in the first few weeks or maybe should I say for the first 2 months. But after a while when you get yourself back intact, in one piece, in rhythm and your sanity you will be alright. Trust me. It's been more than half a year for me and I am still going over it and it's easier for me already day by day.

Nevertheless, look on the bright side dude, take this as an opportunity to get experience. When you have gone through this one this time, the next time you are faced with this same problem, you will know exactly what to do and what to expect. I always like to say this, take these challenging times and turn it into an advantage as an opportunity to learn rather than taking it as a burden and rant all about it.

Time to get yourself working mate!

Yes it is. As time changes, people change too but without themselves knowing it. The people around will definitely be aware of it.

Smile mate. Those were the exact same time my ex told me when we broke up. Of course, I don't put the entire blame on her for leaving me because I am partly to be blamed as well. But then again, don't put all the blame on yourself because you are only being a fool to take all the blame. When a relationship comes to an end, it's not entirely one person's fault but both parties has their wrong doings which lead to the end of it. It may not be something wrong you did recently but it could have mounted from before when you were with her. Say for example last year or last 2 months.

I mean no offence here, but seriously, I felt the same way you feel because my ex left me with those reasons after being together for 2 1/2 years, and I totally blamed myself entirely for it because one thing, I don't stay that near to her thus not being in her presence when she needed me, and I am not in town for the entire week (except the weekends) due to my studying location. But after a while of taking all the blame, I felt stupid and a fool because the cause of the breakup wasn't all because of me but partly due to her mistakes and wrong doings.

Furthermore, most girls, (sorry girls but I have to say this because I find it quite true at least in my case after 6 girls in record) they get satisfied easily at the beginning stages of the relationship, but as time goes by, they aren't that easily satisfied and they are more stubborn and not to forget more demanding. What you said or done in the past won't necessarily work in the future. This is all due to pampering.

Very well said! Cheers!

Do tell yourself that, you're strong enough to pull this through. Also, do remember, you're not alone when you are going through this because there are friends around who will pick you up when fall. Just remember one thing, this path you have to walk it yourself not someone else. There will only be help from people to help you get up when you fall on your knees. As long you're determined to get out from this mess and pick up the broken pieces of your life, you will be able to stand tall again.

At this period, giving up is not an option.

This post has been edited by DreMAx: Jan 28 2010, 08:41 PM

Hmm... Not only you... I don't know why but a few days in a row, I thought of her . But what can I do... It's all over now... so... maybe just build sandcastles in the skies would do... *sighs*

It's been exactly 7 months already... feels so wrong and stupid to have this kinda feeling.

AND..... no one SHALL be a failure and that includes you. As long as you don't give up and give into regrets, sadness and yourself you will always be a winner

Agree on that mate. There are days you will definitely feel emo and empty. I have that off and on.

Me here have had and still having that kinda feeling at times. Actually I would say it's normal to have this kind of feeling. It's just part and parcel of life. It does hurt a little every time you have that kind of thoughts but there's nothing much you could. What has been done is done, let it stay in the past. There's nothing else you could do to turn the past around right?

Stay calm when you have that kind of thoughts. Just bear with it and after a while you will get used to it and you will be able to adapt to that change.

You gave in into temptation or something? I really you would reply my PM... Just wanna hear you opinion.

If you really want to escape from all these, you probably just have to move out from staying with her or something. I can feel how much pain you are going through since it's your ex going after your best friend and happens to be your roommate at the very same time.

Same here. Valentine's Day and CNY is coming... Although I think of her quite often lately, I guess nothing will ever happen I am neither hoping nor wishing for anything or any miracles to happen now. Not for the time being. Of course I believe in miracles but certainly not this kinda miracles.

Actually you know something. There's practically nothing in the guys' mind. Or rather, when a guy has a problem, he prefers to keep it to himself or tell another guy friend without other people knowing.

Same here. I guess all guys are like that. But we do tell another guy whom we are close to about it. Watch this video

Somehow they can tell if we have problem but refuse to tell them by saying everything's alright. Furthermore it's quite difficult le.. saying ' I want to understand better'

This post has been edited by DreMAx: Jan 30 2010, 07:57 PM

Well that bring a little of a problem... Guess it's difficult to tell you are having a problem or not.

LOL. Like that I pity her la... everyday PM inbox full.

You email inbox confirm with all the LYN PM Not a very good idea. It will somehow turn out to be an annoyance.

He said 'flood' ma so likely can get the inbox full lo.

Active in /k/ that one normal la... it's /k/ ma...

Actually this thread not to say very boring la... At least here we can share ideas and thoughts. There's still life to it.

Part and parcel of what we are supposed to go through. Actually sometimes being bored helps us think. THINK of things we could and should be doing.

HAHAHA give her a break la... if you read her previous posts you can tell she's just broke off not too long la...

Actually true about the inbox thing la. But some people may find it annoying and treat it as harassment.

LOL good to be helpful mate. Eh I wonder who is that member?

LOL that's not a very good suggestion. I think probably he faps too much...

Nope... but seriously... is his user ID tfk?? Seriously it puts people off lo like one fella which called himself sexualpower.

Aiyo!!! I mana tau... you know people these days are like that one la... only know 1 meaning of tfk... so thought of that only la...