Null vote here

I don't think there's a need to actually limit yourself to a certain level of income by a certain age. For me, I'll do best and strive for the best all the time, so it doesn't matter if I earned 10K per/month by 30 or not, the important part is that I work and earn that 10K myself.

I personally couldn't care less if my bf earn less than me provided that he's doing his best and is aiming to be better in what he does and earn. But if he's not earning well (says.. well below average like RM1K for 25 years old) and show no sign of progress, then goodbye. I totally cannot tolerate people who are not willing to improve his/her career and future, that goes to both gender.

That's what a maid is for, let's not deprive the maids off their job.

What makes you think you can't do parenting when you are working?

It's a matter of how you delegate time in between your family and work. But of course if you can't, you can always stay at home and do it fulltime

And that's absolutely subjective to each person/family. I've never mentioned that parenting is easy, but it's not impossible to do it even if you work. You'll simply need to find the best way to handle it base on your own capabilities. And not every family can survive on a single income either

But me, I totally cannot stay home 24/7 as a housewife Can't survive on routine life. So I respect those who can