Try to normalize the situation , if you have a girls club you should have a guys club then a guy and girl club. In that way you can justify ban and minimize harassment in girls club. So lets say if some guy saw a girl post in girl club and really interested to know something either sexually related or something else they will refer the post subject to the guy and girl club to ask. Reply or not is up to the girls.
It's just the same as the toilet theory, if all shopping mall only have female toilet and no male toilet where do you think all the guys would go?
male brain 80% sex, strong will ones can discharge sex frustration quietly in other place and be civil, but the weak minded ones will discharge anytime when they can't take it. Its hard to control and setting up a girls club only made it that much obvious that this people will troll and harass female in the forum.
On the other hand when there is a male club only the female will get curious and constantly monitor to check for post that could help them tackle their bf problem or what a guy usually do and think, hence they are also checking out what's in that mind of guys which is empty but full of sex.
Cupid corner not very suitable for topic not related.
So I would suggest setting up 1 corner for guy and 1 corner for girl and a combine corner for question to be ask from both side.
Because base on current situation I see girls are very defensive in girl club and guys are horny and desperate to know more about girls. I think its almost like girl club = holy secret shrine of girls (constantly invaded by horny men).
Another thing is participation, when girls see topic they don't like they avoid, then some other girls that doesn't represent the majority posted things that is against their thought, hence giving the wrong illusion to the guys that girls are like that. So unless you have a number of girls voicing out to help each other there isn't really much a mod can do.
I only came by once in a blue moon because of a few reason:
1. Girls here easily feel offended and always on the defensive mode which made genuine male who want to help reluctant to post. Only thick face guy would post.
2. Girl ask for social equality but claim throne in girls club where else guys are ask to respect the girls but have no throne of their own. Sounds like a dominant wife VS horny husband.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not defending male or female, I'm just voicing out my personal dismay against both female and male while dealing an issue related to the gender. Gender discrimination on both sides, like the endless quarrel of husband and wife. Which is why I stay out from girls club.
Girl's Club Clean-up, before the section dies..........

Dec 22 2012, 11:55 AM
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