QUOTE(restron @ Jun 18 2019, 08:38 PM)
I broke up with my gf 6 years ago...late this year i will get married n she still single, but i stalked her fb sometimes just to see what she doing, n found out she doing ok with travelling, hiking, etc.
But wonder y she nvr think about married n settle down. Me n her age 32, bout time to settle down, but she don't. I hate to think that she will return to me again bcoz i want to get marry this dec with other girl. I gave her chance for 6 years for any hope of comeback!! The worst part was, after the broke up, she is the only girl that kept appearing in my dream, n the latest one i dream about her 2 weeks ago. This is getting me nutz!!
Despite everyone's worry of a woman's biological clock, some people just are not ready to marry yet. Some just prefer not to marry at all. But wonder y she nvr think about married n settle down. Me n her age 32, bout time to settle down, but she don't. I hate to think that she will return to me again bcoz i want to get marry this dec with other girl. I gave her chance for 6 years for any hope of comeback!! The worst part was, after the broke up, she is the only girl that kept appearing in my dream, n the latest one i dream about her 2 weeks ago. This is getting me nutz!!
If ever she kacau you after you are married, it is seriously her problem, not yours at all.
It is completely understandable that you are having dreams like this now. It is quite common actually.
In fact I would even say it is a good thing. To have the doubt now, means that you have time to really think it through, sort it out, and be certain of the decision. You are having pre-marriage jitters, but it is much better than having it AFTER the marriage.
Be certain, go get married, go for your honeymoon, come back and grow with your family. Your ex is as gone as your previous job's boss.