if it was another just another girl's picture, it's acceptable.

not a private part picture. it doesn't make sense a guy can go to that extend

yalo yalo...maybe shud stay a[art n cool down 1st...nw he treat me so good...make me dunno how la...haiseh

read this: 7 signs your honey may cheat

so LEAVE him. follow your instincts. if alarm bells are going off, LEAVE HIM NOW. girls can be so stupid about relationships sometimes...

Leave him...Find a better one, this kind of BF, no need to think twice !!

tell him to stop contacting her.. if he refuse then break

giving him another chances...hope can forget wat had happened before

good luck..

imho.. it sounds like ur bf giving lame excuses.. if i were you i would keep a very close eye on his activities.. and yea.. there's a possibility that when a guy gets caught.. he will just hide it/make it harder to detect.. just my opinion though.. all the best

it's very hard to forget a incident tat hv very high impact on u.. it might take months o year.. anywhere, u hv decided to give him a chance them try ur best.. good luck

i know lar...save the picture in ur handphone and spread it ...kekeke

actually i got scold tat gal lo...caz i cant take it ady....i sms her, but she din reply...caz i think is better to sms...wont feel so strange...and if waste money to call such person n waste money to scold her...thn very waste money oh...n i knw my words wont be so polite...caz during sms my words oredy very rude to her due to my anger ma....

wah, tehal very geng wor. If ur bf love u, y he no respodn one? Send private part pic wor!!!!! O_O

anyway, chenge ur bf number, ask him to not contact her, if he still contact her, leave him

hard to do but have to do lor

for me i will very angry too.... maybe u are main dish while she is the side dish... i felt ur bf mayb have phone sex with her, mayb they both really meet up have real sex.... they could be sex partner also....
i really cannot accept my bf got such friend.... i would choose to break up with him.... coz his heart not i'm the only one.... he want to have more than one.... i really cannot accept this.... even is very hurt, but think of u both future or even further till u both get married.... he really not reliable.... if he really have another lady outside, u n his family is game over ady..... so u better think properly u should continue with the relationship not.....

what ur bf said after this incident?no response? ask ur bf nicely...

stay tough girl! dun let ur bf blackmail u emotionally by pretending to be pitiful, accusing u of not trusting him and all sorts of nonsense. if someone did wrong they should have the courage to face it.. not try to avoid topic. if the person cant even do that... i would think the person is not mature enough for any relationship..

he should be a man and face his mistake and talk it through with u..(make u feel u can trust him again.. promises(not empty ones la)? commitments? dunno.. up to u just my opinion)

if just pretend nothing happen and all is over hor~ it can just come back to haunt u.. !

This post has been edited by xmascat: Apr 24 2008, 01:08 AM

their affair has got to a level that private pics been exchanged. how serious is that? does your bf have any private pics that are exclusive to u 2? i might sound like main main but do you realize the danger?

be suspicious. love is blind but open your eyes, look at ur bf's actions. action speak louder than words, although some guys are good actors. when talking about the issue, does he look u in the eyes? does he try to change topic or belittle the issue? does he belittle the girl as well? if he so pandang rendah the girl, means he treat her as a sex object/easy meal? he who has no respect for other woman, is he able to respect you? to what extent can you accept if ur guy love u wholeheartedly but seeks other pleasures elsewhere?

its all down to what you want and what you can accept. yes, people should adjust, especially in relationships but surely there is some life values you hold strong. are those values being challenged now?

This post has been edited by Petre: Apr 24 2008, 01:23 AM

don't even be suspicious. GET OUT NOW.

ya.. since they could be sms-ing their porn pics.. who knows if your bf does it too..
they could have been sex partners for quite some time already without u knowing it..

don't be so naive girl.. sometimes think for yourself..

u've chosen to give him a chance.. i wish u luck

yea.. agree! dun really believe it's really as simple as that(usually it's not).. u might not know what other skeletons u might dig up with further investigation =_='

well..i think u have to trust ur bf since the day u chosen him..if u didt trust him anymore, tats not call love anymore..hence, if u wan to know the answer..the answer suppose in ur heart!!!