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Serious HOW TO GET OVER A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP, Post all "getting over" advice here

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post Jan 31 2010, 12:07 AM

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QUOTE(willy_wonka @ Jan 31 2010, 12:05 AM)
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where's slushie? she doesn't want to play play with us already ah? unsure.gif
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Scared of you already la bro... see la... forummer named tfk... scared her off already... Remember here is to help one another with constructive comments to help one broken hearted person get over it.

Haiz... you scared her off already.
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post Jan 31 2010, 12:15 AM

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Yes that's right. You don't want to be slapped with a warning willy and neither do I. Let's keep this thread as clean as possible.
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post Jan 31 2010, 12:56 PM

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QUOTE(wInnIe PoOh @ Jan 31 2010, 01:29 AM)
I don't think I will wish him too, I think it i because I do not want him to  think I am still having that feeling to him. I don't deny I do think of him quite often lately but I will not say that is because I still have the same feeling. It is more like I do not know how to still keep him as a friend at our stage now.
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Same here. I won't be wishing her Happy Valentine's Day to her. Guess it's just too hard to keep him (in your case and her in my case) as a friend for now? Perhaps... What has been torn apart will remain torn... it's somewhat difficult to patch back the torn part. I was just talking about this to one of the members here last night. Hope she's alright and hope she understood what I tried to say. We are all different in terms of what has happened and how our individual story goes about. Nevertheless, all of us here share the commonality of getting over of things and putting it and leaving it in the past.

I don't know but it has always come to my thoughts that why put hope on something when the chance and opportunity isn't given? smile.gif

@winnie, you're great! You're the most determined person here and you beat me for it.

QUOTE(WhitE LighteR @ Jan 31 2010, 01:46 AM)
eh.. wth.. y got my avatar become apart of u all punya post?
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Ask willy_wonka. He brought you into the picture here. Unless you're heartbroken then you can stay here la... or if you wanna share some thoughts (but be sure to keep it serious within this thread) then you are most welcomed to do so.
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post Jan 31 2010, 11:27 PM

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QUOTE(wInnIe PoOh @ Jan 31 2010, 02:14 PM)
My break up was due to the mutual understanding in both parties, to come up with the term of break up because we know there is no future of that relationship. He was struggling to keep it going for long enough and because I can understand how stressful it is for him, at the end we just agreed on that.

Maybe I grew with the guys, I am surrounded by guys since small. Eventually they speak to me whenever they need someone to talk to. For what I've been through, I can understand them better, even I've got quite many guys agreed on this. Actually, they are really that simple. When they say yes, they mean yes. Sometimes girls are more complicated than guys. Anyway, I can't tell you how to understand them, or how simple they are but they are just easy to understand and simple.
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Actually yes. When a guy says yes, it's really a yes and for the no. But sometimes, even as a guy myself, I have to agree with our answers sometimes, brings confusion. The answer seems rather simple without much elaboration.

QUOTE(xyingluvx @ Jan 31 2010, 08:44 PM)
guess im joining the broken hearts' family
just broke up with my bf last night..
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Hahaha. Well I think we call it a family... I think a group of heartbroken people sounds better. Oh well if family does sound nice why not then.

I hope you're alright? Don't take it too hard on yourself OK?
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post Feb 1 2010, 08:12 PM

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QUOTE(wInnIe PoOh @ Feb 1 2010, 07:49 PM)
More likely, I do not believe in flirting over the internet.
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Neither do I believe that because that one party can just crap about every other thing. More often than not they are all one bunch of big fat liars. Well there are some who are pretty honest though.

By the way, it seems like this thread is turning into another flirting thread?
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post Feb 1 2010, 11:19 PM

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QUOTE(wInnIe PoOh @ Feb 1 2010, 08:28 PM)
A little bit of flirting is healthy in life but to believe it over the internet with some strangers where you have no idea of how the other party is, is silly and dangerous. I do not mean that people over internet are wearing a mask, not all are liars but it is just not my cup of tea to flirt with anyone who I do not know in person.

Flirting thread? I think it does not go until that extend yet. Perhaps, just extra fun to make this more cheerful rather than everyone here to cry on their sad stories. Sometimes, we do need someone to put the fun on to get the laughter.
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I agree with you.

Don't know seems like it's getting in that direction though with willy_wonka around smile.gif But oh well at lease he's in here and get some people cheered up. Seems like he's after you or something tongue.gif
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post Feb 2 2010, 10:36 PM

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Thankfully it's a more lively here already. Actually with the help of this thread, I did myself out from the gloomy days quite quickly because I know it's not a point sticking to the past.

~You're not alone... I am here with with... though you're far away, I am here to stay... ~ tongue.gif This song kinda emo la... tongue.gif

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