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 Apr 15 2008, 08:16 PM
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Mine just fail too.Some of my friends are hiding something from me.Keep telling that dont want to stress me up when i ask them.Somethings wrong and i guess she got bf d.Im abandon because of that.
Wasted all my effort. LDR is untrustable. |
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Apr 15 2008, 09:06 PM
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QUOTE(DumbDumbDingDong- @ Apr 15 2008, 08:20 PM) wats LDR ? your ex gf is so mean ! shes not responsible at all . . i pity u =( . heart broken sux I didnt even manage to start it.She used to be so interested in me last year.Everytime msn me when online,email me all the time,sms her also got answer immediately.  Now,all opposite.I cant do anything now.Guess that double degree arrogant guy got her adi.My friends dont even want to tell me. I did expect this to happen.Maybe she's mean or i did something wrong.I dont know. Life still goes on. |
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Apr 15 2008, 09:34 PM
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QUOTE(markchan @ Apr 15 2008, 09:20 PM) guess you are slow. girls tend to fall for the person who are more daring.. Yes,im slow because im uncertain that we'll make through this 4 years long LDR.Thats what hesitate me.No point doing something if the chances of success is non existent and im not confident in it.It is the same for what ever things you do. Grab the chance once it is there. You delay then the next Casanova will sweep her off her feet.... Still there is no right or wrong. Just hopes that person is not a j3rk. I do always think that a lady should get undivided attention and love. Yeah equality is every one seeking right now. No matter what you must know we are not equal at all biologically or mentally. So play your part a man should treat a lady with respect and don't apply theories or logical thinking. It wont work... The heart only yearned for love and attention not equality nor power.. no logic in it... so if there is ever a chance to love. afraid not to lose.... go ahead with courage... hey you only live once and remember this ticket we bought, there is no turning back.... So what?It's done now. Life still goes on. |
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Apr 16 2008, 07:54 PM
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QUOTE(Stefanov @ Apr 16 2008, 02:49 PM)  Sad case. what are they thinking ar?!? pity u man. same case here. Dun care lah.Im not going to have any more relationships till somewhere is the future. |
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Apr 16 2008, 08:38 PM
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QUOTE(-br0k3n- @ Apr 16 2008, 08:01 PM) i can only meet her once in a month since she working and i study At least you can see her once a month.I can only see her once a year.Thats why i dont want to go after her. |
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Apr 16 2008, 10:10 PM
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QUOTE(-br0k3n- @ Apr 16 2008, 08:58 PM) some ppl told me getting a webcam or 3g.. Go ahead.wat u think? She dont even bother to go online to msn with me adi. QUOTE(silverhawk @ Apr 16 2008, 09:27 PM) To TS: WTF? Like that also can?Just let her hang out with the guy, and you should be hanging out with other women as well (as friends of course). Then you both can talk about your activities with other people rather than only she talking about the guy. If you dare, you can even suggest that you're both allowed to go on casual dates and flirt with other people, but stay committed to the relationship. good idea  |
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Apr 17 2008, 08:40 AM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Apr 16 2008, 11:04 PM) Its power dynamics. If she feels like she doesn't have to fight for you, she'll easily leave you. You're less valuable. However if you're also out with other girls, that you also have options, she's more likely to stick with you. The idea of allowing your partner to flirt with others in a LDR is to let them get rid of frustration in a controlled manner. It doesn't always work, but at least when you lose her, you'll also have been out with other women, so you don't have to be so damn depressed.  Sounds like a good idea.At least got backup in case this one's gone.  QUOTE(-br0k3n- @ Apr 16 2008, 11:08 PM) at least like tat got something to talk for wen u wif her... Yeah,MSN works very well provided both can online at the same time and often.soli to heard tat bro... It works very well last year for me. The reason she cant go online because of the net charges.The on campus accommodation charges you for every single MB you download.I cant blame her other than her on campus accommodation. Aus internet connection isnt much better than Malaysia. |
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Apr 17 2008, 03:31 PM
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QUOTE(t3chn0m4nc3r @ Apr 17 2008, 08:44 AM) yup... tat's the way it is these days... no stick to 1 guy or gal forever... Yeah,being loyal to someone gives you nothing. |
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Apr 18 2008, 08:56 PM
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QUOTE(markchan @ Apr 17 2008, 09:28 PM) yo silver hawk Yeah,im also not gonna be so loyal now.you wake the sense out of me here. now i know my mistakes being stupidly way tooo loyal Having a backup seems like a pretty good idea. |
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