who don't want

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The man planning to visit…

But he is bit worried it’ll be just a short meeting, since she can’t go out freely.

She doesn’t have a driving license yet, and she’s not allowed to go out casually.


Usually, she can only walk to the nearby 99 Speedmart to buy a few items.


After 5 PM, she’s allowed to walk around for about 2 hours as exercise after dinner.

This post has been edited by plouffle0789: Jun 15 2025, 10:28 PM

I updated.

Please give advice

They really love each other

I updated my post


Please give advice

During my school day. 1 girl age 15 b4 age 30. They stay in same taman.
They get married right after the girl finish SPM.

Now after so many years still happy family with many kids.
No issue as long 1 willing to sacrifice

Updated my thread

Please read again

I would advice the man wait for her Spm finished first, then when go uni or college baru continue.

Why?

Diam 7 lah sei sohai autistic ukeke dupe

17 is still very immature. Leave her alone!

Education first. Let her study, & excel Spm first. Maybe when tertiary would be ideal start. She needs it for her future or secure an occupation. Don't spoil a young girl future.

actually i'm not qualified to give advice, but can only share my experience and up to individual couples.


Q: Can such a relationship last long despite the age gap and the distance?
Dont know yet, my case is 6 months but expectations are not very high. We live one day at a time and just enjoy the process while we can.


Q: Do you think meeting monthly is enough to build a strong connection?
I personally think it is the frequent texting, video calls and makes the connection strong. Sharing life's up and down consistently builds the relationship and maintains a strong link. Once the text and communication stops, there's no more relationship to speak of. Then the once a month meet up becomes very intense and memorable, appreciating each other's physical presence. Then we go back to daily routine and plan for the next physical meet up. Quite fun lah. But again it is setting and meeting expectations.

So girls parents know they in relationship or not during 15 years old?

A lot of groomers in /k

The girl seems like not in education.

And macam live in prison ?

She is in SMK.

Normally elders do not allow you anyhow go out one.

They scare you got cheat by man

The man is TS?

If bukan, why TS care so much?

If big age gap, need to look at girls age.

Eg 30 year old girl and 49 year old man. Quite workable, even though 19 year gap. Coz girl already mature, more experienced in life and has much better idea of what she wants. Probably had her fun but now want to settle.

But 17 yo girl and 34 yo man is much more difficult. Girl is just a kid going into adulthood. Unless she is hulu kampung girl and they plan to live in the kampung, dont see how it can last.

Yes!!!
Parent approved the relationship. Duh that guy is rich 😂

Love is just a combination of youth, hormones and sex. Why cannot as long one male one female. Spa got so much love all night long between young and old else long ago out of business already luh. Marriage is a whole other animal because the parents/relatives/bffs can sink the marriage by manipulating the narratives.

This post has been edited by Penamer: Jun 16 2025, 02:17 PM