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 Girl's Club Clean-up, before the section dies..........

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shaun3230
post Jan 19 2009, 09:45 PM

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On the whole i find this section controlled, but the kopitiam sometimes are prone to sexual remarks, etc


Added on January 19, 2009, 9:49 pm
QUOTE(pangping1510 @ Jan 19 2009, 08:06 PM)
at last, lyn is acting up =p

1. as usual, the only-girl-can-open-new-thread rule stays, whichever guy who opens the thread should be warned, and the thread should be closed; if he persists, his membership should be cancelled
2. enable a function for girls to report a thread if most of the girls opine that the thread should not belong to girl's club
3. any suspicious new account with female tag should be suspended and the thread should be closed
4. how i wish i can be moderator cuz everytime i look at certain thread i just know its from some .... thread starter
5. for guys who want to ask some questions just do it in kopitiam, they dont belong to girls club do they

p/s: thanks for bringing this up goldfries
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How about modifying the forum permission in the ACP where member with a female tag only can start new topics?

Suspend offenders for a longer period..

I maybe I would like to suggest, u need some more mod capital for GC. I`m not saying they`re not doing a good job, but u should consider getting more mods for here....

ps: A guy can become a mod in GC?


Added on January 19, 2009, 9:56 pmpaying mods as intensives is a good idea, but they cant be here 24/7 as well can they?


ps: These are my opinions/suggestion... Dont ban me ah

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post Jul 18 2009, 10:32 AM

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I don't think guy should come into our topic. Somehow or what this's ladies planet for discussion & not for guy to come in and chat with girls & try to understand girls mind or thought!
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post Oct 23 2009, 08:01 PM

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post May 13 2010, 05:37 PM

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then we should appreciate this thread ? lol
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post Jun 8 2010, 05:15 PM

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QUOTE(goldfries @ Mar 21 2008, 06:22 PM)
as long as the ladies are in favor of it.

sad.gif by not doing what se7en mentioned, how else is GC going to recover?

the founding mothers of GC (like kyliemin.....) did whip the whip and also was kind enough to allow guys to post in GC, however this kindness was not properly treasured. guys took this for their advantage and that is where GC is now.

btw I'd also like to propose that
1. any NEW account that's found imitating a GIRL and starting a topic here. the duplicate account will be permanently banned while the original account (yes, of the owner) will get a 21 day ban.
2. any NEW account that come in (without being recorded as duplicate account) IS subjected to scrutiny and MAY subject to be banned as well.
3. IF any supposedly tag female account was discovered for actually being a guy - permanent ban! hehe...... ok well let the ladies decide la. i don't think permenantly leaving them as female tag would help la se7en, plenty of them do that. it'll give them nutso access to GC. so i prefer they get permenantly banned or something. hehe.
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he Girl's Club was setup for a purpose - to let the girls that hang around the forum have a place to go to to have their share of Ladies' Fellowship smile.gif It's supposed to be a place where ladies can go to and discuss and all but apparently the section has gone down down down. Girl's Club is somewhat becoming Sex Central.

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post Jun 23 2010, 03:19 PM

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so far ok mah... although i get some really weird pm-s from guys asking for dates (not really into that). i really enjoy the chats and info i get... helps alot.
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post Jun 28 2010, 02:23 PM

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I think I have to agree with u goldfries, too! smile.gif smile.gif smile.gif






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post Oct 21 2010, 10:31 PM

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Hello, are there any mods in girls club? The guys are bashing girls in the Girls Club. Someone please do some cleaning up.

Guys shouldn't be allowed to post in Girls Club, end of story.

Obviously they have nothing constructive to say (well, except goldfries, statistically speaking). WHY LET THEM SAY ANYTHING AT ALL?

As a girl, when I come to Girl's Club sometimes I really feel no mood (=.=)


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QUOTE(map @ Oct 21 2010, 10:31 PM)
Hello, are there any mods in girls club? The guys are bashing girls in the Girls Club. Someone please do some cleaning up.

