Hi there,originially i wanted to post a reply in respect of a thread whether or not sex will crumble a couple's relationship and the thread starter included that question as a poll and the story was something like her female friend is having bf prob whereby her bf is treating her like total stranger when they are living under the same roof after how the girl had refused to have sex with the bf becaue the girl somehow never enjoyed it after a couple of intercourse(pain,not comfortable).

The "Is sex really important?" poll
What i wanna tell the thread starter was that,if you are a female,grown up enough to think properly,your very common sense will think that being together with the guy is no good choice.And i see that almost 90% of the females here would agree with me,as they understand that females go by emotion while males have needs,and they couldn't care less(which also the case here). I didn't read all the post,but some,and before reading the post i view the results of the poll that goes by the question : "Will sex crumbles your relationship". Amazingly,the votes for "YES" have 532 votes where as "NO" has only 199 votes. Funny isn't it ?? It's funny when i see there are majority of the male and females,especially,voicing out which obviously indicated the answer "NO".

My worry is this.Most of the "YES" votes here are from those creepy ,sick males which wanna manipulate women thoughts by winning on this poll. "No people will be that free just to that lar miss" ,if that's what you are telling me,i'd give u an example here : There's this couple here,in late teens,being together for 5 years,the guys is handsome, church boy,financially ok and smart and as for the girl,guys drool for her,and is also some no.1 girl in class.And this guy here is going overseas to further his studies and is saw him setting up a poll on his blog with the questions "do u believe in long distance relationship?" and the answer "No,u are naive" outnumbered "Yes love is everything" by as much as the poll above.To tell u secretly i voted "No" because i'm also quite an bad ass here but it's not like i want the guy(the guy love the girl too much) but i seriously don't do long distance(unless it's some real real real love that's it) but there's a little evil part of me wanting to see them break off.Okay,flame me. I assume that the majority of the forumers here are males,and it won't hurt them to just fulfill their evil thoughts with just one click ,just like what i've done to that guy's poll.Oh yeah,and thread starter,what i wanna say to you is,assuming if that bf of your friends felt upset because the gf made him look as if he's not good in bed or doesn't give in to your bf,u know urself well that he's a trash and please don't rely on that poll.Of course,it is also possible that you know the answer well enough but just seeking opinions from the forum-ers.

(Actually at this point some guys might be thinking i hold grudge on males and part of you might shouting gender equality.Okay i may act sound somewhat feminist sometimes but i know myself well that how i hate b****es the most.No hard feelings to u male forumers,i'm just talking about general facts.Rape and kill cases are often committed by guys and i know females sexual harass guys too but that's minor compare to the previous one and very rare they kill the male rape victim.Not trying to degrade females here,but i do admit very often in the society men always excel women as women are always not ambitious enough,not strong-willed enough.Just trying to be fair here.)

The "Condom on or without" poll

Seriously this poll wanna make me puke. In case you don't know what i'm talking about,go see for yourself here.I can't believe the number for "without" outnumbered " on" for more than 50% or so.There are still choices like still virgin or depends or even don't know.I believe we need to only focus on the answers " Yes" "No" or "Depends".There's already an option for depends,meaning u can have sex without condom if the girl is on pills,other safety measures are already taken and whatnot.But what's up with the answer " No" really! If you are a guy,i can say u an irresponsible horny man who just know how to have sex,okay,i'm not gonna use the word animal(animals have no brains and they know only how to multiply) here as i expect some people will see me as an old virgin,guy-hated b****, sexlife-less b**** or whatever names they are gonna call.I'm referring to those losers who don't have a plan in getting babies and solely for better pleasure without having thought bout the consequences. And for the females who voted "without" ,unless u have all the safety measures taken ,i'd say you are worse than the guy even if you willingly give in.I just don't know why people can not love their body.You might as well just return in to God then.

I'm sorry to say this again,it's again something against guys also.I somehow have the perception that most of the votes it's better not to have condom are from males.Again i'm surprised if these are the votes ALL coming from females.Unless they are retarded enough to wanna get pregnant out of sudden and go for abortion,women will make sure they won't be taken advantage.Also,if the girl wants real-meat-contact i'm sure she'll take other precaution measures as well.I read some of the post and alot of them saying "without condom not syiok and i bet the girl also want good sex" and i don't know what else to see them except monkeys(a species more close to human,thank me).


You see,the whole thing is i'm quite angered IF,i said "if", there are some lame horny losers that dying for a shoot try to come around this ladies' corner and think they can change their mindset by simply posting their lame comments and always have this every-girls-enjoy-sex-but-depends-on-who-the-guy-is stupid thought. Well,i'm not saying that every girls hate sex in fact i there are a lot of girls do enjoy it and most of them know how to take care of themselves.

