Ever since ayam haz becomes a father, work becum not EZ.
Previously can goyan kaki etc abit, now work very hard thinking of baby cause very motivating, mau better future for kidz. Also seldom out with friends cause thought of those time can be better utilized to lie down sleep beside kids better.

Nao at work can't wait to go home see baby, play with baby, carry them around bring go buy grocery and then play toys with them.

/K how do you deal with missing your kid whilst you at work.

This post has been edited by babykon101: Dec 17 2025, 05:28 PM

i lack motivation to work

maybe starting a family will the motivation comes back

enjoy while u can till they start giving u cold shoulder

hopefully your kid not end up like charsiew borrowing loan from ahlong in phuture

This. Now my son is 13 years old, I started to miss his 11 years old version.

good time flies.

What toy u play with kid??

Congrats on being a dad.

You work thinking of your kid lo. It sounds like you have a daughter hahahaha.

Why? Cuz prefer play game on phone n see peers than see you?

being a mother even harder

When u absorbed with work, won't think kids
U r still not focus enough

later your waifu tell you, "if you miss so much can take night shift wake up at 4 am tukar pampers/bancuh susu"

Me too. Now eldest is 11 yo. Headache

I work from home. So my kid is here with me all the time

to reduce the stress, you should have at least 3 kids.

The hard part is yet to come.

Year 1, hardly any sleep. Year 2, feeding and chasing. Year 3, repeat year 2.

try chew and eat ur baby

Kids need a lot of attention, care, love, motivation, guides, inspiration...etc. You can't just tell them to read books or do homework alone. Even play toys too, can't let them do it alone. Got to sit beside them, go through the process with them

Don’t discourage TS, society need more selfless ppl like TS to avoid rapid depopulation

Ayam’s bet is with Skynet.

Not necessary.When they reach certain age like 7 yr, you don't need to insert yourself into their attention all the time. You just need to be there. In the background, respond when needed, else just observe.