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7chai
post Nov 14 2012, 12:27 PM

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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Nov 14 2012, 11:44 AM)
I think GC should have a thread for posting screenshots of such creeps' PMs.

There is a spam report thread in Helpdesk but people mainly post screenshots of PMs that are trying to advertise and spam their inbox. So far don't think there's a thread to report creepy PMs like this. There are many guys on LYN sending creepy PMs, but most of them just say "Hi can I know you" and ends up wanting to add you on Facebook lol. laugh.gif
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I'm like that 1 woh, how ? unsure.gif
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post Nov 14 2012, 01:04 PM

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QUOTE(7chai @ Nov 14 2012, 12:27 PM)
I'm like that 1 woh, how ?  unsure.gif
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A little tip, try bring up a topic that is of interest but not a creepy topic la. tongue.gif
Most of the time when a guy just say Hi can I know you, I tend to just ignore because very reluctant to reply.
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post Nov 14 2012, 01:07 PM

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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Nov 14 2012, 01:04 PM)
A little tip, try bring up a topic that is of interest but not a creepy topic la. tongue.gif
Most of the time when a guy just say Hi can I know you, I tend to just ignore because very reluctant to reply.
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so u mean guys who say Hi can I know you, u see them as creepy ? unsure.gif
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post Nov 14 2012, 01:15 PM

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QUOTE(7chai @ Nov 14 2012, 01:07 PM)
so u mean guys who say Hi can I know you, u see them as creepy ?  unsure.gif
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No wor. I see them as boring. lol. laugh.gif
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post Nov 14 2012, 10:15 PM

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no creeps PM me awhile these while...

but I support. Start a thread for creepy PMs.
7chai
post Nov 15 2012, 01:16 AM

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QUOTE(BlurSotong @ Nov 14 2012, 10:15 PM)
no creeps PM me awhile these while...

but I support. Start a thread for creepy PMs.
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well, i think ur market value doesnt show in this area
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post Nov 28 2012, 01:10 AM

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QUOTE(7chai @ Nov 15 2012, 01:16 AM)
well, i think ur market value doesnt show in this area
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not a vege or even for sale in the first place.

Which girl is?
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post Dec 18 2012, 05:41 PM

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I think this is a good thread for girls.
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post Dec 22 2012, 11:55 AM

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Try to normalize the situation , if you have a girls club you should have a guys club then a guy and girl club. In that way you can justify ban and minimize harassment in girls club. So lets say if some guy saw a girl post in girl club and really interested to know something either sexually related or something else they will refer the post subject to the guy and girl club to ask. Reply or not is up to the girls.

It's just the same as the toilet theory, if all shopping mall only have female toilet and no male toilet where do you think all the guys would go?

male brain 80% sex, strong will ones can discharge sex frustration quietly in other place and be civil, but the weak minded ones will discharge anytime when they can't take it. Its hard to control and setting up a girls club only made it that much obvious that this people will troll and harass female in the forum.

On the other hand when there is a male club only the female will get curious and constantly monitor to check for post that could help them tackle their bf problem or what a guy usually do and think, hence they are also checking out what's in that mind of guys which is empty but full of sex.

Cupid corner not very suitable for topic not related.

So I would suggest setting up 1 corner for guy and 1 corner for girl and a combine corner for question to be ask from both side.

Because base on current situation I see girls are very defensive in girl club and guys are horny and desperate to know more about girls. I think its almost like girl club = holy secret shrine of girls (constantly invaded by horny men).

Another thing is participation, when girls see topic they don't like they avoid, then some other girls that doesn't represent the majority posted things that is against their thought, hence giving the wrong illusion to the guys that girls are like that. So unless you have a number of girls voicing out to help each other there isn't really much a mod can do.

I only came by once in a blue moon because of a few reason:

1. Girls here easily feel offended and always on the defensive mode which made genuine male who want to help reluctant to post. Only thick face guy would post.

2. Girl ask for social equality but claim throne in girls club where else guys are ask to respect the girls but have no throne of their own. Sounds like a dominant wife VS horny husband.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not defending male or female, I'm just voicing out my personal dismay against both female and male while dealing an issue related to the gender. Gender discrimination on both sides, like the endless quarrel of husband and wife. Which is why I stay out from girls club.
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post Dec 22 2012, 12:06 PM

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QUOTE(mowlous @ Dec 22 2012, 11:55 AM)
1. Girls here easily feel offended and always on the defensive mode which made genuine male who want to help reluctant to post. Only thick face guy would post.

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For the bolded part, i can tell u not all girls in this section are like what u describe. Maybe got 1 or 2 la, just that most of the reply are made by this 1 or 2, so it makes u think this section are fill up by this type of girl.
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post Feb 21 2013, 09:53 AM

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ladies should moar to the staff
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post May 2 2013, 03:09 PM

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QUOTE(7chai @ Dec 22 2012, 12:06 PM)
For the bolded part, i can tell u not all girls in this section are like what u describe. Maybe got 1 or 2 la, just that most of the reply are made by this 1 or 2, so it makes u think this section are fill up by this type of girl.
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cos usually those not offended one malas nak layan. laugh.gif
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post Oct 1 2015, 12:57 AM

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Most of those creeps are from Kopitiam, so I just invade Kopitiam and give them a piece of my mind.

I think most of them are virgin boys with too much dirty fantasies.
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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Nov 14 2012, 01:15 PM)
No wor. I see them as boring. lol.  laugh.gif
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post Mar 10 2017, 01:42 PM

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SUShadamr
post Mar 13 2017, 09:10 AM

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im lucky to found dis group. well lets talk about skincare and diet and whatsoever
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i've gotten some good advice reading some of the problems here that i also have. But don't know how to stop guys coming in and talking nonsense here.

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