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TSJoeK
post Jul 11 2025, 09:39 AM, updated 5 months ago

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i'm bitter with my colleague until i dont know where to vent already

since i dont gossip with kakak office about workplace politics, i decided to vent here


my workload is terrible, dont know how many weekends i've work this year, every week got few days where need to work nights
my boss acknowledged my burden, so 1 and half years ago he hired this lady to work with me. and in terms of position, she's higher rank than me
i teach her everything, guide her, help her. whatever she needs

now 1 and half years later, my work burden doesnt ease. terrible as before.
meanwhile she? jalan2 in office doing nothing, every month take annual leaves dont know go where. in every meeting i was held accountable (remember her rank is higher than me)

i decided to vent to my big boss about it. beh tahan this workload.
boss say give her time. and he cite me as example - need time to get familiar
but 1 year and half has passed already. still need to get familiar? i myself dont need 1 and half year to get familiar doh.gif doh.gif


last month my promotion got blocked. fak me i'm angry to the moon!! vmad.gif vmad.gif
this is on top of my increment kena cut last December

my performance report was excellent for the past 3 years. yet my increment got cut, my promotion got blocked ranting.gif ranting.gif

i'm bitter as hell since this weekend tomorrow will likely have to work again.

fak me and this company cry.gif cry.gif
TSJoeK
post Jul 11 2025, 09:42 AM

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now new rumours circulating that this new colleague is having an affair with big boss

i acknowledge because she's quite pretty amoi actually

but fak my life

This post has been edited by JoeK: Jul 11 2025, 09:42 AM
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post Jul 11 2025, 09:43 AM

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QUOTE(mushigen @ Jul 11 2025, 09:41 AM)
Posted in wrong section?
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post in correct section here in serious kopitiam. because i dont know where to vent already

QUOTE(awol @ Jul 11 2025, 09:42 AM)
1 and half year?
my case already 3 years, the same.
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fak us cry.gif cry.gif
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post Jul 11 2025, 09:46 AM

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QUOTE(ctys2012 @ Jul 11 2025, 09:45 AM)
the money is good and you cant quit?
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been trying to quit. most companies i applied cant match my current salary.

few offers came from consulting companies, but i dont wish to join consulting
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post Jul 11 2025, 10:12 AM

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QUOTE(ipohps3 @ Jul 11 2025, 09:52 AM)
no poll today?
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no poll because serious topic
QUOTE(seinganchai @ Jul 11 2025, 09:52 AM)
U r cornered -Time to take a break and go for retraining
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i want to take break. i still got 26 annual leaves available as of today. but too many works cry.gif cry.gif

so here i am main k to release stress
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post Jul 11 2025, 10:13 AM

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QUOTE(jojolicia @ Jul 11 2025, 10:09 AM)
You train someone higher rank higher pay grade in the org to assist you? Tabuli
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kuli is like this la

QUOTE(giftfre @ Jul 11 2025, 10:10 AM)
Joe, she aldy obtained Key of success from you boss.

At the moment, you only can avoid from direct Face to Face conflict with her.
Play along the game and hold longer in your position if you can't get any better offer.
Remain yourself in your boss game plan, that's important compare with any unfairness which you facing nw(since you don't have better option).
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yes no choice la, that's where i am today cry.gif cry.gif
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post Jul 11 2025, 10:15 AM

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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Jul 11 2025, 10:13 AM)
What was the reason they gave u for blocking yr promotion n cutting yr increment?
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company was doing super well. order intake reached record level for few years already
because of this, the company is paying too many bonuses and rewards to the employees until exceeded budget.


i dont kelentong you. this is the actual reasons they gave me

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post Jul 11 2025, 10:16 AM

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QUOTE(evangelion @ Jul 11 2025, 10:13 AM)
Construction line or finance line?
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i'm in energy and utilities
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post Jul 11 2025, 10:17 AM

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QUOTE(JoeK @ Jul 11 2025, 09:46 AM)
been trying to quit. most companies i applied cant match my current salary.

few offers came from consulting companies, but i dont wish to join consulting
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QUOTE(dawnreaver @ Jul 11 2025, 10:16 AM)
Why can't you look for a new job?
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reasons above
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post Jul 11 2025, 12:04 PM

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QUOTE(dexeric @ Jul 11 2025, 10:18 AM)
Is your position will break without you?
If yes, just send resignation letter
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everybody can be replaced punya

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post Jul 11 2025, 12:32 PM

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QUOTE(Zot @ Jul 11 2025, 12:20 PM)
Since performance good but promotion blocked and no increment, then just take your leisure time and work at pace you like.

Who will get bad reputation is your dept does not perform? It will be your boss.
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Increment still got, but lower

Still, they cut 2-3 percent also I bitter
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post Jul 11 2025, 12:33 PM

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QUOTE(ry8128 @ Jul 11 2025, 12:11 PM)
Serious K not place for you to vent.

On a serious note, what I see:
- your lady boss is fking your big boss
- you are the scapegoat and work horse for your lady boss
- increment all give to the lady boss for being willing to get f by your big boss

Conclusion: time to go
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No where else to vent bro

Now mid age already, ask kawan go out lepak also many busy la, got kids to jaga la, bini outstation la etc etc
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post Jul 11 2025, 02:27 PM

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QUOTE(poweredbydiscuz @ Jul 11 2025, 12:43 PM)
I'm not sure if I should believe the "heavy workload" judging from how much time you spent on this forum.
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You only see me when I’m here

How about when you don’t see me here

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