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post Dec 17 2025, 10:41 PM

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post Dec 17 2025, 10:43 PM

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It's a lifetime commitment. Takes a special kind of man to endure through all the way to the end. Welcome to the club ts.

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post Dec 17 2025, 10:44 PM

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Congrats yo
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post Dec 18 2025, 05:06 AM

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QUOTE(babykon101 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:28 PM)
/K how do you deal with missing your kid whilst you at work.
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Outsourced Montessori/daycare
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post Dec 18 2025, 07:37 AM

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QUOTE(babykon101 @ Dec 17 2025, 06:28 PM)
Ever since ayam haz becomes a father, work becum not EZ.
Previously can goyan kaki etc abit, now work very hard thinking of baby cause very motivating, mau better future for kidz. Also seldom out with friends cause thought of those time can be better utilized to lie down sleep beside kids better.

Nao at work can't wait to go home see baby, play with baby, carry them around bring go buy grocery and then play toys  with them.

/K how do you deal with missing your kid whilst you at work.
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I work from home, 24/7 with baby. Totally different from you lol

Luckily you work at office, try 24/7 of constant baby cry, every few hours for 2-3 months
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post Dec 18 2025, 07:42 AM

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QUOTE(malz89 @ Dec 17 2025, 07:12 PM)
The hard part is yet to come.

Year 1, hardly any sleep. Year 2, feeding and chasing. Year 3, repeat year 2.
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Gm
Year 1 - MIL helped

Year 2 - my eldest no, grateful she’s always been mature and listen to us, angel kid. 2nd son - half half, now he’s 2.. always say no no no

Year 3 - my eldest has build her own personality, chatter box, love to play, love to be independent, can express herself what she want, dont like, why. I can be gentle dad and talk logic + reason with her, and she learn fast
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post Dec 18 2025, 08:00 AM

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ayam same , just substitute kids with cats
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post Dec 18 2025, 08:00 AM

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QUOTE(cuddlybubblyteddy @ Dec 18 2025, 07:42 AM)
Gm
Year 1 - MIL helped

Year 2 - my eldest no, grateful she’s always been mature and listen to us, angel kid. 2nd son - half half, now he’s 2.. always say no no no

Year 3 - my eldest has build her own personality, chatter box, love to play, love to be independent, can express herself what she want, dont like, why. I can be gentle dad and talk logic + reason with her, and she learn fast
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God all ayam wish is to have a smart daughter .


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post Dec 18 2025, 08:21 AM

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you called them men, father but they are just grown up kids... go figure
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post Dec 18 2025, 08:27 AM

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QUOTE(babykon101 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:28 PM)
Ever since ayam haz becomes a father, work becum not EZ.
Previously can goyan kaki etc abit, now work very hard thinking of baby cause very motivating, mau better future for kidz. Also seldom out with friends cause thought of those time can be better utilized to lie down sleep beside kids better.

Nao at work can't wait to go home see baby, play with baby, carry them around bring go buy grocery and then play toys  with them.

/K how do you deal with missing your kid whilst you at work.
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Always a bless

But only the first child is like this. Next kids already normalized.
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post Dec 18 2025, 08:31 AM

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soon to be..read the tips here..not bad..guees i will need more coffee and sacrifice alot
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post Dec 18 2025, 08:32 AM

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QUOTE(MegaCanonF @ Dec 18 2025, 09:00 AM)
God all ayam wish is to have a smart daughter .
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Ask and you shall receive.


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post Dec 18 2025, 08:38 AM

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No wonder many lie flat

Ts better ask mod to remove this thread


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post Dec 18 2025, 08:42 AM

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QUOTE(babykon101 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:28 PM)
Ever since ayam haz becomes a father, work becum not EZ.
Previously can goyan kaki etc abit, now work very hard thinking of baby cause very motivating, mau better future for kidz. Also seldom out with friends cause thought of those time can be better utilized to lie down sleep beside kids better.

Nao at work can't wait to go home see baby, play with baby, carry them around bring go buy grocery and then play toys  with them.

/K how do you deal with missing your kid whilst you at work.
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understand bro.... me too...
just sabar bro... later go back only play with kid...

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post Dec 18 2025, 08:44 AM

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QUOTE(cloud666 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:36 PM)
enjoy while u can till they start giving u cold shoulder
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post Dec 18 2025, 08:47 AM

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i set my daughter pic as my phone wake wallpaper.
motivation for work.
later evening will play with her, gado2 a bit. lari2 a bit.
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post Dec 18 2025, 08:57 AM

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QUOTE(R0ADTAX @ Dec 17 2025, 05:29 PM)
i lack motivation to work

maybe starting a family will the motivation comes back
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just buy another house... does the same trick.... at least anytime u can sell off the house. biggrin.gif
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post Dec 18 2025, 09:03 AM

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QUOTE(babykon101 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:28 PM)
Ever since ayam haz becomes a father, work becum not EZ.
Previously can goyan kaki etc abit, now work very hard thinking of baby cause very motivating, mau better future for kidz. Also seldom out with friends cause thought of those time can be better utilized to lie down sleep beside kids better.

Nao at work can't wait to go home see baby, play with baby, carry them around bring go buy grocery and then play toys  with them.

/K how do you deal with missing your kid whilst you at work.
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EZ, didnt make any kidz.

The world is oledi overpopulated.
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post Dec 18 2025, 09:18 AM

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QUOTE(blanket84 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:44 PM)
This. Now my son is 13 years old, I started to miss his 11 years old version.
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I think this is the time to become friend2 with your teenage kid.
70:40 70% dad, 40% friend.

I think your upbringing will also try to undo the bad and emulate the good the treatment you had when you're a teen too. blush.gif


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post Dec 18 2025, 09:44 AM

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QUOTE(Chyan @ Dec 18 2025, 09:18 AM)
I think this is the time to become friend2 with your teenage kid.
70:40 70% dad, 40% friend.

I think your upbringing will also try to undo the bad and emulate the good the treatment you had when you're a teen too.  blush.gif
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10% come from where ?

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