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post Oct 5 2008, 07:23 AM

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Chinese Ed and English Ed girls?

i dated, screwed several frm both sides before ...

and i can surely tell you they are typically
























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Its No Difference. The difference u saw comes frm the person itself. So dont only get one example and then make it as your generalization.
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QUOTE(Amaru @ Mar 2 2008, 02:02 AM)
I'm an English educated Chinese guy (studied in UK) but I prefer Chinese-educated girls. Think all the girls I've ever dated came from a Chinese-educated/speaking family. laugh.gif

I love listening to them speak Mandarin Chinese the most.  Not sure why, when I hear a girl speak Mandarin well, I think she's very cultured. For me it's a big turn-on. drool.gif

I think because I brainwashed by old Chinese films/dramas, showing Chinese Princesses (who of course never ever spoke English).  whistling.gif

As for English-educated Chinese girls, from my experience, very fun to be around with, easiest for me to talk to. But if their Mandarin cannot make it... big turn off.  yawn.gif
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post Oct 10 2008, 04:20 AM

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english ed!!!
more open minded and more worldly --> more things to talk about
more sophisticated and more elegant also, better dress sense.
and higher chances of success in life, due to their education.
more career focused and more able to stand up for themselves, can work and same time be a great mother.

why no to chinese ed leh, cuz the girls are
sometimes very rude, talk like come from pasar
very manipulative, and likes to back stab others for the lamest reasons
hurt easily and very close minded
career wise --> more likely to be uneducated so more likely to end up sucking their husband's money dry cuz they don't work.
more likely to marry a guy just for the money while she stays at home do nothing and waste her life only, living a boring and meaningless life.

that's my opinion lah, you don't need to agree with me.
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post Oct 10 2008, 02:20 PM

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QUOTE(aragorn.yoong @ Oct 10 2008, 04:20 AM)
english ed!!!
more open minded and more worldly --> more things to talk about
more sophisticated and more elegant also, better dress sense.
and higher chances of success in life, due to their education.
more career focused and more able to stand up for themselves, can work and same time be a great mother.

why no to chinese ed leh, cuz the girls are
sometimes very rude, talk like come from pasar
very manipulative, and likes to back stab others for the lamest reasons
hurt easily and very close minded
career wise --> more likely to be uneducated so more likely to end up sucking their husband's money dry cuz they don't work.
more likely to marry a guy just for the money while she stays at home do nothing and waste her life only, living a boring and meaningless life.

that's my opinion lah, you don't need to agree with me.
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Are you sure about the sophistication part. More open minded means less sophisticated. I mean open minded means every idea also accept. "Closed-minded" means think before accept. So how can you say that Chinese ed are less sophisticated.

More things to talk about. You mean more garbage to talk about? But true, English ed has more to talk about. Perhaps it is a good thing perhaps it's bad. If you like to look at the surface then more things to talk about it's good. But if you like to think deeper, then perhaps less things to talk about it's better since that person thinks a few things but look at the mechanics as well.

Well, elegant. If you are from a richer family, it does not matter whether you are a chinese ed or a english ed. But the thing is chinese ed tends to pick clothes more conservatively. And also they do not just wear anything which could be good for some people.

I agree that English ed has a higher chance of success but that is not because of their level of education. That is because most likely they are able to pick management posts that require a high level of English but not a high level of technical competency or knowledge. Chinese ed people tend to be more on the technical field that pays less but competency wise, they could be much better then English Ed.

Well, open your eyes more. Those girls you see come from the village. Chinese ed girls tend to be more civilized. i agree that they are manipulative and get hurt easily but that is also because they think more deeply. Thus deeper thinkers tend to be more emotional.

Who says chinese girls are like that. You saw 1 or 2 and you generalized it to everyone? You mean your mum told you this?

Yeah I know it is your opinion. But your opinion also shows what kind of a person you are.

cheers

This post has been edited by sylar111: Oct 10 2008, 02:23 PM
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i feel that most people find individuals with powderful >9000 english to be intimidating...sad.gif
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 02:20 PM)
Are you sure about the sophistication part. More open minded means less sophisticated.  I mean open minded means every idea also accept. "Closed-minded" means think before accept. So how can you say that Chinese ed are less sophisticated.

Your definition of open/close minded is quite different from the norm. Open minded people can accept new/different ideas, close-minded people cannot. Its not about thinking before accepting, open minded people do that too, close minded people just stick to their believes despite contrary evidence or rationale. If you've never experienced handling close-minded people, you wouldn't know.