I know myself well that the anger had made me created this thread and at the same time i also wish to warn those if there are any girls who are not wise enough to expose themselves to dangers.Sometimes,when you girls ask questions related to sex,be sure who you are asking to,always separate the genders,cause both classes give very different answers.Heck,what am i saying,i talk as if i'm some old virgin lecturing primary school students.At the same time,i appreciate the males there who actually voice out on those topics and actually gave comments that are fair and reasonable,i really think that you are all gentlemen.

All in all,no hard feelings here against anyone and why would i care so much if you may ask.My answer is that i hope the women here are more aware of their rights and safety because by this only then the males(referring to the bad ass males) would not think that they can do whatever they can do on us.This is very important especially in asia, women are still somehow being valued less in the society and i wish this could changed by simply women know when to say NO and by simply being able to counter all the males' bullies.

Phew,i sure have typed a lot.Thanks for reading.

I regard any poll result here as totally inaccurate.

Looking at the replies from the various threads (especially the ones you highlighted), it's not surprising that girls don't participate here.

Plenty of desperate male hanging around here and still they got the cheek not enough girls participating.

nobody cares what you think or what you say on whatever you think on the polls result.

Is good you have voice out your opinion which is good advice for all the girl but the final decision is still on their hand. If they really have though of all those there won't have so much accident pregnancy every year. There is also some girl which is never care at all what will happen to them.

As for the poll result you can't blame if the vote is majority voted by male in this forum as female population is more than male in this world.

Thank you so much for saying something ,goldfries, with people who has "powers" like you here saying something decent is really some significant good sign.Looks like i've just had a gentlemen here saying that the poll result aren't really that accurate as you may think.

Ermm just to add on something to my 1st post, i've been so long-winded in my 1st post because i crap a lot to avoid any war break out.And apparently i'm gonna do the same thing again. I read some post by the guys here saying sex is almost a must in a marriage and that marriage without sex is ur dream and that you should get a life. I do not disagree with this person who gave such comment,after all,normal marriages mean,intentions to create a family.And again,humans are results of evolution from animals and we have our needs,regardless males or females and thus healthy sex life should be practiced.

After me screaming about how males should respect women and how women should stop being silly and get cheated,it's still weird to think a relationship can keep going with proper sex life isn't it. Oh,i did see some posts saying many girls never enjoyed sex because there were no foreplay,the girl's u-know-what is not lubricated,the guy has no skills and whatnot...which,i know it may be correct but it seems to me the male's ego is still there.Seriously, i don't see a reason why a normal,good healthy guy should just treat her gf like a stranger just because probably the gf didn't tell the bf she wanted a foreplay, or the gf is not wet(or whatever u call it). Whatever it maybe,the bf shouldn't treat the gf like that because the gf has done wrong whatsoever,okay,maybe didn't talk to her bf bout why she's reluctant to have sex.My...

Again,thanks.

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Added on December 21, 2007, 3:52 amYou may wanna think again.I'm already in my late teens and more mature so i know what is right and wrong,on basic things.But you know,back when i was in early teens i was really naive and if i really refer to the poll results,i might have thought that Malaysians are so open to the extent that it normal that people don't play safe sex.Of course,girls with brains won't care less on the polls but i'm just bothered by the fact that those votes might really affect part of the people,even 1 or 2 is also a life!

Honestly,i never care what the polls say,never even to bother to vote especially the answer is so clear.I guess i'm here just to be some smart-alleck



You know i'm an anime fan and i always go to IRC for that purpose.Whenever i speak,the ppl there always,always and always assume i'm a guy and the ppl once said "there's no girl in internet" hah...

This post has been edited by namae_dake: Dec 21 2007, 03:52 AM

You should be a writer and write some books...

Who ever mention this is on his opinion only.
I wouldn't say female not using internet. In fact I do believe female can debate much much better than male.
If not every couple went in argument the one who will win in the end always is female.

This post has been edited by Asurada: Dec 21 2007, 04:07 AM

internet never a real thing either ...all data is stored sumwhr but after awhile of time it eventually will be wipe off...

Err welcome to the internet? If you take anything here seriously, you'll get heart attack very often XD Don't even bother about those polls. Those are lame 'attention-whoring' threads by desperado. All you have to do is to ignore them and let them continue pretending to be female or making a fool out of themselves. (And they still want to complain about not getting a gf or getting laid, goodness forbid, if you act like a transsexual all the time, it'll be a wonder if you do get any.)

Heh, rare to see you leave comment in GC. What you said probably true. In my opinion, there are things that can be discuss in public but there also things that SHOULD NOT be brought to public discussion.

