Being father not EZ
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 Dec 17 2025, 06:42 PM
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QUOTE(malz89 @ Dec 17 2025, 06:12 PM) The hard part is yet to come. Year 1, hardly any sleep. Year 2, feeding and chasing. Year 3, repeat year 2.   my challenging time started. 1. eldest - starting to rebel 2. second - starting to demand 3. third - just insanity. luminaryxi, nothomobutsuper, and 10 others liked this post
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Dec 17 2025, 06:43 PM
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QUOTE(babykon101 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:28 PM) Ever since ayam haz becomes a father, work becum not EZ. seldom? Previously can goyan kaki etc abit, now work very hard thinking of baby cause very motivating, mau better future for kidz. Also seldom out with friends cause thought of those time can be better utilized to lie down sleep beside kids better. Nao at work can't wait to go home see baby, play with baby, carry them around bring go buy grocery and then play toys with them. /K how do you deal with missing your kid whilst you at work. My friend time totally zero right now you lepak sangat, your son will lepak for you in the future All the best TS this is a no-return-ticket jia you |
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Dec 17 2025, 06:58 PM
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Normal. Know yr goals, work on heading to those goals. Some say autopilot, but a man gotta do what a man gotta do. Headstrong Im a father of 3 before i was 30. This post has been edited by Chrix: Dec 17 2025, 06:58 PM nothomobutsuper and Quazacolt liked this post
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Dec 17 2025, 06:59 PM
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QUOTE(babykon101 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:28 PM) Ever since ayam haz becomes a father, work becum not EZ. Bcum professional daddy lol 😆 Previously can goyan kaki etc abit, now work very hard thinking of baby cause very motivating, mau better future for kidz. Also seldom out with friends cause thought of those time can be better utilized to lie down sleep beside kids better. Nao at work can't wait to go home see baby, play with baby, carry them around bring go buy grocery and then play toys with them. /K how do you deal with missing your kid whilst you at work. Like him! he is his son's manager. Cutest child star? |
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Dec 17 2025, 07:00 PM
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Yes agree i have son and dotter Quazacolt liked this post
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Dec 17 2025, 07:02 PM
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QUOTE(blanket84 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:44 PM) This. Now my son is 13 years old, I started to miss his 11 years old version. That is why people keep on making babies cause always miss the older version of their children 🤔 |
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Dec 17 2025, 07:05 PM
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salahan hamsap.
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Dec 17 2025, 07:11 PM
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QUOTE(babykon101 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:28 PM) Also seldom out with friends cause thought of those time can be better utilized to lie down sleep beside kids better. QUOTE(submergedx @ Dec 17 2025, 06:43 PM) My friend time totally zero right now  This post has been edited by Skylinestar: Dec 17 2025, 07:13 PM Quazacolt liked this post
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Dec 17 2025, 07:28 PM
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When they are small yes they are cute,
Wait till they grown a bit they will counter ur word and make u mad which is the reflection of how u treat ur parent back in those days...owaiii |
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Dec 17 2025, 07:31 PM
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Soon you realize, the family depends on you, and u hope u healthy enough to work through every hardship to earn money, ensure baby grow up.
Then think about their education and really hope nothing happens to your job. This goes until your kid finish uni, probably even after. |
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Dec 17 2025, 07:34 PM
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Ayam WFH
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Dec 17 2025, 07:47 PM
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Got dotter 1 years++ now. Setiap hari look for me. Awww miss her everytime I go opis. Crazy07, TsubakiKira, and 2 others liked this post
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Dec 17 2025, 07:49 PM
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wait until they reach 4 yrs old onwards, u will yell and scream at them
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Dec 17 2025, 09:25 PM
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QUOTE(g5sim @ Dec 17 2025, 05:50 PM) Why? Cuz prefer play game on phone n see peers than see you? Yeah. Something like that. He is in his room most of the time other than meal time. No more hanging out with us at the living room. Whenever I give advice, I hear grunts. Only had conversation during meal time, and during sending and picking him up to school.Me outstation also no more video calls. Still got 3 years before my daughter also become the same  |
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Dec 17 2025, 09:29 PM
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They want iPhone iPad,
Wifi said must international school Apa lancio class also got tuition, music 30k a month also not enough |
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Dec 17 2025, 09:48 PM
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Being parents not easy. i have nephew. Once above 9 I cannot stand his character anymore. Really minta penampar. And parents before having kid will say they gonna raise them old skool way, no gadgets. Podah. At 2 years old cannot tahan ready and give ipad. Quazacolt liked this post
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Dec 17 2025, 10:01 PM
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QUOTE(blanket84 @ Dec 17 2025, 09:25 PM) Yeah. Something like that. He is in his room most of the time other than meal time. No more hanging out with us at the living room. Whenever I give advice, I hear grunts. Only had conversation during meal time, and during sending and picking him up to school. Aiyo.Me outstation also no more video calls. Still got 3 years before my daughter also become the same |
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Dec 17 2025, 10:05 PM
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Just finish watching Edgar Wright The Running Man...
Q : Family? Ben : Everything  |
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Dec 17 2025, 10:12 PM
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They say children are our karma,
either we owe them, or they owe us. |
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Dec 17 2025, 10:36 PM
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364 posts Joined: Jan 2018 From: Tim Apple
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pls born more, the gov thank you for your contribution cause i aint plan to have kids either way
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