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Well, elegant. If you are from a richer family, it does  not matter whether you are a chinese ed or a english ed. But the thing is chinese ed tends to pick clothes more conservatively. And also they do not just wear anything which could be good for some people.

laugh.gif You've obviously haven't seen how chinese-ed girls dress. Its not about being conservative, you'll see a lot of skin too. Its once again, in the mentality, and you simply cannot deny that english-ed girls tend to be more elegant and sophisticated. Why? Probably because they understand the concept of individuality, which doesn't really seem to exist in chinese education.

Go to friendster, and see how many lala muis you can find, these girls... all chinese ed. You will hardly find an english ed lala mui.

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Who says chinese girls are like that. You saw 1 or 2 and you generalized it to everyone? You mean your mum told you this?

Yeah I know it is your opinion. But your opinion also shows what kind of a person you are.

cheers
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Remember, your opinions tell what kind of person you are as well. Look at the way you just responded to his opinion, you think you're any better? It may be his opinion, but from my experience (I mix a lot with both sides), its true.
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Oct 10 2008, 03:36 PM)
Your definition of open/close minded is quite different from the norm. Open minded people can accept new/different ideas, close-minded people cannot. Its not about thinking before accepting, open minded people do that too, close minded people just stick to their believes despite contrary evidence or rationale. If you've never experienced handling close-minded people, you wouldn't know.
laugh.gif You've obviously haven't seen how chinese-ed girls dress. Its not about being conservative, you'll see a lot of skin too. Its once again, in the mentality, and you simply cannot deny that english-ed girls tend to be more elegant and sophisticated. Why? Probably because they understand the concept of individuality, which doesn't really seem to exist in chinese education.

Go to friendster, and see how many lala muis you can find, these girls... all chinese ed. You will hardly find an english ed lala mui.
Remember, your opinions tell what kind of person you are as well. Look at the way you just responded to his opinion, you think you're any better? It may be his opinion, but from my experience (I mix a lot with both sides), its true.
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I would imagine that the close minded definition that you actually mentioned do not actually exist in the modern society. I mean if you are close minded as such, i really cannot see how you can survive at least at the professional level. To me, if a person do not accept an idea no matter how much proof has been shown to him or her without even questioning why that idea is wrong or right this person is hopeless. I mean I do agree that beliefs play a big part in accepting an idea but at least that person should find out the relevancy of that idea and can decide to reject it based on their belief but to reject an idea outright is just unacceptable.

Yeah, perhaps I should research more.

Well, I guess I am biased towards Asian Girls because contrary to what the earlier poster has said, I find Asians in general more sophisticated then non Asians. Even their education promotes sophistication. I guess you are English Ed, but if you do know Chinese education, you will find that they promote literature much more then English education. For us, it is more on cause and effect, but their education promotes deeper thinking towards life overall. I mean that guy is just totally degrading Chinese Ed people just based on a few. I find Chinese Ed people more cultured then English Ed. Chinese Ed ppl tend to be more determined. And it is totally wrong to say that they are not as educated as English Ed. I mean there is a reason why malay parents wants to sent their children to Chinese schools rite?
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post Oct 10 2008, 06:33 PM

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Chinese girl very soft on bed only make noise..boys need to do the actions..

English girl very powderfull..you sit down also she can kao tim.

this the diff i think..hehehehe brows.gif
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post Oct 10 2008, 06:34 PM

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sorry, but i disagree.

QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 02:20 PM)
Are you sure about the sophistication part. More open minded means less sophisticated.  I mean open minded means every idea also accept. "Closed-minded" means think before accept. So how can you say that Chinese ed are less sophisticated.


how can being open minded equate to being less sophisticated? sorry but i see no logic in this. first off, your definition of being open minded lacks on so many levels. being open minded does not mean they accept every single idea. it means being able to accept that there are many sides to a coin; that does not mean they practice every single idea that is thrown to them. they are just receptive to new ideas [practicing it is another story] hence they are usually less judgmental. towards the end of your msg you said, "But your opinion also shows what kind of a person you are." that sounds rather judgmental to me

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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 05:54 PM)
I would imagine that the close minded definition that you actually mentioned do not actually exist in the modern society. I mean if you are close minded as such, i really cannot see how you can survive at least at the professional level. To me, if a person do not accept an idea no matter how much proof has been shown to him or her  without even questioning why that idea is wrong or right this person is hopeless. I mean I do agree that beliefs play a big part in accepting an idea but at least that person should find out the relevancy of that idea and can decide to reject it based on their belief but to reject an idea outright is just unacceptable.

