When I first stay in with my hubby b4 married, I can only cook very basic stuff, dun know how to make soup or steam fish, sweet sour crabs and stuff, my MIL taught me a lot of recipe, she will say this and that is my hubbys favorite and I slowly I learn to cook, and now ok edi. So not much to worry about, you can always learn later.

aiyoh don't la until have to TRAIN. you could just talk to the guy, any sincere guy will just be there to listen.

for me, i help out my wife voluntarily. i understand that when burden shared, she's less tired and can enjoy life better.

she also learn to help me with my burdens when she's free.

give and take, all happy.

but i don't disagree with what rayeko said about men not appreciating the housework it all starts with a simple step of talking and requesting of assistance in house chores.