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markchan
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 Apr 17 2008, 09:28 PM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Apr 16 2008, 11:04 PM) Its power dynamics. If she feels like she doesn't have to fight for you, she'll easily leave you. You're less valuable. However if you're also out with other girls, that you also have options, she's more likely to stick with you. The idea of allowing your partner to flirt with others in a LDR is to let them get rid of frustration in a controlled manner. It doesn't always work, but at least when you lose her, you'll also have been out with other women, so you don't have to be so damn depressed. yo silver hawk you wake the sense out of me here. now i know my mistakes being stupidly way tooo loyal |
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linux2622
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Apr 17 2008, 09:42 PM
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sure! Because we do the same thing. Let him kiss also no problem.
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Cheesenium
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Apr 18 2008, 08:56 PM
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QUOTE(markchan @ Apr 17 2008, 09:28 PM) yo silver hawk you wake the sense out of me here. now i know my mistakes being stupidly way tooo loyal Yeah,im also not gonna be so loyal now. Having a backup seems like a pretty good idea. |
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digita1tech
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Apr 18 2008, 09:52 PM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Apr 16 2008, 11:04 PM) Its power dynamics. If she feels like she doesn't have to fight for you, she'll easily leave you. You're less valuable. However if you're also out with other girls, that you also have options, she's more likely to stick with you. The idea of allowing your partner to flirt with others in a LDR is to let them get rid of frustration in a controlled manner. It doesn't always work, but at least when you lose her, you'll also have been out with other women, so you don't have to be so damn depressed. I like your fcuking idea...........i should do that t00........ Its like casual dating........where everyone have many choices  ...hahahaha |
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