Guys shouldn't be allowed to post in Girls Club, end of story.

Obviously they have nothing constructive to say (well, except goldfries, statistically speaking). WHY LET THEM SAY ANYTHING AT ALL?

As a girl, when I come to Girl's Club sometimes I really feel no mood (=.=)
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I second that! Minus the guys part. I find some guys pretty alright and they had (sometimes) posted something constructive. But yeah, I oso no mood. So very malas to even sign in. and the topics here... are all the same. If not hair, it's mani-pedi. If not that, it's some birth-control or morning after pill. and of course, "check out my blog" or "WTS/WTF".


Added on October 22, 2010, 3:38 pmCan mods pls just merge topic of similar issues together or amend the rules? Like "perform a search before starting a thread?" Rules in Girl's Club is really lenient...

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Amen, sister.

If not enough resources, I don't mind walking the talk. I volunteer to look through threads and clean up the forum for free simply because I think it'll be great to have a conducive environment for girls to play in.

The rule of thumb isn't that hard. If you dare to post, make sure you dare to say the same thing to your wife/gf/sister/mother.


... then again, I also wonder if any Mods are still viewing this 'Clean up' segment. Especially since guys can post in the 'have u been molested/raped thread', blatantly telling girls that they hope girls get abducted and raped (=.=)"
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post Oct 25 2010, 08:54 AM

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can we hv tags? guys should only be allowed to post for threads guys+gals. default should be gals only as this is girl's club.
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post Oct 26 2010, 12:16 AM

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QUOTE(map @ Oct 23 2010, 12:22 AM)
Amen, sister.

If not enough resources, I don't mind walking the talk. I volunteer to look through threads and clean up the forum for free simply because I think it'll be great to have a conducive environment for girls to play in.

The rule of thumb isn't that hard. If you dare to post, make sure you dare to say the same thing to your wife/gf/sister/mother.
... then again, I also wonder if any Mods are still viewing this 'Clean up' segment. Especially since guys can post in the 'have u been molested/raped thread', blatantly telling girls that they hope girls get abducted and raped (=.=)"
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Haha, I second your nomination! (again!).

I know which post you mean and by who. Listiani was it? She's a girl I think, and I understood where she was coming from. Have you read how she got provoke into posting something like that? and it was directed to the one who provoked her, no? Even I was provoked.

I think post like that would be pretty common, be it from a guy or girl, and we should expect it more from a girl, being the more emotional and compasionate gender. I sometimes break my own rules and post irrational and irrelevant comments that I regret later. shocked myself of my own decency. laugh.gif

QUOTE(strawbabe90 @ Oct 25 2010, 08:54 AM)
can we hv tags? guys should only be allowed to post for threads guys+gals. default should be gals only as this is girl's club.
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It's a good idea but one can opt to not have a gender tag like me and it's not foolproof cos guys can have girl's tag and vice versa. In kopitiam, there's a fella with username "MsBelinda" who is actually a guy but likes to pretend a girl online. and have obnoxiously stupid and stereotypical girly topics. Even I, thought he was a girl cos he sounded like a girl with really small viewpoint. Turns out to be a guy! vmad.gif mad.gif vmad.gif mad.gif
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haih and still no mod has replied

just the three of us talking here =.=

if u want a girl-friendly environment, can try malaysianbabes forum as well
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post Oct 26 2010, 05:12 PM

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QUOTE(map @ Oct 26 2010, 05:03 PM)
haih and still no mod has replied

just the three of us talking here =.=

if u want a girl-friendly environment, can try malaysianbabes forum as well
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feel like girl's club is 60% guys, 10% guys pretending to be girls and 30% girls only. i'd really like to keep guys out from here. some are ok, some are not.. but even if they are ok... sometimes girls just want to listen opinion from other girls only period.
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but sometimes the guys are really good at answering some of my queries - like bridal package, wedding tradition..... biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(leongal @ Oct 26 2010, 05:13 PM)
but sometimes the guys are really good at answering some of my queries - like bridal package, wedding tradition..... biggrin.gif
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that's why having tags is the best. if thread starter say strictly girls, any guys account should be suspended if they reply. people can still create new accounts, but it will at least give a bit more protection and stop a lot of the senseless remarks.

