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 Apr 15 2008, 04:14 PM
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the answer IS never. not even a bad looking guy.... trust me ... i experience it about 5 times....
no need to be good looking.. just being there with her is enuff to tear you guys apart. Ps:/ so sad to see her being used... |
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Apr 15 2008, 07:42 PM
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QUOTE(DumbDumbDingDong- @ Apr 15 2008, 06:26 PM) i got a same problem like u . . but i dont know she will wanna break with me or not . . but if it is better and . . happier for her to go den . . i got no choice but to let her go . i just dont know wats my future haha same case here. she may be talking about this guy... Added on April 15, 2008, 6:30 pm Really ? but . . if i dont let her have fun . .with some other guys . . she'll be very bored for the whole month/until i go visit her  she talks about this GUY to me . . i just dont know why . . deduction he maybe a decoy of the real picture.... 1. she really trust you there fore she told you everything 2. but normally the one she like she wont tell you the whole story only apart of it. For me i dont think so this guy is a threat only the "silent" one.... but becareful too either one i have experience both of it the one she told me and the hidden one.... anyway long distance relation ship is bound to fail with out trust and understanding < key element |
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Apr 15 2008, 08:50 PM
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QUOTE(DumbDumbDingDong- @ Apr 15 2008, 07:50 PM) thx alot . . for giving such resourceful info . . thanks . . but i dont really know we'll last long or not . . i do trust her 100% but . . even though i trusted her , i keep worried about . . the negative sides u know ? QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Apr 15 2008, 08:16 PM) Mine just fail too.Some of my friends are hiding something from me.Keep telling that dont want to stress me up when i ask them.Somethings wrong and i guess she got bf d.Im abandon because of that. LDR= untrustable.... Ong distance relationshipWasted all my effort. LDR is untrustable. yeah true to a certain extend. But most of the time phail BIG time This post has been edited by markchan: Apr 15 2008, 08:53 PM |
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Apr 15 2008, 09:20 PM
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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Apr 15 2008, 09:06 PM) I didnt even manage to start it.She used to be so interested in me last year.Everytime msn me when online,email me all the time,sms her also got answer immediately. guess you are slow. girls tend to fall for the person who are more daring..Now,all opposite.I cant do anything now.Guess that double degree arrogant guy got her adi.My friends dont even want to tell me. I did expect this to happen.Maybe she's mean or i did something wrong.I dont know. Life still goes on. It is the same for what ever things you do. Grab the chance once it is there. You delay then the next Casanova will sweep her off her feet.... Still there is no right or wrong. Just hopes that person is not a j3rk. I do always think that a lady should get undivided attention and love. Yeah equality is every one seeking right now. No matter what you must know we are not equal at all biologically or mentally. So play your part a man should treat a lady with respect and don't apply theories or logical thinking. It wont work... The heart only yearned for love and attention not equality nor power.. no logic in it... so if there is ever a chance to love. afraid not to lose.... go ahead with courage... hey you only live once and remember this ticket we bought, there is no turning back.... |
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Apr 17 2008, 09:28 PM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Apr 16 2008, 11:04 PM) Its power dynamics. If she feels like she doesn't have to fight for you, she'll easily leave you. You're less valuable. However if you're also out with other girls, that you also have options, she's more likely to stick with you. The idea of allowing your partner to flirt with others in a LDR is to let them get rid of frustration in a controlled manner. It doesn't always work, but at least when you lose her, you'll also have been out with other women, so you don't have to be so damn depressed. yo silver hawk you wake the sense out of me here. now i know my mistakes being stupidly way tooo loyal |
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