why people always want scold ugly gal as pig leh ? For me pig quite Cute you know O_O!!



KAWAIIII!!!

This post has been edited by froz3nnoob: Jan 20 2008, 01:30 PM

do u know wat is g-par...? AKA pork chop....
go watch the movie and u will understand...

techno, where's amarourouse?

aih no matter how much u say ppl are shallow this and that, the "why are ppl like that?" "I'm not like that.." " Its the inside that counts"

It would be a lie to say looks doesnt play any role at all in choosing a partner

its sad but true.. wat to do its the internet.. the internet is serious bizniz.. maybe ppl are scared of getting "surprises" when they meet up with their online friends lol

but not jsut internet.. even in real life. looks still play a role when ppl meet and make friends..

just an example.. imagine a really good looking guy.. maybe say.. johnny Depp lookalike, or Lee Hom, approaches our dear hatekiasuppl "fat girl".. wat would be the first thing on ur mind? as the third party observer..

"yer.. wat the hell is that guy doing? sure someone dare him to talk to her.. exchange number" or "omg wats wrong with that guy? bad taste"

if u have never ever ever ever had that thought go through ur mind for a split .. second, then ok, u're the greatest person in the world

if not.. shush

y ask me...? ask UW or siowgirl ma...

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Added on January 20, 2008, 1:58 pmif take internet tat serious... u will be shot wif a gigantic chain gun fully loaded wif surprises like 1 of hatekiasuppl's story bout the online gf...

and actually... exclude the uglier ppl... looks is not an issue...
get my picture...?

This post has been edited by t3chn0m4nc3r: Jan 20 2008, 01:58 PM

ceh that means u oso the same lar :lol

eh... where got same... some ppl are not so ugly but not considered pretty also... those ppl also getting ignored u know... cuz cuter ppl getting more and more lor...

doesn't matter lawllllllllll

i mean have you ever seen just ok men getting hot chicks? cuz they have specialty, playing music instrument, w/e bla bla skills.

stop whinning and do something

appearance does matter. it's all boils down to yourself whether you can accept your partner's appearance or not.

seriously... hotter chix usually go for richer guys...

erm yeah... it does matter for most of the ppl especially teenager.. but in university.. i don think appearance really that important.. money is the main factor

i can cook & bake pretty well, play guitar,drums, bass and piano pretty good as well, but i not rich

i dont have a hot chick. how? lol

i can cook

i can play electric guitar and bass

i can play violin

i can play piano

and im ugly.

i dont have hot chick how???

means we phailed

I see a lot of boys and girls between 14~17 are always asking 'Am I cute?' (you know one la... commonly in F*ckster)
That's disgusting........ meaningless question, I bet they don't dare to look at the damn mirror.

i dont. but there's some dating site called BBW or something.
and then there's miss jumbo in thailand anyway
for those who are not satisfied with themselves and yet does nothing.

for some people that are not satisfied with themselves..doens't mean they did ntg..stop labeling them as being lazy..some might have tried and tried but it just so happen that it didn't work out..not everyone have the luck to sucessfully change themselves u know?

heredity also plays a role and genes factor come into play and certain stuff u cant just change it because it's ingrain in you..for example being fat..yes environmental and other social factor does play a part . such as u can go on diet and change ur lifestyle,exercise..etc etc but however no matter how u change it.. there's still a limit to it..cuz there's where genes come into play. there is a limit to what u can change and what u cannot.so does that mean these ppl are lazy ppl?they did ntg to change themselves?

the world today are too realisitic..attractive people yes..they do get more benefits and advantage. this is also because of stereoptype and labeling ..ppl usually will associate everything good to u if u are attractive.example if u are pretty..ppl usually will think u are nice,friendly,charming and etc etc too..that's why ppl will want to get to know u. if only we could do away with such stereotypes and labeling, appearance itself doesn't matter. ppl would want to get to know u no matter how u look because then everyone of us would just be a blank piece of paper with no labels attached.