Topic like Kinky SEX is a good example as in a topic that SHOULD NOT be brought into public discussion. Heck I even wonder is the TS there real female or just a shemale. If you wish to discuss this kind of topic PLEASE discuss it among your IRL friends at nearby cafes or Kopitiam and not in this cyber world where DENIAL OF ALL RULES probabilities exists .

For those monkeys who have too much spare time to post lame nonconstructive comment which do not helps, do yourself a favor go got get yourself a proper job and earn some money for yourself instead of wasting time here. It will do bring good not only to yourself but to society as well.

P.S: Btw I think Moderators and Admins should take consideration on moving all this SEX related topic to another sub-forum or Kopitiam and labeled it as above 18+ kind of tag on those topic. Bare in mind that there are still a lot of 未成年 (under age) forumers lurking around reading all this topics which may lead them to wrong direction in mental thinking.

namae_dake> There no point in ranting to those thoughtless/mindless baboons or whatsoever they are. Out of all the poll, I dare to say all of them fill with at least 70-90% non-logical comments. GC is no longer what it used to be. However, there are still some topic which actually help. You just need to know where to look for and decide whether that is relevant to your problem. Again, decision still lies on the eye of beholder. Good Reference Made Good Example. Simple as that.


The above quote is taken from the GC New rules thread. Look & Read at the BOLD Statements. To those male who pretend to be female, I pray that one day you learn your lesson. Be honest with your gender, there's always a line whereby human are forbidden to cross.


edit: Add additional quotes.

This post has been edited by Yukirin: Dec 21 2007, 04:23 PM

I agree with the TS in that the poll topics completely disgust me...and I would like to add that the poll starters always put some stupid unnecessary option that allows the pollers to completely avoid the question. If you want a real poll, put Yes, No, Depends...and not Don't Care.

But I do also see that the polls here are pretty much garbage and that 99% of the repliers are men. TS, I'm grateful that you've brought this up...but maybe we shouldn't let the polls get to us too much

me thinks sexually related topics are fine if people discuss it in mature manner.

however, as you can see the desperate males have already turned GC to a second and not-quite-as-bad Cupid's Corner.

you'll get stupid replies like almost everywhere here.

LYN is just my past-time medicine to keep me awake from my sleepy boring job.

Dont take internet too seriously

QFT (I'm a girl btw )

Sadly enough, though, a significant number of the most (well, this emoticon sums it up best --> ) posts come from either girls or very cleverly disguised shemales, based on their other posts in the forum. I don't think sexual discussion etc is bad either, but the sheer level of immaturity which is seen in such threads (and in many other non-sexual ones too, come to think of it)... I don't deny it's quite entertaining, though, the way soap operas with exceptionally dumb heroes and heroines are. Perhaps that's why I still come here when I've nbtd.

seem like almost nobody really know the real problem here, goldfries and the moderation team has been searching for a female mod for so long time ago, but nobody want to step up to the plate, but they keep blaming why this place had changed to desperate male section.

So TS before you start flaming males this and that, first thing first is evaluate yourself first, even though u think u are mature enough but u can't understand deep enough what, why and how people react in life, cheers

this is the internet so the poll must be true

i don't think TS is flaming males at all. in fact it's refreshing to finally see someone voicing out the ridiculous nature of some of the threads in this forum section.

while LYN has been a forum most frequent by male Internet users, the admins at LYN have graciously setup a corner for the ladies to hang out BUT unfortunately this noble allocation of corner didn't turn out as well as it should, thanks to desperate males.

it's alright if males know how to discuss and post constructive posts but unfortunately as what I've observed so far, most of them just lost their constructive capability when they're in Girl's Club.

anyway, our search for lady mods for GC has nothing to do with the place becoming a desperate male section. with or without mod, as long as users learn to behave and all, this place would be much more peaceful, like some forum sections of LYN.

Simple, humans are too stupid. They only believe and listen to the majority.
And the poll simply winrar becoz most males shemales say sex is a must, and those tail-following-dog will just follow and think its the right thing.

i don't understand, how to teach the users to behave in here ? even mods can't stop people from coming here but we can control people posting here, and i don't think this place will be naturaly converted back the way it was before by doing nothing

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Added on December 21, 2007, 2:17 pmeven i was tempted to post something ridiculous to be funny in here, but sometimes even i don't really know whether the TS was rather male or female,

This post has been edited by nickisthemost: Dec 21 2007, 02:17 PM

LOL. not like you can do anything, really. only way is someone whipping the whip like our ex-mods. sexy leh? *shipiaaakkk* spank'em!