QUOTE(Belphegor @ Jan 1 2008, 06:17 PM)
I'm a person who wish my future wife can cook, do house work. I don't mind if she wants to work. she doesn't have to be 100% submissive, doesn't have to wait me at home for sexual intercourse. Take care of kids, well, you and me made that kid, aren't we suppose to take care of them?
you know, there's always an exception. ngam ngam one of my friend having such mindset and I'm truly impress of what she thought of. plus, how old your girl friends? 20 the max. the time for them to pursue what they want, education. obviously they think like that. But years after years, they'll definitely find out that there's nothing better than waiting your beloved ones to come back from work, school, tuition.

Just so you know, everything comes out your head definitely having sex involve. Don't know what's your problem, but you definitely sound like a she-male to me.
another case of narrow-mindedness. just because i said i do not support guys who solely think girls should just stay at home and wait for sex, does that mean i do not support a wife who works and comes home as well?
my definition of a successful mom/wife/woman is like what u've described: work with an ambition and contribute to household income (in modern societies these days, unless u choose to live a mediocre life, only one source of income is not enough), then come home to cook and clean and watch after kids TOGETHER WITH THE HUSBAND. and definitely maids are no-no as i see maids as signs of incapability of the couple to take care of the family.
you're wrong, i'm 20-something and definitely think like one.
hello, a couple's sex life is one of the factors to make or break a marriage, haven't you heard? as long as you talk about marriage you talk about sex as well.
and just because i talk about sex makes me masculine? if so, shame on your narrow-mindedness. i can't believe double standards for sex still apply in this age.