Yeah, perhaps I should research more.

Well, I guess I am biased towards Asian Girls because contrary to what the earlier poster has said, I find Asians in general more sophisticated then non Asians. Even their education promotes sophistication. I guess you are English Ed, but if you do know Chinese education, you will find that they promote literature much more then English education. For us, it is more on cause and effect, but their education promotes deeper thinking towards life overall. I mean that guy is just totally degrading Chinese Ed people just based on a few. I find Chinese Ed people more cultured then English Ed. Chinese Ed ppl tend to be more determined. And it is totally wrong to say that they are not as educated as English Ed. I mean there is a reason why malay parents wants to sent their children to Chinese schools rite?
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there are such people who can't accept new ideas... always stick on traditional conservative paths... i don know how but they CAN be successful in terms of income... as for chinese literature i don find any use of it in my line of job... even for my software engineering course... and i do not understand what do u mean cultured... and determination comes from passion... u don like it u won have it... as for malay parents sending their children to chinese school... tat's totally unrelated... i prefer international school over chinese school 10 times over... i'd say chinese schools have higher discipline level compared to others... tat will prevent them from turning into mat rempits... or so they thought... last but not least... look at China man... most of them are from unwanted pregnancies... how cultured is tat...? adding chemicals into milk so tat it will seem to have high protein to sell at higher price and killing people... how sophisticated is tat...? i'm not promoting or degrading any ED people... but i don like stubborn hypocrites...


QUOTE(Willster @ Oct 10 2008, 06:33 PM)
Chinese girl very soft on bed only make noise..boys need to do the actions..

English girl very powderfull..you sit down also she can kao tim.

this the diff i think..hehehehe  brows.gif
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if u never do anything u will bore her and she will dump u... sleep.gif

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post Oct 10 2008, 07:28 PM

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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 05:54 PM)
I would imagine that the close minded definition that you actually mentioned do not actually exist in the modern society. I mean if you are close minded as such, i really cannot see how you can survive at least at the professional level.
Yeah, perhaps I should research more.

And it is totally wrong to say that they are not as educated as English Ed. I mean there is a reason why malay parents wants to sent their children to Chinese schools rite?
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Do not exist? Look around yourself. I bet you're not living on tarzan's tree house. These people still exist among us. But the truth is we're all close minded in a way. Just that i believe we're lesser close minded than some other people. Besides, we have to look at which situation or case we're referring to.

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To me, if a person do not accept an idea no matter how much proof has been shown to him or her  without even questioning why that idea is wrong or right this person is hopeless. I mean I do agree that beliefs play a big part in accepting an idea but at least that person should find out the relevancy of that idea and can decide to reject it based on their belief but to reject an idea outright is just unacceptable.
Hopeless? Why say so? What if it does work the way they want it to be? Such generalization like yours will only leads to more disagreement. There is no saying that this person is hopeless. You got to be more open minded in this case and accept whatever possibilities which could occur to both open and close minded people. For this case, you got to be more open minded that some close minded people do achieve successes in their daily lives thus not hopeless? I don't think so its right for us to give a say or our two cents saying that they are hopeless. I bet most of our forefathers and parents are closer minded than us, but why do some or most of them still able to live harmoniously and purposefully? Mentality after all are broadly define. I believe we have to be more specific into details for description.

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I find Chinese Ed people more cultured then English Ed. Chinese Ed ppl tend to be more determined.


I believe when it comes to culture, i will say it depends hugely on the country we're living in. Besides, it seems as you're saying that English ed people are more towards science? Correct me if im wrong. I believe both Chinese ed and English ed have their own culture and it is pointless to debate on it. Each culture is define to be unique and it shouldn't be put in the context of comparison. I believe you know this as well.

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As long as they are pretty and sexy. hmm.gif
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QUOTE(Willster @ Oct 10 2008, 08:14 PM)
As long as they are pretty and sexy. hmm.gif
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 02:20 PM)
Are you sure about the sophistication part. More open minded means less sophisticated.  I mean open minded means every idea also accept. "Closed-minded" means think before accept. So how can you say that Chinese ed are less sophisticated.

More things to talk about. You mean more garbage to talk about? But true, English ed has more to talk about. Perhaps it is a good thing perhaps it's bad. If you like to look at the surface then more things to talk about it's good. But if you like to think deeper, then perhaps less things to talk about it's better since that person thinks a few things but look at the mechanics as well.

Well, elegant. If you are from a richer family, it does  not matter whether you are a chinese ed or a english ed. But the thing is chinese ed tends to pick clothes more conservatively. And also they do not just wear anything which could be good for some people.

