Love, support and understanding be it that you work 9 - 5 or 5 - 9 or not working at all.



Love each other as they are

Support each other be it burden or happiness

Understanding that no one is equal and perfect.

This post has been edited by sexyamber: Mar 5 2008, 03:30 PM

What kinda love and support are you talking about?

Love your husband as he is in terms of his merits and flaws as a person.

Give the support that your husband needs be it for achievement or failure in life.

Hope this is clear enough

The definition of a good wife is very vague because different husband want different things. Egoistic husband want wife to listen to him all the time. Independent husband wish wife to be independent too. Insecured man, wishes wife to be by his side 24/7.

So there is really no such thing as a GOOD WIFE for everyone. Depends on the expectations and whether you can meet it or not.

caring enough ...always available when family has any problems ...try to bring lotsa joy into the family ...share the sadness n happiness ...be tolerate ...put em as ur priority

start practicing now la .. ask your mummy teach you how to cook .... ur working alsready .. why u want to be "house " wife ?.. be working wife la ...

Buy something nice to eat to home.

u r ryte!!! hrm.even me myself not really gud in cooking. spent almost 6 years live in hostel [cuz my skewl is a boarding school] makes me feel like -i know nothing- bout all housework. my mom n sis teached me all dat [cook especially] but then when get back to hostel n not practce cooking summore when got so many homeworks to do during holiday had reduced d number how many times i cook. then, forgot what ive learned before. n currently continue studying at university....i cme backhome during semester break oni, da whole semester didnt prctce cooking. haih2.

IMHO no matter how highly educated a women is -she has to know how to cook-at least some simple dishes. -and the facts that so many girls out there still doesn't know how to cook coz they are staying with parents and has got maid who do everything for them.

In the end of the day i think once in a while you husband would want to test his wife's cooking.

and i think it's quite true -mat salleh are more open and don't demand so much , unlike their Asian counterpart, and worst still Asian's Mother in Law

my mom always says the secret to a man is thru his stomach...

but the mistress mom taught her differently la, and I think her moms formula is more superior

yea must know how to cook ...after a tired day at work back home must drink some nice soup... if not ill go other place drink soup...

no worry...myself working mom 9-5 sat 9-1 sometimes reach home 9pm...
i dunno cook n dont do hse work coz i had before 2 maid...after i married ..i dun have maid .... i'm not marry a rich man...but a understanding man.. he do all the hse work even cook for me n wash our clothes .... and lipat then keep well in wardrobe ... i used to live like princess before i got marry... even now i got no maid no bungalow no driver i still live like a princess in my husband heart... .... so girls...dun force urself to learn cook or go classes ... learn to love urself... if a man love u he'll accept u like wat u are...

sorry for my english.... i'm not educated person....

i think 1st thing 1st must know how to cook

NO worries. Eventually you will able to do whatever that you cant do before after you married to your loves one. I know gals that was a princess before married, but now just like untie which so good in cooking & do marketing at pasar...

sooner or later your hubby will get tired and drink soup at mistress home...serious...

i am not married but regards to cooking.i hated cooking baking was done because i love it.....
then one of maid went back so alot of household work to do now its chores spilt among all take turns to cook. i do twice a week.1st it was a burden as i need to plan ahead and study the recipe n needed a helping hand.slowly it became more easy i can even plan dinner over any ingredients in the fridge...i found out its not that i hated cooking its just that i felt helpless cause i dont know how to cook well.my bf would love to drop by anytime after work or even after his sessions just to try my cooking:) makes the bonding stronger

be a full time housewife then your husband will be happy =)

Well, I guess that's depends on what your husband want right?

I'm currently working from 8am - 6pm, sometimes got to bring a lot of paper work home to do, monthly will be participating in charity event but I think it should be alright, don't think that I want to change current situation even after I'm married unless I have my own children. Anyhow, I don't know am I weird or what, I love chores. I just enjoy doing chores and love cooking too. Even sometimes back home at 7pm, I will still enjoy rush to the kitchen to cook some dishes. As for house chores, I'm used to it to wake up earlier in the morning to get it done before off to work, so at night can spend some time for my work.

I think it's all depends on how both communicate. It's not to say must know how to do chores or cooking then will be a very good wife, sometimes it depends on both needs

how to become newly housewife , well , that easy , i ask my wife to explain ..

whatever she said or do, u avoid, then u will be a good newly housewife

This post has been edited by limshenghong: Jul 20 2009, 01:41 AM