QUOTE(Malefic @ Apr 8 2008, 06:35 PM)
Some LYN people really crack me up
1. Let me get this straight - are y'all saying that if I have the money, I am not supposed to spend it on a Beemer or join priority banking ... otherwise it's a sign of low self-worth or it's stupid or the money will be gone in two years?
2. How many of the people here who feel "offended" at my "live life" philosophy are rich? If you are not rich, or at least have a higher net worth than me, you are not qualified to preach to me
3. if you want to drive a Proton, live in a kampung house, wear old clothes, coz "the millionaires next door did it" - please, be my guest. Just don't tell me how to spend
my money

Added on April 8, 2008, 6:42 pmAnd there are some millionaires being driven in BMWs and Mercs. If they can afford it, why not?
1. No that's not what I'm saying. You are certainly entitled to do with your money as you wish. My comment relates more to the motivation and reason behind why you choose to spend your money. If you want to buy a beemer because you enjoy cars and wish to experience the ultimate driving machine, that's your choice. But if you want to buy a beemer to show off, or to keep up with the Joneses, then that's different. From your post earlier, it seems that your motivation is to "flaunt", to show that you "have left the ranks of peasants". By extension then you are implying that others who do not display signs of wealth are peasants.
2. I'm not offended by your philosophy. I just think it's kind of shallow. So how do you define rich? Please let us know your net worth then we can feedback if we're qualified to preach to you or not.
3. Again, I'm not telling you how to spend your money. I'm just commenting on your philosophy and how you view others who don't display obvious signs of wealth.
4. Indeed why not? The key is "why". It's your choices to do or not to do something that defines you and shows others who you are. Of course you can be driven around in a BMW - that tells something about you. You can also go around in an old Proton - that also tells something about you. So what sort of message do you want to send out? It's your choice.