well.. i would suggest that u leave him... or just tell him that "we need a period of time to cool down...n think over again whether we should continue or not.".... or start investigating.

i dont really trust 100% what guys said .. thats what my bad experience tells me... my ex cheated on me 2... at 1st i felt smtg wrong, then i start investigating.... half way i know he done something wrong d.. every1 ask me to stop checking n just leave him. but i still wana investigate the whole story, at the end.... i hurt myself.... when i finally know the whole lies.... Anyway, the decision of start checking him is right, because that time i cant just pretend ntg happen, investigating would let me feel better cuz if he really is "clean" then i will feel relief. but if he really cheat on me... its over. if i dont check what is really happening, i will regret.

Anyway, different people different case. U know him better. so... follow ur heart... & never ever regret on decision u've made. Good Luck to u gal~ and stay hppy n pretty always... muakss

trust need time to build, not not blindly trust because of the word 'love'. thats why ppl say 'love is blind', and so many women get into a mess for that. and guys can sweet talk all they want, dun be dreamy and accept everything he says, especially after such an incident. talk is easy. action is not. look at the small small things in the relationship and you can sense whether he is really into the relationship as much as he says...

but i do agree that women's intuition or so called di-liu-gan can be extremely (scary) accurate.

so what does your di-liu-gan tells you?

This post has been edited by Petre: Apr 25 2008, 09:15 AM

since he let me check everything, do i would like to give him another chance...but i told him, i gv u chance and if i felt smthing wrong...i would take it back...n off course... u wont c me..caz i say bye bye to u

the feeling of doubt will carry on forever.. i'm serious..
but if U r willing to work it out and trust him in time and of course, love him, then i'm sure things will work out just fine

there are just times when we need to make mistakes in order to better ourselves and learn from them.

too bad this will always be just a forum and we cant see/observe his body language, all i can say is, take this as a signal not just to evaluate him, but also yourself.

my bf cheated on me, he actually slept wid some other gals, despite i got evident, he stil deny. he only admit when i ask for break up. he beg for forgiveness and 2nd chance. and the idiot me, accepted the stupid apologize but ... i totally dun trust him and every single thing he do, will make me wan to break up wid him ... which is suffer for both of us ...
i hope u wont b the 2nd me ...
best luck sis!

he hopes u could close one eye...
pretend nothing happen..
guys enjoy something new but wanna keep the old wan..

dun so suffer~ break only la seriously.. u will feel damn relieve and happy after u pass the heart break stage

Something that guy cannot do are

- Sleep with other gal while in relationship
- Hit, punch, slap GF most of the times...
- Criminal...

Such guy or even gal... should not be given a second chance

even some tendency of violence should beware already. violent barbarians wont let go something in their possession easily especially a woman. get out before too late

this case is much serious than mine...
guys are so complicated....why they wanna do such things...indeed, curiousity is one of ther reason...but arent they feel ashame with their action...???

guys....make me speechless

yup, he said he juz being stupid and was wrong, beg for 1 last chance ...
no doubt i stil cnt get over the fact he betray me, bt am giving him another chance...
the other side of my heart, wanting to break up... waiting for a chance... evil rite?!

perhaps u'r rite, coz if thr's 1st, der will b 2nd and neve ending time ....
he will only repeat his mistake again n again.... and be more careful each time ....
i;m juz an idiot!!!

Ur not idiot... just that every people get blind when in love....

Only will wake up after hurt.....

Important.. just be happy everyday and accept whatever fate only

if bf make u suffer,y not find another man that loves u?dun becz of'' 1 pokok give up whole jungle ''

Sometimes.. not easy to let go a tree that u plant by urself......although u will get a whole jungle

1st time .. forgive him .. ppl do mistakes as long as he admit ..
2nd time.. go to hell! haha

not easy still gonna do that wat...love the 1 who love u er ma

i am quite violent, i guess i will beat him up bad.....

Swt... gal are so evil.......

wah wah wah..........i oso very violent leh...i black belt in taekwondo wo...