I agree that English ed has a higher chance of success but that is not because of their level of education. That is because most likely they are able to pick management posts that require a high level of English but not a high level  of technical competency or knowledge. Chinese ed people tend to be more on the technical field that pays less but competency wise, they could be much better then English Ed.

Well, open your eyes more. Those girls you see come from the village. Chinese ed girls tend to be more civilized. i agree that they are manipulative and get hurt easily but that is also because they think more deeply. Thus deeper thinkers tend to be more emotional.

Who says chinese girls are like that. You saw 1 or 2 and you generalized it to everyone? You mean your mum told you this?

Yeah I know it is your opinion. But your opinion also shows what kind of a person you are.

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i guess u're more into Chinese-ed chicks? hmm.gif


Added on October 10, 2008, 9:29 pm
QUOTE(Willster @ Oct 10 2008, 06:33 PM)
Chinese girl very soft on bed only make noise..boys need to do the actions..

English girl very powderfull..you sit down also she can kao tim.

this the diff i think..hehehehe  brows.gif
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... thats all u could ever think of.

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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 05:54 PM)
I find Chinese Ed people more cultured then English Ed. Chinese Ed ppl tend to be more determined. And it is totally wrong to say that they are not as educated as English Ed. I mean there is a reason why malay parents wants to sent their children to Chinese schools rite?
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老兄,你说得很棒!一点也没有错。我热烈支持你的立场。香蕉人永远就是抱着这种思想和态度。他们简直就是狗眼看人低。
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Chinese ed like Jolin Tsai
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 05:54 PM)
I would imagine that the close minded definition that you actually mentioned do not actually exist in the modern society. I mean if you are close minded as such, i really cannot see how you can survive at least at the professional level. To me, if a person do not accept an idea no matter how much proof has been shown to him or her  without even questioning why that idea is wrong or right this person is hopeless. I mean I do agree that beliefs play a big part in accepting an idea but at least that person should find out the relevancy of that idea and can decide to reject it based on their belief but to reject an idea outright is just unacceptable.

Yeah, perhaps I should research more.

laugh.gif Dude, you need to get out more often. Go on and chase the chinese ed women, you may be lucky for sometime, but eventually you'll meet their close minded parents, and oh boy, are you in for a world of headaches smile.gif G`luck on that laugh.gif

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Well, I guess I am biased towards Asian Girls because contrary to what the earlier poster has said, I find Asians in general more sophisticated then non Asians. Even their education promotes sophistication. I guess you are English Ed, but if you do know Chinese education, you will find that they promote literature much more then English education. For us, it is more on cause and effect, but their education promotes deeper thinking towards life overall. I mean that guy is just totally degrading Chinese Ed people just based on a few. I find Chinese Ed people more cultured then English Ed. Chinese Ed ppl tend to be more determined. And it is totally wrong to say that they are not as educated as English Ed. I mean there is a reason why malay parents wants to sent their children to Chinese schools rite?
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Promote sophistication? laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif You REALLY REALLY need to get out more often and see the world man. Just look at how the typical english ed girl dresses and how a typical chinese ed girl dresses, and you'll see the difference in sophistication. Check out the fashion sense in Sungei Wang vs The Curve as a simple example smile.gif Unless your definition of sophistication is lala mui style.... then... I have nothing to say.

As for education, again you're dead wrong. I'm not chinese educated, but my cousins were, and from what I know from them, the education is heavily based on memorisation, and its has a very close minded approach. A leads to B, why? because teacher says so. Don't agree? want to voice your opinion? Cannot, you're not "qualified". This is very typical of the chinese social structure. I'm not sure how you can say chinese education promotes literature more than english education, its bloody ingrained in the education. I enjoy the literature discussions english ed people can have, I can pass a book to an english ed friend, and then have a discussion about the theme, the character building, the setting, the possible meanings, etc. I do that with a chinese ed (who can read english), and the discussion is often crappy.

You want more examples? Look into RWI, and notice those people who often post stupid things with broken english? Guess what sort of education they had? Yeap, chinese ed.

It is important for to know the different levels of chinese education and how people group them. For instance, my cousins may have went to a SRJK ©, and a national school after that, they are actually considered english ed due to their upbringing. There are lots of people like that, so you may have confused some english ed people as chinese ed. Its not so much about where they got the education, but the education which influenced their mindset. Some people are 50-50, some people are 70-30, some people are 90-10. This topic focuses on people who are much heavier on either end of the scale.



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