First, before i advance my comment, i have a little question, all lady want to be treat fair from the age ago, they claim they can do anything a guy can do, since we (male/female) are in same position, when you expected ur husband earn more than 10k/month....

How much you(to all lady) can earn for a month? 10k/month? 15k/month?

Since we are in same position, why guy must responsible for whole family expense while the wife sitting in the house? baby sitting? house maintaining? Please lar, i hire a baby sitter or a cleaning maid SPECIAL FOR MY FAMILY also dun need so much money.

i spent night reading through this tread and i found out, only male who post and claim they earn more than 15k/month,  but how about the ladies?

If this is a fair world, dun expect something cant even do by urself, dun depend on ur husband, depend urself

don't think about how much your partner earn, don't stop looking for more money once you reach your target

assuming there are kids, a house to maintain, a yearly family holiday some where nice, funds for investment and a separate fund for retirement, minimum is 20k

map san so realistic

*hold hand swing swing*

I voted null for both topics, the reason is you don't stop earning. Money is not the most important thing but it is quite important also. It brings food to the table.

Null vote here

I don't think there's a need to actually limit yourself to a certain level of income by a certain age. For me, I'll do best and strive for the best all the time, so it doesn't matter if I earned 10K per/month by 30 or not, the important part is that I work and earn that 10K myself.

I personally couldn't care less if my bf earn less than me provided that he's doing his best and is aiming to be better in what he does and earn. But if he's not earning well (says.. well below average like RM1K for 25 years old) and show no sign of progress, then goodbye. I totally cannot tolerate people who are not willing to improve his/her career and future, that goes to both gender.

Null vote here

I don't think there's a need to actually limit yourself to a certain level of income by a certain age. For me, I'll do best and strive for the best all the time, so it doesn't matter if I earned 10K per/month by 30 or not, the important part is that I work and earn that 10K myself.

I personally couldn't care less if my bf earn less than me provided that he's doing his best and is aiming to be better in what he does and earn. But if he's not earning well (says.. well below average like RM1K for 25 years old) and show no sign of progress, then goodbye. I totally cannot tolerate people who are not willing to improve his/her career and future, that goes to both gender.

just ask him to stay at home cooking, cleaning, laundry, take care of the children, and you working

just ask him to stay at home cooking, cleaning, laundry, take care of the children, and you working

That's what a maid is for, let's not deprive the maids off their job.    

Kenot kenot... like this make him live in paradise jor.. Must make him know the importance of finding money and providing for family too. Some rich housewives will never understand that.

oh ~ !!! so the girls are living in paradise all this while and the guys are working hard to earn the money

you rather put your house and especially your own child in the hand of stranger ? you have misjudge how important parenting issues is

oh ~ !!! so the girls are living in paradise all this while and the guys are working hard to earn the money

i'm a supporter of women independently getting their own income

but hor, i think it's not easy to become a housewife also. need to cook, clean, take care of the kids everyday. if you do any mistake (kids grow up bad, food not nice, house not clean enough) people will say "why so lazy one? you stay in the house do what?" and then if you ask for extra allowance from hubby, or complain hubby doesn't spend enough time, hubby can say, "oh i work so hard you know, you only spend..." zzz

and when u go out and talk to other professionals, they can say, "you dunno anything one lah, cause you're housewife" my mom kena this even though she's a working pro -__-" 
it's a faaaaar cry from paradise lor -__-"

What makes you think you can't do parenting when you are working? 

It's a matter of how you delegate time in between your family and work. But of course if you can't, you can always stay at home and do it fulltime