now if you put a thread strictly for girls, guys still can post and still get away scot free.
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yeah we cant straight away ban the guys from voicing out their comments. Some replies are very constructive. Maybe suspend those who post rubbish biggrin.gif
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Guys, if you dare to post, make sure you dare to say the same thing to your wife/gf/sister/mother.


I'm not advocating that guys should be banned from girls club, but that the club itself should be moderated. Right now it's free-for-all posting!

We are supposed to have two moderators for girls club.

But hor, the last time Felicious was active was on 10th October 2010 - 01:38 PM.

The last time Feyhime was active is even more fantastic. 18th June 2009 - 11:21 AM!!!


Who is moderating Girls Club? Nobody!!! Time to tutup kedai already lah like that, even my kopitiam forum has more moderation than this doh.gif
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QUOTE(map @ Oct 26 2010, 05:03 PM)
haih and still no mod has replied

just the three of us talking here =.=

if u want a girl-friendly environment, can try malaysianbabes forum as well
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No, I just want a place where we can really discuss views and ideas constructively. I don't mind one liners or few idiots but I just hate tarps and trolls. I genuinely want to help/discuss, but sometimes, it freaking dissappointing and $%@#^ to be trolled. Very disheartening.

QUOTE(strawbabe90 @ Oct 26 2010, 05:23 PM)
that's why having tags is the best. if thread starter say strictly girls, any guys account should be suspended if they reply. people can still create new accounts, but it will at least give a bit more protection and stop a lot of the senseless remarks.

now if you put a thread strictly for girls, guys still can post and still get away scot free.
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I like your idea. But it's a lot of work to implement a code and yet this doesn't yeild effective results that we'll want to see. Merely filters. I can think of so many ways to get around it too.

QUOTE(leongal @ Oct 26 2010, 05:13 PM)
but sometimes the guys are really good at answering some of my queries - like bridal package, wedding tradition..... biggrin.gif
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ya ya, some guys are actually really nice and respects us enough to share their views and perspectives. Other boys thinks it's funny to brush girls off. Boys...

QUOTE(blackburry @ Oct 26 2010, 05:36 PM)
yeah we cant straight away ban the guys from voicing out their comments. Some replies are very constructive. Maybe suspend those who post rubbish biggrin.gif
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It used to be like that... Then mod hilang.

QUOTE(map @ Oct 26 2010, 11:33 PM)
Guys, if you dare to post, make sure you dare to say the same thing to your wife/gf/sister/mother.
I'm not advocating that guys should be banned from girls club, but that the club itself should be moderated. Right now it's free-for-all posting!

We are supposed to have two moderators for girls club.

But hor, the last time Felicious was active was on 10th October 2010 - 01:38 PM.

The last time Feyhime was active is even more fantastic. 18th June 2009 - 11:21 AM!!!
Who is moderating Girls Club? Nobody!!! Time to tutup kedai already lah like that, even my kopitiam forum has more moderation than this  doh.gif
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Haha, PM Goldfries then. or Frutie. or Syd G. Get a female mod or the admin to come in.
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what if we have button, like report button but it collects vote from users that thinks TS is a guy? once it hits, maybe 15 users, then the thread automatically hilang from view?

and an option to show post only from persons with female tags or non-tags, or both?

Possible? That way, we don't need more manpower and lighten mod's work. (but admin byk kerja to create button)


Added on October 27, 2010, 11:00 ammaybe not automatically hilang from view... later that butang kena abused.

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