Very obvious and the rumor is true very likely. Time to move on

buy a new car to reward yourself
release some stress

you got a fucking lousy boss who doesn't know what you actually do.. and hired her just to show he's doing some work... she's probably blowing him also la...

just leave la.

Lower your performance..

You first. Make them expect you have a life

I'm not sure if I should believe the "heavy workload" judging from how much time you spent on this forum.

Time to jump ship from this toxic company bro

I think need to hear both sides of the story

You only see me when I’m here

How about when you don’t see me here

how about being bersyukur for your job and still get bonus and increment.
stop meroyan and just do your job.

also if load too heavy, delegate to your team and start to miss deadlines.
if your boss want to diu u, just let him and remind him about his FUBU
maybe he can hire another guy to help, so he got more time with FUBU.

the art here is to slow down job slowly, not immediately. miss deadlines here and there, request for extensions.
ask ur team to do more, train them.

btw, remember to surf /k more. its fun for us old timers.

Go back on time since your promotion is blocked and increment is cut. Just say you already hired someone to help, tak kan 1 year half apa lanjiao still dunno do

"dont know how many weekends i've work this year, every week got few days where need to work nights"

first step is to stop this . since you said your promotion and increment got cut.

just do bare minimum to get by.

at the same time update your linkedin .

wish you all the best .

Hard to take your rant seriously when you also gossip about your colleague. Anyway it's your life. All the best

Jump sideways or take paycut
Or just take it as character building/EQ test

You know what I did, going AWOL. Aftermath, a year later all supporting team on all frontline no exceptions, transfer to hq.
They want any help, fill the form and wait for turn. Now what happens ? they burden their staff with job outside their portfolio, equipment broken B4 warranty end. Their kpi drop. The list is going on.
Me going AWOL was breaking point for all that happen.
And the 'u were right ' is written all over their face.

Before this. The 3rd last job, same as u, got helping hand, but wonder round doing nothing, karma hit by her Moto accident with deep scars all over her face. No amount of make up can cover up. Oh got broken bone also.

U got the answer then. Move on, u r not as important.

its sad, but you already not in line for promotion or increment anyway, let loose a little
why not take a long break? 2wks should be good enough

Get another job then quit if not just tahan.....

Since no increment and no promotion. Dun work extra. Start on time and finish on time. Go home on time. Dun work on weekends.

Let the work pile a bit, since they dun reward you so why bother. Unless u worried u no job then continue to do as you do.

I got a friend just like this. Work like crazy dog. No increment and no promotion. Complain but still do the same because worry no job and dun want to find job outside because in comfort zone. Stress but dare not burst the bubble.

When u end up in hospital. No one will visit you. At best send u flowers then give u fruit basket when u return to office.

This post has been edited by lkyoong: Jul 11 2025, 03:56 PM

Take intimate photos of the girl with your boss. Kasi send pics to boss punya wife.

No balls to quit, say lah.
Vent for what.
If got balls, just submit resignation letter.
If not....forever venting inside out.

When you go on long sabbatical to attend MBA (or any other training) you will break the chain and clear your brain.