sadly that aint' the case..we are still humans after all..but however there are some extreme ppl who only want to be near and make frens with attractive ppl and they shun those ugly fat or average looking ppl.do they actually deserve such treatment?put urself in their shoes first and think b4 they act. I've also seen many cases where ppl look down and shun these ppl but once they become pretty they start talking and being frens with them..it's so obvious and fake. in the first place..if did they think about the consequences of their actions when they look down on such ppl?these ppl might already have low self esteem and by doing that ur actions hurt them and they might even sink lower into their self despair and how could u expect these ppl to have the motivation to change themselves if they are already so depressed?and society and ppl around them keep confirming their distorted perception of themselves? I mean not all ppl are like that..some sucessfully did manage to fight their way and change themselves, but that is a minority. majority of ppl might felt what the point of changing themselves when ppl already treating them like that?yes, u may say that lagi u should be determined and motivate urself but u are not that person experiencing it, when u are depressed, is it so easily overcome?they will need support and help to improve themselves but these ppl are only constantly discouraging them.easier said then done.so nxt time before u openly insult an fat ugly person think twice. just because they are like that doesn't give u the right to label and insult them.

if he's very fat i'll ask him to slim down! firstly is cuz of his looks,secondly is cuz of his self confidence,thirdly is for his health!
a guy without confidence is scary...

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Added on January 20, 2008, 7:41 pmyea i agree with you.. actually its not that some people like to be friends with thouse nice looking people,its just that those nice looking people have confidence in themselves.. and i believe those who are confident, will have a better relationship compared to those who have no confident in themselves at all..
one without any confidence,will try to avoid mixing with the crowd,just because they feel so out of the crowd and they are very depressed about their appearance.. yeah when they're depressed how on earth they gonna change themselves? they hide from people,when you wanna treat them better,they'll become very hard to express their feelings out.. those without confident easily to get emo.. and they become anti-social..
to change them,they need people who accept them fully and be supportive of what they are.. or sometimes,can even praise them by saying,eh you look slimmer! or eh you look prettier! with that,they will feel happy for sure,and feel happy that someone finally praises them! and i'm sure they'll have their mood back to change themselves into a better person

This post has been edited by smacky: Jan 20 2008, 07:41 PM

anyway, let me shares my experience with you all...
my current gf...i knew her from internet....
i nvr asked for her picture although we chat over the internet for almost half year.

previously, she always send me big fat girl pictures(dunno where she got it)...however, we still maintain our relationship in the internet...i have no intention of going after her... being friend is the limit between i and her.

however, there's one time she purposely come to KL to find me...
you know, all the while she's been lying to me telling me she's a big fat girl.....the truth is that she's a very pretty girl
and happily ever after...


My advice:

Photo can be lies...
dun make fast judgement...see to believe...

What happens if she is really a super duper fat girl wearing glasses and bikini at your doorstep??

ok.. here goes mine, since someone shared his story..

I got to know my bf in an online game, way back, uhm.. 3 years ago.
we exchanged pic, as frens.. and started getting closer to each other..
then we got tgt after 9 months of friendship and decided to move on..

after about a month of typing on msn, we decided to talk on skype and use webcam..

after 8 months tgt, we decided to meet up in RL..
He's from Aus, and im in Msia.. we both flew over to SG, to meet up.

And now, 2 yrs+ has passed, and we're still tgt with ea other.

and yea, im not those pretty type.. instead.. im the fat and ugly looking type =p
whereas my bf, who looks way betta den i do and slimmer den me.

sometimes, even though ppl does not look as attrative, but that doesn't mean they aren't nice ppl.. Real world is always more realistic.. mayb, there's gonna be a day where, fat and ugly ppl like me, would not have a piece of land to stand on.

*off-topic* : wavessss to dazzy =p .. .. no wry, u'll find a new one soon!
come back to LDR and chat wit us =x

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Added on January 21, 2008, 1:37 amanyway, 2 thumbs up for ur post =p
u had just voiced out for ppl like mie!

This post has been edited by babysept: Jan 21 2008, 01:37 AM