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Being father not EZ
Being father not EZ
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Dec 17 2025, 10:41 PM
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Dec 17 2025, 10:43 PM
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It's a lifetime commitment. Takes a special kind of man to endure through all the way to the end. Welcome to the club ts. TsubakiKira and Quazacolt liked this post
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Dec 17 2025, 10:44 PM
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Congrats yo
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Dec 18 2025, 05:06 AM
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Dec 18 2025, 07:37 AM
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QUOTE(babykon101 @ Dec 17 2025, 06:28 PM) Ever since ayam haz becomes a father, work becum not EZ. I work from home, 24/7 with baby. Totally different from you lolPreviously can goyan kaki etc abit, now work very hard thinking of baby cause very motivating, mau better future for kidz. Also seldom out with friends cause thought of those time can be better utilized to lie down sleep beside kids better. Nao at work can't wait to go home see baby, play with baby, carry them around bring go buy grocery and then play toys with them. /K how do you deal with missing your kid whilst you at work. Luckily you work at office, try 24/7 of constant baby cry, every few hours for 2-3 months Quazacolt liked this post
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Dec 18 2025, 07:42 AM
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QUOTE(malz89 @ Dec 17 2025, 07:12 PM) The hard part is yet to come. GmYear 1, hardly any sleep. Year 2, feeding and chasing. Year 3, repeat year 2. Year 1 - MIL helped Year 2 - my eldest no, grateful she’s always been mature and listen to us, angel kid. 2nd son - half half, now he’s 2.. always say no no no Year 3 - my eldest has build her own personality, chatter box, love to play, love to be independent, can express herself what she want, dont like, why. I can be gentle dad and talk logic + reason with her, and she learn fast |
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Dec 18 2025, 08:00 AM
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ayam same , just substitute kids with cats
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Dec 18 2025, 08:00 AM
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QUOTE(cuddlybubblyteddy @ Dec 18 2025, 07:42 AM) Gm God all ayam wish is to have a smart daughter . Year 1 - MIL helped Year 2 - my eldest no, grateful she’s always been mature and listen to us, angel kid. 2nd son - half half, now he’s 2.. always say no no no Year 3 - my eldest has build her own personality, chatter box, love to play, love to be independent, can express herself what she want, dont like, why. I can be gentle dad and talk logic + reason with her, and she learn fast |
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Dec 18 2025, 08:21 AM
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you called them men, father but they are just grown up kids... go figure Quazacolt liked this post
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Dec 18 2025, 08:27 AM
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QUOTE(babykon101 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:28 PM) Ever since ayam haz becomes a father, work becum not EZ. Always a blessPreviously can goyan kaki etc abit, now work very hard thinking of baby cause very motivating, mau better future for kidz. Also seldom out with friends cause thought of those time can be better utilized to lie down sleep beside kids better. Nao at work can't wait to go home see baby, play with baby, carry them around bring go buy grocery and then play toys with them. /K how do you deal with missing your kid whilst you at work. But only the first child is like this. Next kids already normalized. |
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Dec 18 2025, 08:31 AM
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soon to be..read the tips here..not bad..guees i will need more coffee and sacrifice alot
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Dec 18 2025, 08:32 AM
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Dec 18 2025, 08:38 AM
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No wonder many lie flat
Ts better ask mod to remove this thread |
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Dec 18 2025, 08:42 AM
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QUOTE(babykon101 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:28 PM) Ever since ayam haz becomes a father, work becum not EZ. understand bro.... me too...Previously can goyan kaki etc abit, now work very hard thinking of baby cause very motivating, mau better future for kidz. Also seldom out with friends cause thought of those time can be better utilized to lie down sleep beside kids better. Nao at work can't wait to go home see baby, play with baby, carry them around bring go buy grocery and then play toys with them. /K how do you deal with missing your kid whilst you at work. just sabar bro... later go back only play with kid... |
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Dec 18 2025, 08:44 AM
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Dec 18 2025, 08:47 AM
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i set my daughter pic as my phone wake wallpaper.
motivation for work. later evening will play with her, gado2 a bit. lari2 a bit. |
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Dec 18 2025, 08:57 AM
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Dec 18 2025, 09:03 AM
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QUOTE(babykon101 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:28 PM) Ever since ayam haz becomes a father, work becum not EZ. EZ, didnt make any kidz.Previously can goyan kaki etc abit, now work very hard thinking of baby cause very motivating, mau better future for kidz. Also seldom out with friends cause thought of those time can be better utilized to lie down sleep beside kids better. Nao at work can't wait to go home see baby, play with baby, carry them around bring go buy grocery and then play toys with them. /K how do you deal with missing your kid whilst you at work. The world is oledi overpopulated. |
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Dec 18 2025, 09:18 AM
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QUOTE(blanket84 @ Dec 17 2025, 05:44 PM) I think this is the time to become friend2 with your teenage kid. 70:40 70% dad, 40% friend. I think your upbringing will also try to undo the bad and emulate the good the treatment you had when you're a teen too. |
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Dec 18 2025, 09:44 AM
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