ask the guy, wat happen. u got right to check his phone now i guess...

if he cheat... if you value him, give one chance, if not, dump him

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Added on April 22, 2008, 2:32 pmif the balls still there...

This post has been edited by Petre: Apr 22 2008, 02:32 PM

he will deserve every kick if he does...

wait...

sometimes, thats what happen when no communication.

there could be a problem somewhere, one seek outside solace instead of talking to gf. this is where an outsider can manipulate.

communicate ppl, pls... no guessing game in the game of love

This post has been edited by Petre: Apr 22 2008, 05:06 PM

read this: 7 signs your honey may cheat

their affair has got to a level that private pics been exchanged. how serious is that? does your bf have any private pics that are exclusive to u 2? i might sound like main main but do you realize the danger?

be suspicious. love is blind but open your eyes, look at ur bf's actions. action speak louder than words, although some guys are good actors. when talking about the issue, does he look u in the eyes? does he try to change topic or belittle the issue? does he belittle the girl as well? if he so pandang rendah the girl, means he treat her as a sex object/easy meal? he who has no respect for other woman, is he able to respect you? to what extent can you accept if ur guy love u wholeheartedly but seeks other pleasures elsewhere?

its all down to what you want and what you can accept. yes, people should adjust, especially in relationships but surely there is some life values you hold strong. are those values being challenged now?

This post has been edited by Petre: Apr 24 2008, 01:23 AM

trust need time to build, not not blindly trust because of the word 'love'. thats why ppl say 'love is blind', and so many women get into a mess for that. and guys can sweet talk all they want, dun be dreamy and accept everything he says, especially after such an incident. talk is easy. action is not. look at the small small things in the relationship and you can sense whether he is really into the relationship as much as he says...

but i do agree that women's intuition or so called di-liu-gan can be extremely (scary) accurate.

so what does your di-liu-gan tells you?

This post has been edited by Petre: Apr 25 2008, 09:15 AM

there are just times when we need to make mistakes in order to better ourselves and learn from them.

too bad this will always be just a forum and we cant see/observe his body language, all i can say is, take this as a signal not just to evaluate him, but also yourself.

even some tendency of violence should beware already. violent barbarians wont let go something in their possession easily especially a woman. get out before too late

marry her, then can look with ur own eyes

if not, dun break someone's heart

sigh. guys reli hard to understand?

simply put, give him space and time, and you will get twice the affection in return.

pls take your time to get this book :men are from mars, women are from venus.

it will greatly help you understand guys more and answer the many question on guys' behavior.

i'm not saying its a bible to understand guys 100% but many questions are answered inside. i can assure you you wont regret reading it. so are you girls serious enough or dun bother?

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Added on May 2, 2008, 1:30 pmwhy guess? why dun ask him? tell him you are interested to go, n see what's his answer. if its ok, can even ask why din invite you.

pls stop the guessing game. this is the kind of attitude that relationships into trouble - too little communication.

whether he is lying or not is another issue altogether.

take action, dun guess. pls

This post has been edited by Petre: May 2 2008, 01:30 PM

guys sometimes tell little lies, maybe not 'cheat'. i suggest you girls find out what is the problem.

as always, the magic word is 'communicate'

you might be throwing away something that might have been beautiful.

still nothing happen meh? or dun dare take action?

to those who believe in true love, anything goes...

to those who are so called 'realistic', its another thing...

make a choice, and take responsibility for it. nothing is for sure. but its better to do it and fail than never do.

good guys bad guys good girls bad girls. how you carry yourself in the world will eventually get back to you. be yourself, trust yourself. ask yourselves. there is always something you have that others dont, vice versa. you may naver had found the true love in your entire life, but you may have lived happier than those who had.

there is no one solution that fits all. there is no guarantee someone's workable solution is going to solve yours.

take hints and points, then decide. take action, hold responsibility for it. in the end, you dont need to feel sorry for anybody because you held the responsibility.