And that's absolutely subjective to each person/family. I've never mentioned that parenting is easy, but it's not impossible to do it even if you work. You'll simply need to find the best way to handle it base on your own capabilities. And not every family can survive on a single income either

But me, I totally cannot stay home 24/7 as a housewife Can't survive on routine life. So I respect those who can

if got money, of course can provide better living conditions ma

about delegating, it depends on how capable the parents are la. both my parents work full time but i grew up with family times on weekends, taking me to ballet, taekwondo, organ, tuition class ... seeing my parents at home every night with time to help me with homework or take me to the movies... yah and always had balanced meals everyday...

woo... later serve my mom tea already... T_T



hey jackie no reason, just wanna say you're pretty

i think it doesnt matter how much a girl earns every month, as long there an income coming in for the family tat's good already..
the higher the income of course better la..

This post has been edited by Liuism: Apr 8 2008, 05:40 PM

Dont really care about that.It's not that important as long as she's improving and earn more as time goes.

Everyone has to start at the bottom and climb to the top.

This post has been edited by Cheesenium: Apr 8 2008, 08:08 PM

I would say guys must earn more than girls or at least same. Cox it would be a tough time wen hubbys see their wife as a successful business woman while the hub is just a normal teacher. Of cox u needa improve to closen the gap, but its hard. Hard life everyday. Sumtimes when argument comes..wives can use 1 word to stop their hubby, >i`m earning more than u, y dun u just shut up n listen to me?< In either way, i believe hubs shud earn more n b more wiser than their wives. Just an idea..i dun hav experience or wat..what u think?

More importantly, are girls (or guys for that matter) actually earning the amount they 'should be' earning a month?

Otherwise, it's all wishful thinking only.

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Added on April 24, 2008, 1:22 pmI agree with this. All the preoccupation with how much a person is SUPPOSED to earn really sickens me.

This post has been edited by Rendezvous: Apr 24 2008, 01:22 PM

The problem is whatever a girl earns is used for her own personal use, while whatever what a guy earns partially has to be used for family/gf expenses/house etc.

I dun know what this thread for...honestly

It just like a thread greybear want to release her angry on me? lol

I never think about girl salary, cause by the time female reach 30, they should be married, and for me

I will earn enough money for my future wife so she never needed to suffer

Maybe we should change the title from "How much a girl should earn per month when they 30"

to "How many lady earning over 10k now?" (well, lady, dun tell me those female over 33 or 50

This post has been edited by ShadowSongz: Apr 29 2008, 05:10 PM

wow...minimum of RM20,000 per month?do you mean per person or shared between husband and wife?

emm...high expectations

That is so true.. A lot of my aunties are so successful that their husband used that as an excuse to get a divorce from them..E.g. One's an architect hubby also but on lower salary ; the other's even worse, she's a lawyer and supported her hubby to Uni who eventually had an affair and said she's a huge pressure on him all his life.. saddo!

So I guess I'd rather have a hubby who is capable of earning more than me cause the brilliance of my aunts run in the family

This post has been edited by Alonso412: May 21 2008, 02:41 AM

it depends to a person i know a gurl tat earns 5k a day. Some girls prefer to be Dependant by married a rich husband and stay home.

Girl earn around Rm2k enough kua.

hmm i think if that couple is married, the girl's earning should treat as extra or saving for own save
just in case anything happen

Great! Finally I heard someone thinking the same as me tat's wat I'm working on now, saving and planning to pay our new hse down payment of 100k, whereas he'll does the renovation+repayment part and I'll continue to save money to serve as financial back up for family

This post has been edited by Greybear: May 21 2008, 10:30 PM