The more you Hold on, the further she'll go

if she has a change of heart..then it wasnt meant 2 be

Sure whyu not?

Why so insecure?

if your girlfriend hangs out with another guy and eventually falls for him, she wasn't meant to be yours anyway.

Good one.

hahaha.
fidelity and commitment seem to be VERY lacking in today's relationships. I don't know why. Cheating is rampant. When you're in a relationship, there is no more you, there is no more me, there is an US.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Apr 16 2008, 05:04 AM

lol, there's a noticeable change in the group of people posting before and after the mod moved this from GC to CC

Sad case.
what are they thinking ar?!?
pity u man. same case here.

I definitely would agree unless the guy is not having any intention on your GF. If there is, explain to your GF, and you've done what you can. If your GF leaves for the guy, I can say is either, she is not what you looking for, she is not mature or you are not incompetant. In fact, today is different world compare to the 60's and 70's, where we all looking to stability financial status.

What to do? 3 years effort all gone adi.Just in a snap.



Dun care lah.Im not going to have any more relationships till somewhere is the future.

i can only meet her once in a month since she working and i study

At least you can see her once a month.I can only see her once a year.Thats why i dont want to go after her.

some ppl told me getting a webcam or 3g..
wat u think?

To TS:
Just let her hang out with the guy, and you should be hanging out with other women as well (as friends of course). Then you both can talk about your activities with other people rather than only she talking about the guy. If you dare, you can even suggest that you're both allowed to go on casual dates and flirt with other people, but stay committed to the relationship.

good idea

Go ahead.

She dont even bother to go online to msn with me adi.

WTF? Like that also can?

Its power dynamics. If she feels like she doesn't have to fight for you, she'll easily leave you. You're less valuable. However if you're also out with other girls, that you also have options, she's more likely to stick with you. The idea of allowing your partner to flirt with others in a LDR is to let them get rid of frustration in a controlled manner. It doesn't always work, but at least when you lose her, you'll also have been out with other women, so you don't have to be so damn depressed.

at least like tat got something to talk for wen u wif her...
soli to heard tat bro...

Sounds like a good idea.At least got backup in case this one's gone.

Yeah,MSN works very well provided both can online at the same time and often.

It works very well last year for me.

The reason she cant go online because of the net charges.The on campus accommodation charges you for every single MB you download.I cant blame her other than her on campus accommodation.

Aus internet connection isnt much better than Malaysia.

yup... tat's the way it is these days... no stick to 1 guy or gal forever...

yeah i heard tat 2. cheer, find malaysian

Yeah,being loyal to someone gives you nothing.