Feb 23 2009, 10:51 PM
QUOTE(mizzvee @ Jan 18 2008, 11:55 PM)
i feel that nowadays, almost everyone judges people by their appearance. so what if they are ugly/fat/imperfect? they never allow these people to show their inner beauty and they shun them just like that.
for instance, online meeting new people.
"do you have a picture?" , "can i see your picture?", "do you have a photo of yourself?"
the first thing some people ask is to see the picture of the person their chatting with.
their reason?
"i just wanna know who am i chatting with so i don't feel like i'm talking to a stranger."
ok fine. if this is the case. its kinda acceptable.
but once the picture is being shown, the person who requested for the picture will stop talking to the other person if he/she is not good looking.
i admit it happened to me a couple of times, (yes, i'm not PRETTY, BUT AT LEAST I'M NOT EVIL!) . and it happened to a few of my friends too.
i have a friend who liked a guy, and she kinda hinted to him that she has feelings for him. the guy got the message but he told his friend that he will never accept her as his girlfriend just because she is fat and ugly! and she is one of the sweetest girl i've ever met.
WTF?
why why why is this happening?? why are people so realistic?
does it mean that only people with good looks are able to make new friends?
how bout those that are NOT pretty/handsome/cute/PERFECT/WHATEVER?
OPINIONS PLEASE!
People aren't realistic, they are superficial, both boys and girls.for instance, online meeting new people.
"do you have a picture?" , "can i see your picture?", "do you have a photo of yourself?"
the first thing some people ask is to see the picture of the person their chatting with.
their reason?
"i just wanna know who am i chatting with so i don't feel like i'm talking to a stranger."
ok fine. if this is the case. its kinda acceptable.
but once the picture is being shown, the person who requested for the picture will stop talking to the other person if he/she is not good looking.
i admit it happened to me a couple of times, (yes, i'm not PRETTY, BUT AT LEAST I'M NOT EVIL!) . and it happened to a few of my friends too.
i have a friend who liked a guy, and she kinda hinted to him that she has feelings for him. the guy got the message but he told his friend that he will never accept her as his girlfriend just because she is fat and ugly! and she is one of the sweetest girl i've ever met.
WTF?
why why why is this happening?? why are people so realistic?
does it mean that only people with good looks are able to make new friends?
how bout those that are NOT pretty/handsome/cute/PERFECT/WHATEVER?
OPINIONS PLEASE!
Some unattractive girls/guys give of bad vibes, like desperation or pushy, etc. So the first hurdle is the battle against self, if they have got that settled than the rest should be a piece of cake.
So instead of complaining here you should try encouraging your friends to be the type of person that attracts others, i don't mean looks but to build true inner beauty.
Amongst all the girls in my circle the one that has caught my eye isn't the prettiest but the one whom i know would be a great mum, a great friend, a great wife and a great person in general.
I'm a little of how both guys and girls are only taking care of their looks but letting their characters rot, in time to come we will all look gorgeously similar but have utterly bland personalities.
Added on February 23, 2009, 10:53 pm
QUOTE(max_cavalera @ Feb 23 2009, 09:04 PM)
welcome to the real cruel world. U remind me when i just finish secondary school and goin into college. I was an ugly, nasty pimples infected looking guy. and Im very skinny looking frail like a pole dat time, and im not tall either. even my boyish effeminate face didn't help me to get lucky with girls.
But hey i have a nice heart, i was naive, pure and way more honest than i could ever be rite now. But hey do girls consider dat? hell no...
But boy was i a late bloomer, as i went matured thru time, my face looks better, i gain weight, i look better than i ever was, i shrugged off my boyish frail look, my jawline looks more define, i look more manly now, thou i never totally able to ditch those boyish face. and i notice girls like me better now, its just common sense. don't just say only guys consider girls beauty, girls oso judge guys the same as well. ask your female frens to buck up and improve. where there is will, there will be changes. just obey the law of nature if you wana end up with better life n happiness. don't expect the law of nature to change itself to fit you.
haha, yup. I went through a similar faze when i was in my mid teens with pimples and stuff got the same treatment.But hey i have a nice heart, i was naive, pure and way more honest than i could ever be rite now. But hey do girls consider dat? hell no...
But boy was i a late bloomer, as i went matured thru time, my face looks better, i gain weight, i look better than i ever was, i shrugged off my boyish frail look, my jawline looks more define, i look more manly now, thou i never totally able to ditch those boyish face. and i notice girls like me better now, its just common sense. don't just say only guys consider girls beauty, girls oso judge guys the same as well. ask your female frens to buck up and improve. where there is will, there will be changes. just obey the law of nature if you wana end up with better life n happiness. don't expect the law of nature to change itself to fit you.
This post has been edited by Tak3shi: Feb 23 2009, 11:00 PM
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